I always talk about watching her with another man during sexy times. Yesterday I said I would post on CL. After we got done playing she asked if I was for real. I said no because I'm chicken shit. She beat around the bush on how it would be hot to have another man so I posted. Today I'm going to show her the post and who replied and ask who she would like to meet. I've been working on this for 7yrs. I'm excited about this and think it might happen tonight.
I think it might happen.
- Thread starterharleyRK
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I was married once before and I swung with all of my ex's. I just havn't with my current wife. She acted appauld at first, but she is starting to come around. I'm not sure if I'd let her stay all night and I'm not sure if she would want to. I did this with my exwife, and it didn't seem to bother me.
Well that sounds wonderful... My advise is to make sure she is comfortable, tell her, and reassure her that no matter what if it gets to be too much and she wants to bail, all she has to do is give you the word and your out of there. Make her feel confident that she is safe and you have her back in this situation. If she goes into it feeling trapped or like she can't bail out if she becomes overwhelmingly uncomfortable, she may not like the experience and never want to do it again. I did this with my wife, and still to this day do it. I've stopped it dead stop in the middle of sex and pulled her out because she wasn't comfortable... sorry, but her comfort and safety is more important than some dude nutting... Do this and I almost guarantee your experience won't be the last. No pressure to her to perform... Let her take it at her speed and comfort level... No matter how long it takes... Believe me when I say the wait will be worth it... My wife have been doing this about 5 years now, and I can remember her first experience like it was yesterday. I can also see how our relationship has grown stronger... no more insecurities, jealousy, nothing... Pure pleasure.... Good luck my friend
