My wife and I are fixing to begin a Cuckold relationship. We have taken our time and picked a bull and are scheduled to meet with him for drinks this weekend. I am very worried about S.T.D.'s and unwanted pregnancy. We have children and I had a vasectomy a couple of years ago. We do not use any type of birth control at this time. We decided that any bulls must use a condom but I am worried that this might not be enough protection. Has anyone else had these concerns and how did you address them. I hate to see our fantasy remain that and not a reality due to this. Thank you.
I'm concerned about a couple of things.
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Well when my wife and i started the cuckold life style . It was with some one she knew at her job , not a complete stranger . She had a brief affair with this guy . Then we had some 3sums with a guy i worked with that i knew and trusted . And last there is that time of the month were it's pretty safe , if you want to take that chance and enjoy a nice creampie . But as far as std's i myself would stay away from strangers . You really don't have any idea where they've been . plus it's just our preference to use friends for the most part .
We required a condom until we felt comfortable with the guy, or he showed proof he was disease free.
We started out as swingers, doing only MFM threesomes. When we did the one night stands, we required condoms.
Eventually, we got into more intimate long term boyfriend for my wife. Since then, it turned into the cuckold type relationship, with no condoms. But it is a special relationship.
We started out as swingers, doing only MFM threesomes. When we did the one night stands, we required condoms.
Eventually, we got into more intimate long term boyfriend for my wife. Since then, it turned into the cuckold type relationship, with no condoms. But it is a special relationship.
Vasectomies are great and also Bull sex in the last 7 days before your period starts for strangers. Some Bulls want to ride during the period for the extra thrill, but generally you need to build a caring relationship up first as the sheets can get stained. Many a sailor sailed on the Red Sea if he had been at sea a long time and was feeling desperate, having not seen gender-specific pussy for weeks and weeks.
STDs are not fun, and a disease-free test won't show up fresh bugs collected from a good fuck the night after the test was done. So condoms are essential to minimise risks from oral if person is a stranger (danger).
STDs are not fun, and a disease-free test won't show up fresh bugs collected from a good fuck the night after the test was done. So condoms are essential to minimise risks from oral if person is a stranger (danger).
The Answer
Dear Jrh:
Your question is very important.
It is very important that you are properly informed.
1) There is no such thing as feeling safe if it is someone you know, or have known for some time. This means absolutely nothing because you may have known this person all your life, and it is impossible to know about his private sex life.
2) The only really important STD that you should be afraid of is AIDS.
3) Unfortunately it is impossible to know if someone has the AIDS virus.
Because that person can be in an asymptomatic stage.
So that person will look just like anyone else.
4) Testing that person will not help.
Because there is a three month period before a test becomes positive.
So a person with a negative test can still be infected and can still give you AIDS.
Conclusion:
The best protection is the Condom.
Properly used it will protect you, and make your fantasy real and let you live for many happy years afterwards.
The condom will also protect you against other less serious STDs.
And it will also protect you against pregnancy.
The reason why a Condom is not 100% effective against pregnancy is because of persons that use it incorrectly.
So we will include a second post of the correct way to use it in case someone is interested.
Best Regards:
Alicia and Jorge
Dear Jrh:
Your question is very important.
It is very important that you are properly informed.
1) There is no such thing as feeling safe if it is someone you know, or have known for some time. This means absolutely nothing because you may have known this person all your life, and it is impossible to know about his private sex life.
2) The only really important STD that you should be afraid of is AIDS.
3) Unfortunately it is impossible to know if someone has the AIDS virus.
Because that person can be in an asymptomatic stage.
So that person will look just like anyone else.
4) Testing that person will not help.
Because there is a three month period before a test becomes positive.
So a person with a negative test can still be infected and can still give you AIDS.
Conclusion:
The best protection is the Condom.
Properly used it will protect you, and make your fantasy real and let you live for many happy years afterwards.
The condom will also protect you against other less serious STDs.
And it will also protect you against pregnancy.
The reason why a Condom is not 100% effective against pregnancy is because of persons that use it incorrectly.
So we will include a second post of the correct way to use it in case someone is interested.
Best Regards:
Alicia and Jorge
How to use a Condom Properly
The reason that a Condom is not 100% safe against pregnancy is because some persons use it incorrectly.
So we will make a list of must do things so that you will be safe.
1) Use a latex condom.
(Just read the label and make sure it says latex)
2) Do not use vaseline. Just use water based lubricants if you do use them.
3) Put the condom on the bull as soon as he gets an erection.
Practice doing it yourself. (wife)
Or if you are not comfortable with this watch closely when he puts it on.
