Hi! I think I can help here, in both respects. My wife has had two children by other men, though her first was by me. The paternity of our younger two is uncertain though; the first was while my wife was fucking around a lot and simply open to pregnancy, while our youngest came from her deliberately choosing a small group of different men as possible fathers.
While that’s a different situation than yours, we’re now trying for a fourth, but with only a single lover she’s chosen—an old friend of mine. (Actually, he since became interested in me fucking his girlfriend bare too, and is now enjoying being a cuck as well as a bull. Great minds!)
In short it’s a wonderful experience to raise your bulls’ children. If your relationship with your wife is loving and strong, you might find you both want your future children to come from different lovers.
There’s nothing in the world as pleasurable as having your wife’s head in your lap, her bull’s cock sliding in and out of her while they gaze into each other’s eyes, with you stroking her hair as her body judders in ecstasy and her bull pumps her full of cum to impregnate her. Then you fucking her in the ass and masturbating her with his cum, ensuring that when her body swells with new life, it’s another man’s. You can see the vulnerability in her face, her trust that you while she’s given her womb to the genes of a superior man she’s chosen, you won’t abandon her and will love and protect the child as your own.
Then there’s the joy of raising your genetically diverse kids, seeing the unique traits of their fathers start to develop in them. It really is the ultimate pleasure, and it’s perfectly natural. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with it.
Some practical points:
- Your kids need love, stability, structure and support. They need to be normal kids, with holidays, family trips, piano lessons, educational TV, and knee patches when they fall over. This means keeping them apart from the lifestyle. We haven’t progressed enough as a society for them to have two father figures (you and bull) and feel ’normal’.
- In most western countries, if your wife cites you as the father on the birth certificate and other docs, and you agree and start raising the child, then you’re the legal father. The bull has no rights to see or interact with your child.
- The possible fathers of our kids were told they might be sought out way down the line, but they were going to be uninvolved in the crucial formative years. My wife’s current bull has agreed to be completely in the background as an ‘uncle’ or godparent, and I would be the same if I impregnate his gf. With that in mind, if you want to tell the bull anything, tell him he might (but might not) be the bio father, but you’re the actual father. Maybe offer him the chance to be godparent, if you like him and want him around a bit.
- If her lover is going to be difficult, don’t hesitate to cut him out of your life. Stability for the kids trumps sexy times for your woman.
Most of all, if she carries to term, enjoy the next few years! They really are a treasure. And if you want more, do consider having her be impregnated by a different lover, perhaps with your involvement if you’re into that. It’ll make for experiences you never forget!
