How do you get a wife to cuck you?

[jojo4017]

I have a red hot desire to have my wife cuck me but I don't think she would, however one never knows. I am to embarrassed to come out and ask her. She is not a slut nor do I want her to be, but if she was selective about it I would love it I know. I just love the thought of her heading out dressed in a hot skirt and looking so good you just want to bring her back in a fuck her yourself but you don't, you let her go to his house. You let him take your wife all dressed so nice and fuck her her good for you, enjoying her nice ass while I sit home wondering, mmmm I want it bad, I want her to come home and tease me about how he fucked her and how he enjoyed peeling off her skirt, and how she enjoyed him fucking her. It would be so humiliating but yet so hot if she told she had a cucked hubby and he could also help her tease me somehow or maybe sometime do it in front of me.
Anyway I am getting off subject so again any ideas on how I could get her to cuck me without being obvious about it.

 

[jojo4017]

PS. I don't think she has ever heard the term cuckold or would no anything about it.

 

[Custer Laststand]

You're gonna hafta talk with her....

Jojo,

I have a red hot desire to have my wife cuck me, but I don't think she would.... however, one never knows. I am too embarrassed to come out and ask her.

If your wife is too proper and discrete to bring it up, and you are too self-conscious and embarrassed to bring it up as well, you're stuck.

To determine whether there's even a possibility of making progress along these lines, you'll have to grip your balls firmly in one hand (to squeeze out some additional testosterone) and start talking with your wife about the things that are most important to you.... and, potentially, to her.

See, for instance, the recent post in this section ("General Cuckoldry") by FrankCuck.

—Custer

 

[jojo4017]

Well she did do it about 15 years ago and told me all the details, I loved it, I did not know what a cuck was so when I came accross this site I thought wow I have had all these desires and thoughts on my own.
As for her finding it's enjoyable and it no longer being my call, oh man I crave that so much. I want to have her in control.

 

[jojo4017]

I read an thing on cuckyboy.com about the different types of cuck there are I was a type 2 for sure. I love her having sex with other men, I love to have her tease me but yet be part of it without necessarily being physically present with her and her lover by telling me every little detail, I would enjoy her sexual power over me, and I for a fact have more desire and passion for her after she has been with another man.
This I know from the past 15 years plus ago although nether of us knew anything about cuckolding. I thought of myself as kind of strange because I had this desire, I never had any outside influences, now I know I am not alone and it may be more commen that I thought.

 

[jojo4017]

Again at the time we did not know what a cuck was, I was just a guy who wanted his wife to do it with someone else. I think she thought I was strange but she did like doing it with the guy she did it with, for a while anyway..

 

[Custer Laststand]

Jojo,

Well, she did do it about 15 years ago and told me all the details; I loved it....

That's very promising. If your wife fucked another man at least once in the past and your response was very positive, that strongly suggests she'll do it again if you convince her that's what you want and you're also convinced it will make your marriage more erotic and intense and will also strengthen it. To get started, you might suggest to your wife she read:

The Science of Cuckoldry Cuckold Couple

then talk with her about it.

—Custer





I want to have her in control.[/QUOTE]

 

[Custer Laststand]

I ran out of time w/ my previous post, so here's the rest.

After your wife reads (and you talk with her about) Susan Gower's article, you might suggest she read:

The Cuckold Phenomena Cuckold Couple

then also talk with her about this article.

Regarding your comment:

I want to have her in control.

I suggest referring your wife to Ms. Elise Sutton's website (i.e., google "elise sutton") and also encourage her to read Ms. Elise's two books which are advertised on her site (i.e., order them for her).

Cuckolding by wives of submissive husbands who remain faithful and accept their right to date and fuck other men is often a feature of femdom marriages. Thus, if your wife becomes intrigued by and accepts the desirability of transitioning to a femdom marriage, I suspect that will increase the probability of her also seeing and accepting the desirability of making you her cuckold.... with, of course, the stipulation that you will not use that as an excuse to pursue other women, but rather will remain faithful to her.