(Use your own Condoms not the Bull's condoms)
4) Insist that you husband be with you. He can watch closely while your hot pussy is being penetrated while at the same time making sure the condom does not slip off.
(This is a very pleasant job for a Cuck)
5) Do not let the Bull use excessive force when fucking you.
A slow sensuous fuck is very pleasant and is enough to make a slut like my Alicia and you to have an orgasm.
(Sorry about that I got carried away)
6) Do not let the bull insert his cock before or after without a Condom.
Because sperm cells may be present in precum.
And may also be present after ejaculation.
7) If the Bull has a large penis buy extra large Condoms just in case.
(Or ask him his size)
8) Also use the condom when giving him oral sex.
9) When the Bull cumms inside your hot Pussy.
Let your Cuck hold the Condom while the bull slowly extracts his penis.
If the Cuck is not comfortable with doing this, Then the wife can hold it.
You can then keep the cumm filled condom to play with when you both get home and relive the moment. (But do not drink the cumm).
Sorry to have made it so long and boring.
The good part is this:
When a woman is Cuckolding, she becomes really hot.
Like my Alicia.
(And as your wife aparently is)
So that using a Condom will not detract from the pleasure.
If you have any questions please ask.
Best Regards:
Alicia and Jorge
The reason that a Condom is not 100% safe against pregnancy is because some persons use it incorrectly.
So we will make a list of must do things so that you will be safe.
1) Use a latex condom.
(Just read the label and make sure it says latex)
2) Do not use vaseline. Just use water based lubricants if you do use them.
3) Put the condom on the bull as soon as he gets an erection.
Practice doing it yourself. (wife)
Or if you are not comfortable with this watch closely when he puts it on.
(Use your own Condoms not the Bull's condoms)
4) Insist that you husband be with you. He can watch closely while your hot pussy is being penetrated while at the same time making sure the condom does not slip off.
(This is a very pleasant job for a Cuck)
5) Do not let the Bull use excessive force when fucking you.
A slow sensuous fuck is very pleasant and is enough to make a slut like my Alicia and you to have an orgasm.
(Sorry about that I got carried away)
6) Do not let the bull insert his cock before or after without a Condom.
Because sperm cells may be present in precum.
And may also be present after ejaculation.
7) If the Bull has a large penis buy extra large Condoms just in case.
(Or ask him his size)
8) Also use the condom when giving him oral sex.
9) When the Bull cumms inside your hot Pussy.
Let your Cuck hold the Condom while the bull slowly extracts his penis.
If the Cuck is not comfortable with doing this, Then the wife can hold it.
You can then keep the cumm filled condom to play with when you both get home and relive the moment. (But do not drink the cumm).
Sorry to have made it so long and boring.
The good part is this:
When a woman is Cuckolding, she becomes really hot.
Like my Alicia.
(And as your wife aparently is)
So that using a Condom will not detract from the pleasure.
If you have any questions please ask.
Best Regards:
Alicia and Jorge
Last minute advice
Dear Jrh:
Just some last minute advice:
Don't forget to give your wife a lot of love. Remember that Cuckolding is all about love. Tell her how beautiful and sexy she looks. (This will not be a lie, because when women are Cuckolding they do become more attractive).
Tell her that you love her for what she is doing for you.
Some things may not go exactly as planned.
But no matter, give her your support, and afterwards you can both share and laugh at those things that did not go as planned.
Best of Luck:
Alicia and Jorge
Dear Jrh:
Just some last minute advice:
Don't forget to give your wife a lot of love. Remember that Cuckolding is all about love. Tell her how beautiful and sexy she looks. (This will not be a lie, because when women are Cuckolding they do become more attractive).
Tell her that you love her for what she is doing for you.
Some things may not go exactly as planned.
But no matter, give her your support, and afterwards you can both share and laugh at those things that did not go as planned.
Best of Luck:
Alicia and Jorge
My wife's pussy gets very irritated when latex is used.
She has had her tubes tied, but still fucked bareback
before the surgery. She used the pill as contraceptive.
She only used a condom when fucking one night stands.
Now that she has a boyfriend, who is clean and safe,
she goes bareback all the time.
It makes all 3 of us happy when she goes bareback and
takes a load.
She has had her tubes tied, but still fucked bareback
before the surgery. She used the pill as contraceptive.
She only used a condom when fucking one night stands.
Now that she has a boyfriend, who is clean and safe,
she goes bareback all the time.
It makes all 3 of us happy when she goes bareback and
takes a load.
We used to hear the "I'm allergic to latex" excuse often when we used to help run a swingers club. Not saying people aren't, because they are. My advice was, if the female is latex allergic then have the male put on a latex and a poly or natural one over the latex one. If the male is, then flip them. This way you avoid the latex reaction, but still get the benifits.Warpt said:
Yes, double bagging SUCKS, but ask ANYONE that has HIV/AIDS if they could go back and double bag if they would
Meeting went good !!!
