How to get your wife to cuckold you - your ideas?

[dig420]

The hardest part is getting started. Even if she's already cheating on you she'll deny, deny and deny some more. How do you tell your wife what you REALLY want and more importantly, get her to play along?

 

[Tresy]

I also would like to know the answer

 

[MarkandJacqui]

How to get your wife to cuckold you.​

The Start:

Ever since man first learned to walk upright there has been cuckolding. The stronger male taking partner/s off and away from the lessors of the species. That bull male mating with the lessors female just because he can. Knowing that he was going to get away with it because the female accepted the situation. It was what was done. A fact of life. The norm.

All throughout history cuckolding has been hidden within the boundaries of accepted social norms. Something that was kept indoors away from prying eyes and loose lips. Something that was never spoken about, but was known.

Then there was change.

Social acceptance, willingness to discuss and discover. The female sexual awaking and freedom that came with the changes in attitudes and society. The empowerment of the female sexual drive, her ability to express what she wants, who she wants. And how she wants it. Meant only one thing. The more submissive of the male population were about to be given a new purpose in life. Serving her needs.

But who decides.

For some it was the progression from husband and decision maker,to gradual sexual regression and natural replacement by the more powerful and stronger female partner. For others it was trial and error where the end result was the female getting all the sexual, emotional, and commitment control to express her wants and desires. Which in turn, were passed onto her more submissive male partner in the way of being controlled throughout the relationship.

For some it was the natural progression from the wife/girlfriend being the one who supervised, controlled, dictated the day to day running of everyday situations that slowly gave the male of the relationship the chance to surrender to his feeling of wanting to be overpowered and controlled.

But how to approach your partner.

Communication is the key to everything. Without it things wouldn't last very long. Blurting out over a coffee that you want your wife to sexually control you and have the freedom to have sex with who she wants. Is a sure fire way to need medical help to remove the pieces of china from your skull. Walking the path together will get results that satisfy both of you.

Start small. ask her if she is satisfied with the sex you have, are there things she would like to do more of, of try. You will be surprised how many couples suddenly find out that what they thought was "good sex for their partner", was in fact restricting both from realising your potentials.

Explain your feeling about your sexual frustration. After all, you are frustrated at not being who you want to be right, if you need to ask how do I get my wife to cuckold me.

Try giving her examples of what you mean. And no. Not some hardcore bull rough f*****g some petite wife while hurling obscenities at some hapless guy in a cock cage so tight that his testicles resemble some Greek marble statues. But some softcore examples. Give her some cuckolding stories to read, Explain how you love her, how she excites you. How you want to be with her. Then, when you have a dialog. Discuss everything, explain the advantages and freedoms she will gain and have access too. Explain the strengthening of your relationship. show her that multiple partners for her will revive and reignite your relationship and love. Explain what you get from everything. But doing it honestly and open.

But remember. Once the genie is out of the box it cannot be put back away. Whether you suddenly realise that its not for you when your partner is enjoying the new guy and you are confined to the corner chair. Or she is having too much fun in your eyes. You made the choice. Your partner will be doing it at first to make you happy. Because you asked her to do this. So tread carefully but honestly .

What a great post!
Totally agree with everything written particularly the last part.
My wife over a period of time has moved it along from doing it to please me, to taking control of our sex life.
Hell yes there are times even now some 16 years after our first experience I get jealous.
When we started it was with an ex of hers who was an extremely good looking confident guy who was double my cock size plus. Watching them that first time was intense and on more than one occasion it crossed my mind to stop it.
I'm glad I didn't because she needed it, our sex life went up significantly asci tried in vain to please her as he had but I had no chance and slowly encouraged her to see him more. She didn't need a lot of persuasion!
She has moved from there to meeting guys and telling me about her experiences afterwards on her return home. She has met guys from work( her boss has been seeing her 11 years!).
Our most intense experience was on holiday In tenerife.
We had a lovely boozy afternoon by the pool and two young guys eventually joined our chat and it got quite flirty. She leaned across to me and said " hope you don't mind lovely but it's time for you to go and have a nap!" Wow! We were on the same floor as them and I lay on my balcony I could hear the three of them playing. Was only away just over an hour but she totally enjoyed herself and loved telling me every detail.
Since then she plays mainly with her boss but every now and again she will flirt with a guy and disappear while we are out just because she can.
I've grown to love our life and yes we have disagreements I worry she sees her boss too often, but then moments later I'm encouraging her to see him!
The crazy mind of a cuck!

