As a rule, cuckolds enjoy and receive significant sexual pleasure from their wives having sex with other men. In my case, even though cuckoldry was initially imposed on me by my wife, I have learned to get sexual pleasure from her play and enjoy my position in the relationship. I have always possessed strong voyeuristic tendencies and tend to be a beta-type male--- so cuckoldry naturally appeals to me in spite of having it “******” on me. In fact, today I am completely over any jealousy issues and I am comfortable with her having sex outside our marriage. My biggest “complaint” is that Krissy will not allow me to participate the way I would like--- watching, listening, etc. Most of what I know about her sexual experiences is covertly gleaned from text messages, emails, listening to her phone conversations, etc. (One time she locked her phone and I couldn’t read her text messages--- this drove me crazy).
Perhaps my biggest issue at this time is with the “relationships” Kris has with her regular lovers. Kris has 3 regular studs she fucks and she has a place in her heart for each one of them. One is a divorcee trying to reconcile with his ex wife, one is married in an open relationship and one is married cheating on his wife. Krissy has a relationship with each of them--- often telling me in great deal about their personal lives and the struggles/issues they have. In truth, she spends substantially more time telling me about her studs’ personal life than about the “play”. When she fucks these guys, they spend an hour or 2 playing and then 2 or 3 visiting. Sometimes, they go to the movies or out to dinner as a precursor to the sex. They are her “friends”.
This “emotional infidelity” is of concern--- not because I believe my wife will fall in love with one of these men and run off, but because her relationship with them takes away (in time and energy) from my relationship with Kristen. Aside from appreciating that her lovers are “ordinary” folks that just like to fuck my wife--- I don’t really give a shit about them and don’t really want to hear all about their kids’ chickenpox or how mean their wives’ are to them.
One thing I have learned is that my wife, and I believe many women in general, are able to, and possess a need to, have more than one emotional relationship. It’s a basic reason why some women seek sex with other men (or women). Men tend to either be possessive or they just want to fuck. Women on the other hand want and need “relationships”. There may be some “evolutionary psychological” reasons for this need--- but notwithstanding it drives some women to seek and maintain multiple relationships.
Thus, while the husband usually enjoys the position of primary friend and lover, in a cuckold relationship he will likely have to view his relationship with his hot wife as being one of several or many intimate/emotional relationships his wife maintains.
What are your thoughts and experiences?
CuckoldMick
Perhaps my biggest issue at this time is with the “relationships” Kris has with her regular lovers. Kris has 3 regular studs she fucks and she has a place in her heart for each one of them. One is a divorcee trying to reconcile with his ex wife, one is married in an open relationship and one is married cheating on his wife. Krissy has a relationship with each of them--- often telling me in great deal about their personal lives and the struggles/issues they have. In truth, she spends substantially more time telling me about her studs’ personal life than about the “play”. When she fucks these guys, they spend an hour or 2 playing and then 2 or 3 visiting. Sometimes, they go to the movies or out to dinner as a precursor to the sex. They are her “friends”.
This “emotional infidelity” is of concern--- not because I believe my wife will fall in love with one of these men and run off, but because her relationship with them takes away (in time and energy) from my relationship with Kristen. Aside from appreciating that her lovers are “ordinary” folks that just like to fuck my wife--- I don’t really give a shit about them and don’t really want to hear all about their kids’ chickenpox or how mean their wives’ are to them.
One thing I have learned is that my wife, and I believe many women in general, are able to, and possess a need to, have more than one emotional relationship. It’s a basic reason why some women seek sex with other men (or women). Men tend to either be possessive or they just want to fuck. Women on the other hand want and need “relationships”. There may be some “evolutionary psychological” reasons for this need--- but notwithstanding it drives some women to seek and maintain multiple relationships.
Thus, while the husband usually enjoys the position of primary friend and lover, in a cuckold relationship he will likely have to view his relationship with his hot wife as being one of several or many intimate/emotional relationships his wife maintains.
What are your thoughts and experiences?
CuckoldMick