My wife and I met with the guy the other night. Started out bad. We were going to meet on Friday night, but he ended up having to cancel. We changed meeting to Saturday night and everything went off without a hitch. My wife liked him and he was all into her. He stared and smiled at her the whole time. I ask my wife on the way home what it was like to be on a date with her husband and she said it was wierd but she liked it. I knew she liked it when we got home and she was still wet and very aroused (I talked my wife into going out without a bra and a sheer almost see thu top. Her nipples were erect the whole night and I was semi hard the whole time.) I am going to stop calling the guy a bull because he is only about 6" (about the same size as me) and its going to be a MFM thing instead of a true cuckold. I can live with this for now, and we are going to seal the deal after the new year. We just have to much going on (holidays) to do anything sooner. Thanks again for all the information and I'll keep everyone posted on what happens next.
My wife and I met with the guy the other night. Started out bad. We were going to meet on Friday night, but he ended up having to cancel. We changed meeting to Saturday night and everything went off without a hitch. My wife liked him and he was all into her. He stared and smiled at her the whole time. I ask my wife on the way home what it was like to be on a date with her husband and she said it was wierd but she liked it. I knew she liked it when we got home and she was still wet and very aroused (I talked my wife into going out without a bra and a sheer almost see thu top. Her nipples were erect the whole night and I was semi hard the whole time.) I am going to stop calling the guy a bull because he is only about 6" (about the same size as me) and its going to be a MFM thing instead of a true cuckold. I can live with this for now, and we are going to seal the deal after the new year. We just have to much going on (holidays) to do anything sooner. Thanks again for all the information and I'll keep everyone posted on what happens next.
Testing is better than nothing, somewhat, but really doesnt mean a thing.
In some cases, it can take MONTHS from when one becomes posative to test posative, yet they are still capable of infecting others. Plus, do you KNOW what/who the person did last night? Night before? Every night since the test?
Plus, if you are going to rely on tests, go together to get tested. If you go together, get the results together. Tests can be faked. I have friends in the porn industry. They require a recent test (30 days, I believe) before any shoot. I have a friend who was going to their party to shoot. He had not had sex in about a year, he got tested, it came up clean. The shoot ended up getting cancelled/postponed over a month, so now his test was not "current". He still had not had sex with anyone since he was last tested, so rather than him wasting more money on another test he just scanned the old one, photoshopped the date and print. Presto, new test. Someone could make that "test" ANYTHING they wanted.
In some cases, it can take MONTHS from when one becomes posative to test posative, yet they are still capable of infecting others. Plus, do you KNOW what/who the person did last night? Night before? Every night since the test?
Plus, if you are going to rely on tests, go together to get tested. If you go together, get the results together. Tests can be faked. I have friends in the porn industry. They require a recent test (30 days, I believe) before any shoot. I have a friend who was going to their party to shoot. He had not had sex in about a year, he got tested, it came up clean. The shoot ended up getting cancelled/postponed over a month, so now his test was not "current". He still had not had sex with anyone since he was last tested, so rather than him wasting more money on another test he just scanned the old one, photoshopped the date and print. Presto, new test. Someone could make that "test" ANYTHING they wanted.
Thanks for the update
Dear Jrh:
Thanks for the update.
It may not have been much. But for us it was just as hot as for you because it brought back some hot memories.
It does not matter if it is a simple date. For a woman being the center of attention is enough to get her juices flowing. (That part was hot).
For us a simple thing as Alicia going to the movies with a lover was enough to get us going.
An especially erotic moment was of Alicia sitting between her lover and me at the movies, and holding hands with both.
Then a really hot part was when Alicia after much convincing accepted walking out of the theater with her arms around both.
This was especially hot because of the envious looks of all the men that could not keep the lustful looks from their faces.
Please keep us up to date.
Best Regards:
Alicia and Jorge
Dear Jrh:
Thanks for the update.
It may not have been much. But for us it was just as hot as for you because it brought back some hot memories.
It does not matter if it is a simple date. For a woman being the center of attention is enough to get her juices flowing. (That part was hot).
For us a simple thing as Alicia going to the movies with a lover was enough to get us going.
An especially erotic moment was of Alicia sitting between her lover and me at the movies, and holding hands with both.
Then a really hot part was when Alicia after much convincing accepted walking out of the theater with her arms around both.
This was especially hot because of the envious looks of all the men that could not keep the lustful looks from their faces.
Please keep us up to date.
Best Regards:
Alicia and Jorge