Good luck!

—Custer

 

[jojo4017]

Thanks custer. I don't want other women, I want to be the controlled humiliated cuck, mmmmm bad, I want her to do the fucking while I worship, adore and please her. Also help her dress for a date and more if she would
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[Custer Laststand]

Thanks custer.

You're welcome, Jojo.

I don't want other women, I want to be the controlled humiliated cuck.

Good. You have the right attitude.

I want [my wife] to do the fucking while I worship, adore and please her. Also, [I want to] help her dress for her dates, and more....

Excellent. You're on your way, potentially, to a greatly-improved marriage.

Now, you need to begin the process of convincing your wife of that. You need to begin communicating with her (as I mentioned above). There's no need to be ashamed of what you want to say to her. Women like men who talk seriously with them, in authentic ways, about things that matter — men who are communicative. Among the biggest complaints of women are, "my husband never talks with me" / "never listens to me."

Go for it.

—Custer

 

[hotwifeapril]

Communication is always the key to a successful relationship

 

[Melo-Jenny]

You have to take baby steps. I would suggest you work the subject into converstation casually such as with mainstream films. Rent movies like "Unfaithful", "Eyes wide Shut", etc, get her reaction to wifes having a sex outside the marriage and then move on to adult movies, join bush dvd or sugar dvd and rent "the lifestyle" a porn movie about a couple that gets into swinging, or rent a movie of a threesome or gangbang and while your watching bring up if that is something she likes. If you get a positive response move on to rent one of the "please screw my wife" series dvds and start to work it into your bedroom fantasy talk.

 

[jojo4017]

Thanks for the help but I am affraid it's a lost cause and I don't know what to do with my desire for it. It so energizes me, I get so pumped and I get so turned on by her just thinking about it. I am affraid everything will get mundane after awhile if I have to lose this desire, yes?

 

[slinky67]

A few ideas

Well, for me...i have always been honest from day one of a new relationship that I am a cuckold and that’s how I want to live my life. So my situation I admit is a little different. My latest partner (who was very vanilla when i first met her, but admitted to being quite a slut before she married) after taking time to believe me that it is a genuine lifestyle from me explaining it to her, showing the heaps of porn I have on the subject and looking at sites like this....she realised I and it was genuine. If your wife is dead against it and wants no part of it...don’t push her...its her right not to want it...you may however develop a healthy Femdom lifestyle that can offer you humiliation and that is still monogamous.
I have helped some other potential cucks as well as with a few pointers/tips...that aren’t gospel...but have seemed to work for me and a few others.

Firstly, you need to remove any fear in her that you desire to be with other women or that you will love her any less and that you only want to worship her in this manner...this has to be genuine at your end as well...don’t bullshit her...if you really want this life, be true to it and her.
In the sexual worship situation....we have a chastity cage I sometimes wear for her...just so she keeps me on the edge so to speak when she wants...she loves the control it symbolises and holds. Also wearing this, she knows if we to have sex it will all be on her terms..so she tends to feel like it more often knowing for a fact that there is no hassle for her at all and it can’t lead to intercourse or blowing me when she isn’t really up for it.

I give my partner all the oral sex she wants, at any time she asks for it...without anything in return...that means...exactly that...i go down on her....she cums...and then she chooses whether she wants anything further...to allow me anything or just happily rolls over and goes to sleep. Yes, she does leave me hanging plenty of times...but you either be true to the promise or not. Basically she can’t lose on the offer...its all her way...i usually give her oral 5-6 nights a week...and maybe 1-2 times that may turn into something else if she is then in the mood.

If we do fuck...i never cum in her unless she says its ok and if she has at least had one orgasm earlier...if I am unable to stop my orgasm...i always pull out and never soil her pussy without her having orgasmed...part of that worship is that why should she be left with my mess if she hasn’t climaxed as well. If she gives me the ok and I cum...she decides whether I orally clean her or not...this only tends to happen if she is really horny and feeling extra nasty.

