The question as to whether I am in an “open marriage” or a cuckold relationship remains unanswered--- at least in my hot wife Kirsten’s mind.
She maintains that she is not cuckolding me--- and moreover that she never deliberately humiliates me. She likes to believe that we are “swingers” in an open marriage. Krissy says that she does not want cuckold activities to be a part of our play, and is not interested in (as an example) “black bulls”.
When I’ve talked to her about this--- hinting around that she treats me, well, like a cuckold, and yes “humiliates me all the time”, she plays it off saying--- “its all in my mind”, or if there is a cuckoldry element in our relationship its just harmless “role-playing”.
So I put it to the group--- you be the judge. Below is a very random list of things Kristen has done to me over the years that have sent me into cuckold sub-space. Is it my imagination? Is it all in my mind? Help me out.
1. On “Date Night” recently, Krissy called me as I left work and asked me to stop by the department store and buy her a new (black) bra and panties for her date. I had to go by myself and pick out the sexy undergarments--- of course these were not for me, but for her boyfriend.
2. After one of her lovers fucked Krissy several times, she had me go over to his house and clean his backyard in preparation for his son’s graduation party. She told me that helping Don out was a nice way to pay him back (I guess for the great sex??).
3. One time Krissy called me at work and asked me to buy Chinese food on my way home--- she had invited one of her “friends” to dinner. I got the food and came home--- thinking that maybe we would do an MFM threesome. I met her new friend (Fred) and we ate Chinese together--- and had a nice conversation, while Krissy groomed herself in our bedroom. After he ate, Fred said thank you “for everything” and left. This confused me. I assumed Krissy was getting ready to play. When I asked her what was going on--- she informed me that Fred had already fucked her and was hungry afterwards.
4. One time when Krissy returned from playing she handed me her red panties and bra and asked me to wash them by hand. The crotch of her panties had visible cum strains. I washed them and hung them up to dry in the bathroom.
5. Early on Krissy introduced “strap-on” play--- selling the idea as a harmless enhancement to our regular sexual routine. However, over the years, she has used the strap-on on me more than I like and sometimes she pounds my ass and hurts me, saying, “now you know what its like to get fucked hard in the ass--- like so many guys have done to me!”
6. Often after a date Krissy leaves her dirty panties in places where I am sure to find them--- still wet with her lover’s cum. Lately when she gets home she has been routinely putting her dirty panties in “my” bathroom drawer without a word.
7. After Kris finished fucking one of her boyfriends while on her period, she discarded the messy towel used under her ass on the bathroom floor. When I got home from work I picked the towel up to discover the evidence of her slutty daytime session.
8. When Krissy plays at home she always uses our marital bed. Many “friends” of hers have fucked her on the same bed as I do. Sometimes they sleep over in our bed and occasionally I have had to sleep on the couch. More than once, I have found wet or dry cum on the bedspread. One time her lover used my pillow to prop Krissy’s ass up while he fucked her. When he came his cum dripped onto my pillow. A couple of days later I realized that I had been laying my head on a pillow case soiled with this guy’s dried cum.
9. Krissy lets guys that fuck her at our home go into my nightstand and use my personal lubricant--- especially if they are ass fucking her. When I get home I find the lub out--- and sometimes the bottle is slick with lub and has pubic hairs stuck on it. Once I arrived home to find a used condom in my nightstand drawer.
10. Krissy infrequently me drive her to her boyfriend’s house and pick her up afterwards. Occasionally I drive her to a restaurant or hotel. One time I drove her 50 miles to a man’s house under the aegis that we were going to have a threesome. But after a half hour, she ask me to leave and pick her up in the morning (later she told me they fucked all night). On my way to retrieve her the next day, she called and had me pick up breakfast for them. When I arrived they had just finished fucking and Kris had that “just been fucked” look on her face. We ate McDonalds together and Kris and her stud chit chatted, giggled and made sexual innuendos in front of me.
11. Once Krissy let me listen by phone as one of her studs fucked her and came in her pussy. After the session Krissy invited him to our house for some snacks and to watch a movie. The three of us lay on our bed boy girl boy--- but Krissy ignored me and she and her young stud whispered back and forth, giggling--- making eyes at each other the way lover’s do--- after the fact.
12. Krissy maintains contact with her ex-husband (lives out of town) and often they text sexy messages back and forth. Last year she drove 200 miles to Reno just to fuck him. When she got home she bragged about what a great fuck he was and that he made her come three times. Since her ex’s new wife won’t do anal or “swallow”, Krissy let her ex fuck her in the ass and cum in her mouth (because she “felt sorry for him”).
13. Over the past year or so, Krissy has mostly stopped letting me be a part of her ex par experiences. She rarely calls me and never lets me watch. When she arrives home after a date she denies me the sexy details of her fuck session--- except to report to me how many orgasms her lover gave her or how big his cock was.
14. Krissy likes to fuck other man while I’m at work. She typically calls and tells me about her session after the fact--- usually telling me that she spent the afternoon getting pounded hard (sometimes I come home early and offer clean up duty).