 

[Gliderider]

We started out by adding a third. Her idea. I wasn't sure about it at first but I agreed. I'm a voyeur myself so the idea grew on me once she'd worked out a meeting. We've been to several swing parties and she invited males over several times. I loved it. I couldn't see a downside. I was getting to watch her having sex, getting to DP her with him, and getting sex later after he's left. I was having sex as many as 4 times a day. What's not to like? Then menopause struck. Sex was painful so beyond a blowjob now and then I was pretty much on my own. Once she was beginning to get over that I was diagnosed with cancer. Doctors said no sex during treatments as I'm toxic basically. I gave her full permission to hotwife me, to play around on her own. I had two requirements. One, "If possible" I wanted to know about it beforehand; and Two, I needed details as soon as possible. She's taken a playmate a couple times but she's not really comfortable without me there. I was her security. She likes it a little rough but got roughed up a bit more then she wanted before we met.

I have told her if she's not going to fuck me, she needs to find someone she does want to fuck and at least let me watch.

Good luck.

 

[hehihoe]

After that happens my wife had started drinking before the party started, and soon had to go lay down. You did your duty as a party host, and made sure she was available for use by the guests at their leisure.

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Maybe I shouldn’t have let him, but my wife was **********. And in the morning, she won’t know whose cum was all over her. I’ll add mine when she wakes up.

 

[candkj1]

I was to embarrassed to just tell her my fantasy so I told her I dreamt about it. Revealed the details slowly while we fucked. Her withe two me. Neither one was me. Added some toys. Occasional porn with mfm or cheating scenario. Often interracial. Introduced chat rooms. So when I traveled for work she would get on and get off. I’d often log in anonymously and chat her up knowing what she liked and getting her to explore a bit further until she was pretty comfortable chatting and orgasming with others. Kept encouraging and telling her it wasn’t just a fantasy. Reassured at every turn. Until she finally went for it. Probably took 4 years to go from fantasy to actually doing it. Still isn’t going out fucking anyone. Has had two bulls. Looking for a third but she absolutely has to be connected to him for it to work.

 

[eligible_cuck]

There's a high possibility of marrying sonmeone who may not want to try another man. So what are you going to do? Live in fantasy? Cheat? Give up? Divorce? It's probably best to find the right woman (someone who likes non-monogamy for her at least).

But having said that, I'm still without a partner, so probably not the best person to give advice on this.

 

[MarkandJacqui]

Well my wife recently started selling foot pictures. But she stripped for 40$ the other night for a stranger. Sent him the pictures. Didn't seem like something she would ever do, but now feels sexy and kinky about it. I fucked her hard for the past 3 days thinking about it. She took her pants off for a measly 40$. And was not shy about it

Now that is hot! Always been a fantasy of mine her doing things for money although as she's sleeping with her boss she definitely benefits from that!

 

[curiouschats]

Anyone online to chat and discuss ideas, our fantasies ?

 

[Stevebryant]

For Me it was easy to do, BECAUSE it was HEEERR IDEA, She was so much enjoying to make Me Her Cuckold, Aila wanted fuck many married men ; She said every year ; and the big idea was Her that all MY FRIENDS would like to FUCK H

For Me it was easy to do, BECAUSE it was HEEERR IDEA, She was so much enjoying to make Me Her Cuckold, Aila wanted fuck many married men ; She said every year ; and the big idea was Her that all MY FRIENDS would like to FUCK HER, ; She said that sometimes when She know that some of MY FRIENDS is coming visiting SHE would like to surprise HIM and open the door NAKED AND STRAIGHT TAKE HIM TO SOME OF OUR BEDROOMS, USUALLY GUESTS ROOM where She is having GUEST cock. But She said that She would like to be fucking by ME everytime after "Guests Dick"...

She sounds as though she was a good *****, interested in discussing wives more deeply.
ER, ; She said that sometimes when She know that some of MY FRIENDS is coming visiting SHE would like to surprise HIM and open the door NAKED AND STRAIGHT TAKE HIM TO SOME OF OUR BEDROOMS, USUALLY GUESTS ROOM where She is having GUEST cock. But She said that She would like to be fucking by ME everytime after "Guests Dick"...

