Hi Ms. Kentcuckcouple,
Kentcuckcouple said:
As our titte suggests were a cuck couple and this is new to me. He's only 5 inches and I am looking to talk and discuss the cuckold arrangement with male or female to get more of an idea and understanding.
Since your husband is not over-endowed, as you point out, and has acquiesced to being your cuckold — which, by definition, means he has acquiesced to you being the dominant partner in your marriage — I suggest you could increase the pleasure of your sexual interactions with him, while also increasing his acceptance of your dominance — by acquiring a strap-on dildo (if you haven't already) and fucking him anally with your strap-on, on a regular basis. See, e.g.:
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Reader
Note, incidentally, that acquiescence by your cuckold to being fucked anally by you will not, in any sense, imply that he is "gay." It is something he may find sexually satisfying (he may cum in this way) due to stimulation of his prostate with your strap-on. Note also that you too may attain orgasms in this way from stimulation of your clitoris with your strap-on harness while fucking him.
An additional way for your cuckold to demonstrate his acquiescence to your lead role in your marriage would be to kiss your ass and give you analingus, as often as you feel so-inclined — ideally each day, or perhaps in between the days when you fuck him anally with your strap-on. Some women are able to have pleasurable orgasms in this way (there are thousands of nerve endings around one's anus).... perhaps you will find you are among them.
I wish you well, once again, with your "hotwife / cuckold husband" marriage and your search for satisfying lovers.
—Custer