Is she cheating?
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Literally. Ive heard denials from her for stuff. Naive ..yes..
Im not offended by your remarks.
I just put it out there to get feedback...
So. You think...shes cheating?...
I get it. Hell, i agree with you.. thats why i put it online. Bc i was doubting her honesty.
But , tell me... why is it so obvious to you. Have you been in a simlar situation?
Just looking for help...
Thx
Im not offended by your remarks.
I just put it out there to get feedback...
So. You think...shes cheating?...
I get it. Hell, i agree with you.. thats why i put it online. Bc i was doubting her honesty.
But , tell me... why is it so obvious to you. Have you been in a simlar situation?
Just looking for help...
Thx
Make the best of it. If she is cheating and I would say she is then enjoy the ride if you care about her. I've been down the same road and although I started out giving her the benefit of the doubt when I caught her I had difficulties accepting it for what it was, a woman who needed more than I could give her.
So the end result, after catching her a second then a third time and also being told by a friend that she was getting it on the side I mishandled it, end result, divorce, pain, suffering for us both.
So if I could turn the clock back I would let her know that as long as she kept her affair private so that I didn't suffer humiliation and as long as she took the time to discuss it with me and perhaps allow me in some way to play a part then okay!
Anger is your enemy but anger is never a solution. Either walk away or accept and with that acceptance think about the benefits of your wife knowing that you love her enough to allow her satisfaction that you can't provide. Once she understands that you may well get the type of devotion that few if any men ever attain in their relationship.
Good luck.
So the end result, after catching her a second then a third time and also being told by a friend that she was getting it on the side I mishandled it, end result, divorce, pain, suffering for us both.
So if I could turn the clock back I would let her know that as long as she kept her affair private so that I didn't suffer humiliation and as long as she took the time to discuss it with me and perhaps allow me in some way to play a part then okay!
Anger is your enemy but anger is never a solution. Either walk away or accept and with that acceptance think about the benefits of your wife knowing that you love her enough to allow her satisfaction that you can't provide. Once she understands that you may well get the type of devotion that few if any men ever attain in their relationship.
Good luck.
