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How in the World do I get her Interested again! :) Always close ... never Goes Thru!

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We have been going back and forth forever on this. Do we Swing, Yes or No?

I was having a conversation with my wife about having sex with BBC and being a swinger for BBC but she says “Nope” not interested. However, we had a carpet delivered today by two BBC’s basically and I said nothing, but later my wife said “I knew when you saw those two black guys you were thinking about me sucking their cocks!” And then my wife used her hand and pretended to suck their black cocks. So, what does this mean? Was this her subtle way of letting me know she’s READY?! Based on this, and probably wishful thinking on my part, but does it seem that my wife is showing some level of interest and playfulness when it comes to BBC/swinging? Her comment about thinking of me thinking of her – sucking BBC was hot but does it suggest that she might have a level of engagement with the idea? While it's still not a definitive statement of intent when she was being playful, her response seems to suggest that she's open to the idea and might be willing to give it a try? So, how do I “Push her over the edge” and get my wife sucking, fucking, swallowing black cocks bareback and taking it in all of her holes while I watch like the cuckold I am? How do I offer her a taste or suggest trying it together? Has any other husband had this problem? My wife posts here all of the time and lets me read it and I get really hot but getting her to commit is so difficult.

How about my wife having a meaningful conversation with a supportive woman to truly understand and appreciate all the incredible benefits it offers? She's genuinely interested, but her shyness and apprehension are holding her back from experiencing something she'd undoubtedly love. Thank you so much for your help!

You can email my wife personally at: x27abea7484a@yahoo.com and me, cuck hubby at: DrGTMCol@proton.me.



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GHGirl said:
We have been going back and forth forever on this. Do we Swing, Yes or No?

I was having a conversation with my wife about having sex with BBC and being a swinger for BBC but she says “Nope” not interested. However, we had a carpet delivered today by two BBC’s basically and I said nothing, but later my wife said “I knew when you saw those two black guys you were thinking about me sucking their cocks!” And then my wife used her hand and pretended to suck their black cocks. So, what does this mean? Was this her subtle way of letting me know she’s READY?! Based on this, and probably wishful thinking on my part, but does it seem that my wife is showing some level of interest and playfulness when it comes to BBC/swinging? Her comment about thinking of me thinking of her – sucking BBC was hot but does it suggest that she might have a level of engagement with the idea? While it's still not a definitive statement of intent when she was being playful, her response seems to suggest that she's open to the idea and might be willing to give it a try? So, how do I “Push her over the edge” and get my wife sucking, fucking, swallowing black cocks bareback and taking it in all of her holes while I watch like the cuckold I am? How do I offer her a taste or suggest trying it together? Has any other husband had this problem? My wife posts here all of the time and lets me read it and I get really hot but getting her to commit is so difficult.

How about my wife having a meaningful conversation with a supportive woman to truly understand and appreciate all the incredible benefits it offers? She's genuinely interested, but her shyness and apprehension are holding her back from experiencing something she'd undoubtedly love. Thank you so much for your help!

You can email my wife personally at: x27abea7484a@yahoo.com and me, cuck hubby at: DrGTMCol@proton.me.



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Just ask her if she was thinking about it?
All u can do is let them do it in their own time. Can't rush things and force anything.
Ask her why it's a flat no. Openly discuss her feelings about it. Make her comfortable with it by showing ur support either way. Just tell her u want to understand why she is so against it.

Even if u blind folded her tied her to the bed and let bbc after bbc use her. She will hate u if she was against it to start. So find the common ground. Make the best out of anything she will do. If it's just fantasy then use it till she decides to take it further
 
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She knows what you want and teasing you.
Just tell her you want to watch her to do oral only.. and just try it. And if she doesn’t like it you won’t bother her again about it.
But once they have their first , it will repeat.

The wives are all about reputation.
And what you and others will think about her.
 
Palmbeachslutwife said:
She knows what you want and teasing you.
Just tell her you want to watch her to do oral only.. and just try it. And if she doesn’t like it you won’t bother her again about it.
But once they have their first , it will repeat.

The wives are all about reputation.
And what you and others will think about her.
I have to agree. If they have never excepted that "slut" isn't a bad word then it concerns them to be called one. Can only blame society on that. It pounded into our way of thinking.
Personally I thing "slut" should be more like PhD. It takes awhile to reach that status. When u do u should be respected.
 
Jaandaj said:
I have to agree. If they have never excepted that "slut" isn't a bad word then it concerns them to be called one. Can only blame society on that. It pounded into our way of thinking.
Personally I thing "slut" should be more like PhD. It takes awhile to reach that status. When u do u should be respected.
Yep
I use “good little slut” as a term of endearment.
Never say *****.. that will piss them off.

And it took me a few years to get my wife to swinging.. it’s definitely not an overnight process..
She thought I would hold it against her or leave her.. just talking during sex and let her know what I wanted. And told her to try it and never bother her again if she didn’t like it.
I’d recommend he take his wife to a swing house party , have a couple drinks and let her venture on her own . Give her space… After she sucks her first of course
 
GHGirl said:
We have been going back and forth forever on this. Do we Swing, Yes or No?

