Hi Ms. Marlee,
Marlee said:
So, for over a year our handyman has been doing things for us, he is a friend of my husband.
Nice....
Marlee said:
He has seen me in very sheer clothes and makes remarks, BUT has not made a move on me.
That's because your handyman values his friendship with your husband, and thinks "making a move on you" might destroy that (along with his job as your handyman, which he probably also values).
Marlee said:
There's nothing wrong with that. It's totally reasonable for you to want to go to bed with your (physically-attractive, I'll guess) handyman.
Marlee said:
So should I just reach out and touch him?
That would be a good start. Next time he comes to your home, touch him on the arm when you greet him while smiling and making eye contact (and while wearing somewhat-revealing clothing). That's a conventional way for a woman to tell a man she likes him. Then, find an opportunity to walk close behind him and brush your tits on his back. That's a conventional way for a woman to tell a man she wants to go to bed with him.
Marlee said:
Should I take his hand and put it on me? He's made cracks like eatin' ain't cheatin.' Should I remind him he said it? Hubby saiid take him upstairs and go for it.
Perfect. You're in an ideal situation. Tell your handyman there's a problem upstairs you would like him to look at, then lead him upstairs to your bedroom. Then, slip off your short dress (wearing no panties or bra), and stand before him in the nude. Then, tell him the problem is, you have the hots for him and you're quite sure he will be able to fix that. And, your husband has told you to let him know he should go ahead with fixing your problem. Then, in case there is any doubt in his mind, step up close to him, embrace him and give him a lingering French kiss.
Alternatively: when you take your handyman upstairs, don't go so far as to take your dress off and stand before him in the nude. Rather, inform him (as above) that your problem is, you have the hots for him, and your husband has told you it will be OK if he fixes your problem. Then, step close to him, embrace him and give him a lingering French kiss.
Marlee said:
He knows I dont wear undies or bra.
So much the better. What you've said strongly suggests he has the hots for you.
Marlee said:
HELP, I don't want to scare him off.
If you proceed as I've suggested, I don't think it will scare him off. Rather, it will result in him fixing your problem — with many ongoing fixes in the future, most likely.
Finally, thank you for posting your photo, Ms. Marlee. It's obvious why your handyman has the hots for you. I hope your budding career as a hotwife goes well.