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Is My Boyfriend Small?

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My boyfriend thinks he is small and has told me this a few times. I think he is pretty big for me and I love how he feels and he almost always makes me cum at least a couple times during sex (and I know that is the important part). He introduced me to this site and the whole "BBC" idea and I have to admit the "black guy" idea turns me on sometimes a lot. Some of the turnon is the "size thing" but I think it's definitely more of a turnon for him than for me in that regard. So, I'm curious...is this a common thing for the hubby/boyfriend to be turned on so much by the idea of the black guy being so much bigger? And do you guys think he is really small? Obviously compared to black porn stars the answer is yes, but he is about 6" and has a big head which I love...so what do you think? Thanks!
 

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Nice pics. You two seem to have a fulfilling sex life, yet, while one is content, the other wants to spice things up. I hope the camera is present when you do.
 
Hey if he's floating your boat, why bother with anything else? That is; unless you want to try it also. Then go for it and enjoy.
 
Little white cuckold wannabe here, think that all white women need to experience superior big black cock, and then they can decide for themselves how much better it is.
 
that dick looks pathetic.

see if he feels the same way about it after a brotha like me fucks ya in the ass... and you tell him to get his tongue up in there.
 
I think the both of you could have a lot of fun with a black boyfriend...
At least you call tell after the occasion what the truth is!!!
~)_(~
 
Is his penis a tight fit in a used toilet roll? If it won't fit in a toilet roll, then his penis can be classed as bigger than average for girth.

He showed you this website, so he obviously wants to explore the fantasy with you; and if you like what you read, he probably will help you to find a black lover to reward you for being such a good wife to him.

Take your time and give yourself permission to allow nice sexy lingerie to come into your life, and more attention from your husband as he gets excited as you shower and dress and apply your makeup for a hot date. Encourage your husband to talk openly to you about where his emotions are, and whether he would like a wet reward when you get home from dates.
 
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BiggieSmalls457 said:
Hey if he's floating your boat, why bother with anything else? That is; unless you want to try it also. Then go for it and enjoy.

He is very persistent about this fantasy and it seems to almost be an obssession for him to see me have sex with a black man. I can't deny it turns me on because it does, but I just am not sure if this is something I'd ever do for real. I tell him yes sometimes because I know how bad he wants it for me so I want to make him happy and give him a "show" sometimes...but other times I don't think this is something that would make me feel good about myself even if it felt really good physically. Hmmm...not sure....
 
monstablack said:
that dick looks pathetic.

see if he feels the same way about it after a brotha like me fucks ya in the ass... and you tell him to get his tongue up in there.

I guess you're not the smoothest guy on here? ;-) He sure feels good to me so I don't think he's "pathetic"! But I guess that means you think he looks small. Fair enough.
 
Josetta said:
Is his penis a tight fit in a used toilet roll? If it won't fit in a toilet roll, then his penis can be classed as bigger than average for girth.

He showed you this website, so he obviously wants to explore the fantasy with you; and if you like what you read, he probably will help you to find a black lover to reward you for being such a good wife to him.

Take your time and give yourself permission to allow nice sexy lingerie to come into your life, and more attention from your husband as he gets excited as you shower and dress and apply your makeup for a hot date. Encourage your husband to talk openly to you about where his emotions are, and whether he would like a wet reward when you get home from dates.

I got him really hard and told him I wanted to try something so I used the toilet roll trick on him! I had some difficulty getting it over his head since its really big but once over that it slid on no problem. It was a tight fit but he can fit inside a toilet roll for sure. He seemed to know what I was doing and he just grinned. He's so into this fantasy! I'm not sure about the "hot date" idea, I mean if I go on a date I want it to be with him. But I know that's one of his main fantasies is for me to go out with a black guy and come back to tell him what happened. He also is turned on by the idea of going to a club together and watching me dance and flirt and even maybe make out with a black guy. I have to admit that idea really turns me on and seems like a "safe" way to play a little bit without things getting too out of hand.
 
sexywf80 said:
My boyfriend thinks he is small and has told me this a few times. I think he is pretty big for me and I love how he feels and he almost always makes me cum at least a couple times during sex (and I know that is the important part). He introduced me to this site and the whole "BBC" idea and I have to admit the "black guy" idea turns me on sometimes a lot. Some of the turnon is the "size thing" but I think it's definitely more of a turnon for him than for me in that regard. So, I'm curious...is this a common thing for the hubby/boyfriend to be turned on so much by the idea of the black guy being so much bigger? And do you guys think he is really small? Obviously compared to black porn stars the answer is yes, but he is about 6" and has a big head which I love...so what do you think? Thanks!

Dunno if hes small or not - sounds like he does the "trick" for u anywayz girl - but u might need something more like this once or twice a month...!
 

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flyingbbc4u said:
Dunno if hes small or not - sounds like he does the "trick" for u anywayz girl - but u might need something more like this once or twice a month...!