As far as the cuckold porn...i show her almost everything I look at and save...i do masturbate quite a lot but never, ever to completion without her knowledge or supervision...my orgasms are ALWAYS her property...but I am allowed to play with myself while looking at cuck porn. I found the main benefit of being open about it was once she realised I was into the act/lifestyle itself and it also showed normal people with normal bodies...she was much lees intimidated that the porn her ex used to look at ie: blonde bimbos with big tits, playmates etc. where physically she couldn’t compare and never wanted to...where this was porn that one she related as far as the women in the pics...and two...she loved that cuckolding at its basic level is all about her wants and desires.

So that’s more the Femdom angle to it that we have and I have had before. The cuckolding part after a long time convincing that you are for real...and this is only about her having sex with others...you may be able to convince her to take the next step. We have advertised for bulls...and to be honest...you will get fucked around and yours and hers time waste most of the time...the shit bit I have found that once keen...my woman has dropped off it a bit once it all seems to get too hard and she gets deflated by no shows or guys who aren’t who they say they are. I have found swingers clubs to be much better...one the guys there are there for sex and sex only...she will usually have a large choice...she can just be a spectator if she chooses as most places never push you into something, so under no pressure to do anything...the guys are always well mannered...it can stay anonymous if you want...its on neutral ground...so your not inviting a stranger into your home etc. and if she picks up and enjoys him...then you can always swap numbers for fun another time.

She may just want to watch or even just fuck you there...heres the clincher on going to a swingers club if she is only 50/50 on the idea...offer to wear your cock cage there...yes...it is very humiliating...girls will giggle and laugh, guys will find it hilarious...and your wife may even feed off this as it does tend to get some attention...most people tend to be fascinated as well at your wifes control over you...if she is a control freak at all as mine is...you will understand and she will probably play up to it. But this will prove to her in front of others even that you are not there to get laid at all in any way whatsover...and that you wouldn’t suffer the humiliation of the cock cage in public...if it wasn’t only about her having fun. Maybe she may go, just to watch and with you locked up just too see how the other half live and to submit you to some of the humiliation you desire.

Hope these help...let me know if you feel any of these you feel will help you to where you want to go.

Even show her this and explain that this can be a genuine way to live your life and other do do exactly that.

Let me know your thoughts!

Cheers

Slinky

 

[hotwifeapril]

Have you talked with her?Any update on how it went with her if you did. Would love to hear.

I have a red hot desire to have my wife cuck me but I don't think she would, however one never knows. I am to embarrassed to come out and ask her. She is not a slut nor do I want her to be, but if she was selective about it I would love it I know. I just love the thought of her heading out dressed in a hot skirt and looking so good you just want to bring her back in a fuck her yourself but you don't, you let her go to his house. You let him take your wife all dressed so nice and fuck her her good for you, enjoying her nice ass while I sit home wondering, mmmm I want it bad, I want her to come home and tease me about how he fucked her and how he enjoyed peeling off her skirt, and how she enjoyed him fucking her. It would be so humiliating but yet so hot if she told she had a cucked hubby and he could also help her tease me somehow or maybe sometime do it in front of me.
Anyway I am getting off subject so again any ideas on how I could get her to cuck me without being obvious about it.

 

[jojo4017]

No I am still affraid to bring it up, I think because she would get pissed and tell me I don't love her.

 

[Jinxypie]

No I am still affraid to bring it up, I think because she would get pissed and tell me I don't love her.

You'll never know until you bring it up. When my cuck first brought it up, so many thoughts went through my head... but the more we discussed it, the easier it became to talk about, and eventually the easier it was to start.

 

[jojo4017]

Thanks Jinxy, I know but it's hard to bring up. I don't know what to do about it. I will say i love to have sex with her but a big part of her sex appeal to me is knowing she could do it, and how horny another guy would get being able to do what I am doing, pulling up her skirt and squeezing her nice ass then taking her a fucking her silly for me.
Man I get so horny just thinking of someone taking my wife and fucking her. sigh......