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She maintains that she is not cuckolding me--- and moreover that she never deliberately humiliates me. She likes to believe that we are “swingers” in an open marriage. Krissy says that she does not want cuckold activities to be a part of our play, and is not interested in (as an example) “black bulls”.
When I’ve talked to her about this--- hinting around that she treats me, well, like a cuckold, and yes “humiliates me all the time”, she plays it off saying--- “its all in my mind”, or if there is a cuckoldry element in our relationship its just harmless “role-playing”.
So I put it to the group--- you be the judge. Below is a very random list of things Kristen has done to me over the years that have sent me into cuckold sub-space. Is it my imagination? Is it all in my mind? Help me out.
1. On “Date Night” recently, Krissy called me as I left work and asked me to stop by the department store and buy her a new (black) bra and panties for her date. I had to go by myself and pick out the sexy undergarments--- of course these were not for me, but for her boyfriend.
2. After one of her lovers fucked Krissy several times, she had me go over to his house and clean his backyard in preparation for his son’s graduation party. She told me that helping Don out was a nice way to pay him back (I guess for the great sex??).
3. One time Krissy called me at work and asked me to buy Chinese food on my way home--- she had invited one of her “friends” to dinner. I got the food and came home--- thinking that maybe we would do an MFM threesome. I met her new friend (Fred) and we ate Chinese together--- and had a nice conversation, while Krissy groomed herself in our bedroom. After he ate, Fred said thank you “for everything” and left. This confused me. I assumed Krissy was getting ready to play. When I asked her what was going on--- she informed me that Fred had already fucked her and was hungry afterwards.
4. One time when Krissy returned from playing she handed me her red panties and bra and asked me to wash them by hand. The crotch of her panties had visible cum strains. I washed them and hung them up to dry in the bathroom.
5. Early on Krissy introduced “strap-on” play--- selling the idea as a harmless enhancement to our regular sexual routine. However, over the years, she has used the strap-on on me more than I like and sometimes she pounds my ass and hurts me, saying, “now you know what its like to get fucked hard in the ass--- like so many guys have done to me!”
6. Often after a date Krissy leaves her dirty panties in places where I am sure to find them--- still wet with her lover’s cum. Lately when she gets home she has been routinely putting her dirty panties in “my” bathroom drawer without a word.
7. After Kris finished fucking one of her boyfriends while on her period, she discarded the messy towel used under her ass on the bathroom floor. When I got home from work I picked the towel up to discover the evidence of her slutty daytime session.
8. When Krissy plays at home she always uses our marital bed. Many “friends” of hers have fucked her on the same bed as I do. Sometimes they sleep over in our bed and occasionally I have had to sleep on the couch. More than once, I have found wet or dry cum on the bedspread. One time her lover used my pillow to prop Krissy’s ass up while he fucked her. When he came his cum dripped onto my pillow. A couple of days later I realized that I had been laying my head on a pillow case soiled with this guy’s dried cum.
9. Krissy lets guys that fuck her at our home go into my nightstand and use my personal lubricant--- especially if they are ass fucking her. When I get home I find the lub out--- and sometimes the bottle is slick with lub and has pubic hairs stuck on it. Once I arrived home to find a used condom in my nightstand drawer.
10. Krissy infrequently me drive her to her boyfriend’s house and pick her up afterwards. Occasionally I drive her to a restaurant or hotel. One time I drove her 50 miles to a man’s house under the aegis that we were going to have a threesome. But after a half hour, she ask me to leave and pick her up in the morning (later she told me they fucked all night). On my way to retrieve her the next day, she called and had me pick up breakfast for them. When I arrived they had just finished fucking and Kris had that “just been fucked” look on her face. We ate McDonalds together and Kris and her stud chit chatted, giggled and made sexual innuendos in front of me.
11. Once Krissy let me listen by phone as one of her studs fucked her and came in her pussy. After the session Krissy invited him to our house for some snacks and to watch a movie. The three of us lay on our bed boy girl boy--- but Krissy ignored me and she and her young stud whispered back and forth, giggling--- making eyes at each other the way lover’s do--- after the fact.
12. Krissy maintains contact with her ex-husband (lives out of town) and often they text sexy messages back and forth. Last year she drove 200 miles to Reno just to fuck him. When she got home she bragged about what a great fuck he was and that he made her come three times. Since her ex’s new wife won’t do anal or “swallow”, Krissy let her ex fuck her in the ass and cum in her mouth (because she “felt sorry for him”).
13. Over the past year or so, Krissy has mostly stopped letting me be a part of her ex par experiences. She rarely calls me and never lets me watch. When she arrives home after a date she denies me the sexy details of her fuck session--- except to report to me how many orgasms her lover gave her or how big his cock was.
14. Krissy likes to fuck other man while I’m at work. She typically calls and tells me about her session after the fact--- usually telling me that she spent the afternoon getting pounded hard (sometimes I come home early and offer clean up duty).
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