WOW is that for real? LOL That thing is huge!
 
Girl trust me, If he is into it, go ahead and find you a Black stud near by and go for it. I was in the same position about 15 yrs ago with my husband, I put it off and put it off and I'm sorry I did, I say go for it, But find a guy that understands up front that its only sex, Some guys get obessed, I had a few LOL
 
thawks said:
Just be prepared, this lifestyle does not always come without a cost. Fantasy is fun, but jealousy, feelings, etc can get really dicey sometimes and can cause more problems than not. I would suggest you travel to an out of town swing club, it is safe, you can watch if you get scared and no means no in a good club. If you meet a stranger and do not like them once you meet or right after the sex, it can get pretty weird. After the swing club visit, if you participate or not,you two should have a good conversation. The fact you will probable never ever see the other person unless you make the choice to return is the bonus side. Think about it.

Word. Gotta say tho Ive never see a situation go bad cuz all of us always handle things the "right" way. Keep things open, above board, keep hubby in the loop, everyone has their role and has fun with it, not too much overthinking things. Not gonna say thats always the way it goes but this is somethin u can really enjoy with ur hubby if ya'll do it right. Every white girls pussy I split open thanks me for it and so does the hubby and it always makes their sex better too.
 
sexywf80 said:
WOW is that for real? LOL That thing is huge!

All real babe. You have PM. Hit me back.
 
flyingbbc4u said:
Word. Gotta say tho Ive never see a situation go bad cuz all of us always handle things the "right" way. Keep things open, above board, keep hubby in the loop, everyone has their role and has fun with it, not too much overthinking things. Not gonna say thats always the way it goes but this is somethin u can really enjoy with ur hubby if ya'll do it right. Every white girls pussy I split open thanks me for it and so does the hubby and it always makes their sex better too.

The whole thing seems like a lot of fun in fantasy. Reality seems really risky. He keeps telling me I'll never know how much fun, how little risk it really is until I try it for real. I don't know. A part of me just wants a "normal" relationship. Don't really understand why any man who loves his girlfriend/wife would want another man to fuck her. But then again the idea is really sexy to me sometimes. A little confused. Hmmmm....
 
flyingbbc4u said:
All real babe. You have PM. Hit me back.

PMed you back with answers to all your questions.
 
sexywf80 said:
WOW is that for real? LOL That thing is huge!

Obviously been morphed, which leads me to think it was done by one of the gay white wanna' be's on here and not a real Black guy......he is obviously well endowed, why would he need to "morph" the pic to look larger. Only to complete someone's obsessive fantasy of "splitting a woman open" because they are so completely uncapable of ever doing so.

As to actually trying this out...GO FOR IT!! It will be the most fantastic sexual experience of your life!! You will be mad you didn't do it sooner!! But be careful....it is VERY easy to let it get out of hand. Good sex is fun, GREAT FANTASTIC sex is like a drug, and for us white girls that have "settled" for so many years, it is WORSE than a drug and VERY addictive!!

I went from a typical white Mom and wife enjoying it once a week like clockwork to a sex OBSESSED wanting it ALL the time SLUT after a few experiences with Black Lovers. I would go out Friday evening "just for the evening", pretty soon it was overniters, and eventually I would go out Friday and not even bother to call Hubby and let him know where I was or who I was with and roll back in late Sunday nite ready to shower and fall in to bed....and I STILL couldn't get enough of it!! Started seeing guys during the week too, eventually it was 7 days a week if I could make it happen!! Came very close to ruining my marriage and stopping was the HARDEST thing I ever did. Were it not for us having a Son together, I would probably have just blown off a good marriage.

Now that our Son is off to College, we are getting back in to the lifestyle. Hopefully I will be smarter and better able to keep things under control this time......we'll see.

Good luck and ENJOY!! Just keep it in perspective.....it is SEX, not love. Don't confuse someone being willing to fuck you with someone loving you. That is difficult for us women to seperate. ANd you BF is gonna' LOVE and HATE this.....plan a LOT of heart to heart talks as you get more in to BBC and he starts worrying. But it will work itself out, if you work and making it work.

EMJOY!! JMNBABE

My 2 cents .....JMNBABE
 
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sexywf80 said:
The whole thing seems like a lot of fun in fantasy. Reality seems really risky. He keeps telling me I'll never know how much fun, how little risk it really is until I try it for real. I don't know. A part of me just wants a "normal" relationship. Don't really understand why any man who loves his girlfriend/wife would want another man to fuck her. But then again the idea is really sexy to me sometimes. A little confused. Hmmmm....

Here's what you should do honey take it slow. Right now your posting posting pics here (your damn hot) and chatting with us. Good first step, but you can take it a step further next time your at the mall or starbucks and you see a brother you think is hot flirt a little. See how it feels and take it from there.

When you decide to act on this for the first time do it for him, as a gift (whens his birthday coming up) this way you get past the guilt its not you, your doing it for hubby.
 
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