I was having a conversation with my wife about having sex with BBC and being a swinger for BBC but she says “Nope” not interested. However, we had a carpet delivered today by two BBC’s basically and I said nothing, but later my wife said “I knew when you saw those two black guys you were thinking about me sucking their cocks!” And then my wife used her hand and pretended to suck their black cocks. So, what does this mean? Was this her subtle way of letting me know she’s READY?! Based on this, and probably wishful thinking on my part, but does it seem that my wife is showing some level of interest and playfulness when it comes to BBC/swinging? Her comment about thinking of me thinking of her – sucking BBC was hot but does it suggest that she might have a level of engagement with the idea? While it's still not a definitive statement of intent when she was being playful, her response seems to suggest that she's open to the idea and might be willing to give it a try? So, how do I “Push her over the edge” and get my wife sucking, fucking, swallowing black cocks bareback and taking it in all of her holes while I watch like the cuckold I am? How do I offer her a taste or suggest trying it together? Has any other husband had this problem? My wife posts here all of the time and lets me read it and I get really hot but getting her to commit is so difficult.

How about my wife having a meaningful conversation with a supportive woman to truly understand and appreciate all the incredible benefits it offers? She's genuinely interested, but her shyness and apprehension are holding her back from experiencing something she'd undoubtedly love. Thank you so much for your help!

You can email my wife personally at: x27abea7484a@yahoo.com and me, cuck hubby at: DrGTMCol@proton.me.



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Let me ask.
Is she even into black cocks ?
A lot aren’t.
That might be an issue for her.
You have to let her pick what she wants.

And like I said , tell her just to try it. If she didn’t like it you won’t bother her anymore about it.

But I have to warn you.
Once you start swinging or watching..
It’s like an addictive drug and you will want more and more of it.
Always let her pick what she wants
 
GHGirl said:
We have been going back and forth forever on this. Do we Swing, Yes or No?I was having a conversation with my wife about having sex with BBC and being a swinger for BBC but she says “Nope” not interested. However, we had a carpet delivered today by two BBC’s basically and I said nothing, but later my wife said “I knew when you saw those two black guys you were thinking about me sucking their cocks!” And then my wife used her hand and pretended to suck their black cocks. So, what does this mean? Was this her subtle way of letting me know she’s READY?! Based on this, and probably wishful thinking on my part, but does it seem that my wife is showing some level of interest and playfulness when it comes to BBC/swinging? Her comment about thinking of me thinking of her – sucking BBC was hot but does it suggest that she might have a level of engagement with the idea? While it's still not a definitive statement of intent when she was being playful, her response seems to suggest that she's open to the idea and might be willing to give it a try? So, how do I “Push her over the edge” and get my wife sucking, fucking, swallowing black cocks bareback and taking it in all of her holes while I watch like the cuckold I am? How do I offer her a taste or suggest trying it together? Has any other husband had this problem? My wife posts here all of the time and lets me read it and I get really hot but getting her to commit is so difficult.How about my wife having a meaningful conversation with a supportive woman to truly understand and appreciate all the incredible benefits it offers? She's genuinely interested, but her shyness and apprehension are holding her back from experiencing something she'd undoubtedly love. Thank you so much for your help!You can email my wife personally at: x27abea7484a@yahoo.com and me, cuck hubby at: DrGTMCol@proton.me.sa3.jpg
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GHGirl said:
We have been going back and forth forever on this. Do we Swing, Yes or No?

I was having a conversation with my wife about having sex with BBC and being a swinger for BBC but she says “Nope” not interested. However, we had a carpet delivered today by two BBC’s basically and I said nothing, but later my wife said “I knew when you saw those two black guys you were thinking about me sucking their cocks!” And then my wife used her hand and pretended to suck their black cocks. So, what does this mean? Was this her subtle way of letting me know she’s READY?! Based on this, and probably wishful thinking on my part, but does it seem that my wife is showing some level of interest and playfulness when it comes to BBC/swinging? Her comment about thinking of me thinking of her – sucking BBC was hot but does it suggest that she might have a level of engagement with the idea? While it's still not a definitive statement of intent when she was being playful, her response seems to suggest that she's open to the idea and might be willing to give it a try? So, how do I “Push her over the edge” and get my wife sucking, fucking, swallowing black cocks bareback and taking it in all of her holes while I watch like the cuckold I am? How do I offer her a taste or suggest trying it together? Has any other husband had this problem? My wife posts here all of the time and lets me read it and I get really hot but getting her to commit is so difficult.

How about my wife having a meaningful conversation with a supportive woman to truly understand and appreciate all the incredible benefits it offers? She's genuinely interested, but her shyness and apprehension are holding her back from experiencing something she'd undoubtedly love. Thank you so much for your help!

You can email my wife personally at: x27abea7484a@yahoo.com and me, cuck hubby at: DrGTMCol@proton.me.



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My ex wife acted like she was uninterested in fuckin others.then would do behind my back.i invited two strangers in a casino parking to fuck her in the back seat of my truck when we were both fucked up.once she figured out I loved seeing her fuckin,she admitted she wanted it.