A couple of months ago the wife and I were looking at the adult porn station when a movie called Manhammer came on. I have had this thing about IR sex for some time and experienced with my 1st wife. Long story. Anyway I've never really talked about the experience or my fantasy, with my current wife. The first scene is a threesome, a white woman , a white guy and this black guy. The wife and I are watching and she says, god that black guy is really a lot bigger than the white guy. Then the wife goes on to say that it's pretty clear that the woman prefers the black guy. I then asked if she ever fantazied about sex with a black man and she stuns me by saying yes. That night we had great sex watching the movie. the following week I rented another movie , again with the same black actor, sure enough, it was a big turn on for the wife. I would never have guessed my current wife found Black men attractive. Recently I have noticed my wife talking more often to a black guy at the gym we frequent. My wife has dennied that he flirts with her, but he sure has gotten friendly. I'm not sure how far I want this thing between my wife and the black man to go. I will watch them from a distance, him helping her with the weights, the smiles, the way she blushes sometimes, it's very exciting.
So if you want to stimulate interest let me suggest IR movies, but make sure it's what you want. Some times mixing fantasy with reality is not always good.