 

[Stevebryant]

She sounds as though she was a good *****, like to discuss our wives more deeply with someone who likes getting em fucked.

 

[Stevebryant]

We started out by adding a third. Her idea. I wasn't sure about it at first but I agreed. I'm a voyeur myself so the idea grew on me once she'd worked out a meeting. We've been to several swing parties and she invited males over several times. I loved it. I couldn't see a downside. I was getting to watch her having sex, getting to DP her with him, and getting sex later after he's left. I was having sex as many as 4 times a day. What's not to like? Then menopause struck. Sex was painful so beyond a blowjob now and then I was pretty much on my own. Once she was beginning to get over that I was diagnosed with cancer. Doctors said no sex during treatments as I'm toxic basically. I gave her full permission to hotwife me, to play around on her own. I had two requirements. One, "If possible" I wanted to know about it beforehand; and Two, I needed details as soon as possible. She's taken a playmate a couple times but she's not really comfortable without me there. I was her security. She likes it a little rough but got roughed up a bit more then she wanted before we met.

I have told her if she's not going to fuck me, she needs to find someone she does want to fuck and at least let me watch.

Good luck.

Yes she certainly needs to be getting fucked, I too like to watch a wife being put to good use.

 

[Nyguy11a]

She was wild from 2003 to the beginning of 2020 in NYC Staten Island and NJ
Mostly with black and Hispanic few white guys

 

[Stevebryant]

if you like , we have many stories together with Hubby talkings and doings after I have been "somewhere"

That would be nice, I've plenty of stories about mine

 

[Stevebryant]

Certainly Interested in talking about wives getting fucked

 

[Marcusvalentinbwcbull]

I'd love to hear some of those stories.

 

[Stevebryant]

I'd love to hear some of those stor

 

[toolman2c]

What a great post!
Totally agree with everything written particularly the last part.
My wife over a period of time has moved it along from doing it to please me, to taking control of our sex life.
Hell yes there are times even now some 16 years after our first experience I get jealous.
When we started it was with an ex of hers who was an extremely good looking confident guy who was double my cock size plus. Watching them that first time was intense and on more than one occasion it crossed my mind to stop it.
I'm glad I didn't because she needed it, our sex life went up significantly asci tried in vain to please her as he had but I had no chance and slowly encouraged her to see him more. She didn't need a lot of persuasion!
She has moved from there to meeting guys and telling me about her experiences afterwards on her return home. She has met guys from work( her boss has been seeing her 11 years!).
Our most intense experience was on holiday In tenerife.
We had a lovely boozy afternoon by the pool and two young guys eventually joined our chat and it got quite flirty. She leaned across to me and said " hope you don't mind lovely but it's time for you to go and have a nap!" Wow! We were on the same floor as them and I lay on my balcony I could hear the three of them playing. Was only away just over an hour but she totally enjoyed herself and loved telling me every detail.
Since then she plays mainly with her boss but every now and again she will flirt with a guy and disappear while we are out just because she can.
I've grown to love our life and yes we have disagreements I worry she sees her boss too often, but then moments later I'm encouraging her to see him!
The crazy mind of a cuck!

WOW. thats a super hot story..

 

[toolman2c]

Hi there,
Back in the 1960s 70s and 80s I there what was known as dogging, it's where you'd take a girlfriend or wife to a secluded spot and fuck her having first arranged for a few horny men to come and discreetly come and watch, the wife or girlfriend oblivious to the fact she being watched, my first wife was a natrual slut, she loved being watched which graduated to her getting fucked by different men eger to shoot there loads into her, but it is my second wife who gave me the most pleasure, she was a naive little thing, second time I took her out I arranged for a couple of mates to have a look at her assets, she never saw a thing, she went home blissfully ******* that a couple of guys had seen her hairy cunt.

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i love the leg on this sweet wife, even in a fuzzy pix shes a Jewel to tressure.

 

[Stevebryant]

i love the leg on this sweet wife, even in a fuzzy pix shes a Jewel to tressure.

Shes a nice jewel between her legs that's sweet