Is she getting close

[curious_uk]

I am a married wht male who is desperate to get my wife blacked and for her to cuckold me. I have been thinking about this for years now and have talked about it at length with my wife. She has always said never (love, jealousy, risks etc.) although she has gradually been more interested in fantasising about it during sex.

She admmits she finds it a turn on and thinks it would be great fun and very erotic. She now realises that my cock is small (5") and thin and she is not afraid to tease me about it. I cum very quickly if teases me during sex play. She has stopped having sex with me and she only really uses her hand on me now. I cum very quickly if she wants me to. She has got a lot more dominant with me. She sits on my face, spanks me and orders me about.

This has all gradually happened over a few years. Until then she was very prim and proper. Now she has be buy her sexy underwear and nice clothes that are more daring and revealing than she would have ever worn before. She is also being more flirty in public.

You think she is thinking about doing it for real?

 

[Josetta]

The two of you need to create a fantasy story of what it would be like if she was actually fucking other guys. How would your life be different? How would you feel seeing her with other guys (or a woman)?

Ask her how she wants you to act from now on to make sure she has every opportunity to go out on sexy dates. Ask her if she would like to go on a holiday to another town where her family and friends will not see her enjoying herself with hot guys.

Tell her how much you are enjoying her teasing you in sex play, and that now feel that you are more than READY FOR HER TO BRING ANOTHER GUY HOME TO SLEEP IN THE MARRIAGE BED while you sleep in a spare room.

She could begin with a white penis that is a bigger than your 5 inch penis, and once she is fucking on a regular basis, emotionally she will be ready for the BIG BLACK COCKS automatically, especially if the porn you both watch has inter-racial sex in it.

Some wives freak out on taking a black man to bed, so if she fucks one of your mates she will be able to make the quantum leap.

Once the line is crossed, there will be no going back to a vanilla marriage. She will want as much cock as she can handle.

She is ready for BBC, but are you?

Once she starts to fuck BBC, then you will only be her "second husband" because she will have to spend a lot of time on building her "new relationship" with this wonderful Bull who is topping her up with awesome sex and multiple orgasms.

You will need to have the utmost respect towards her Bulls because this shows that you approve of her new lifestyle. If you don't show proper respect, she will see you as shallow and a man who does not keep his promises.

It is desirable that you appreciate that her new Bulls own her (as well as you). They are in charge and you should be prepared in your mind to be obedient to their wishes. Your wife will be home on their timetable, not yours.

 

[curious_uk]

Thanks plus developments

Thank you for that advice.

There are a couple of problems that have hindered progress.

1 - The ir porn seems too heavily focussed on very agressive rough play that my wife would not like.
2 - She comes across too many sissyfied male cucks. She doesn't like the idea of me being like that (neither do I come to think of it). I would like to be more sub and teased and humiliated but I am not into cross dressing etc.

If we could find some good hardcore erotic ir porn that was more 'mainstream' it might help.

What would make the biggest difference is just bumping into the right guy at the right time. That maybe tonight, tomorrow or next year. Who knows? She said she would consider getting off with one of my friends if it felt right but she probably wouldn't go all the way. Just a snog, a grope and perhaps a hand job. She was in her undies and wanking me when she told me that. She said I noticeably stiffened (all 5") when she said it and I came very quickly after. She seemed pleased at that, if a bit shocked. I dont think she fully realises how much this turns me on or how much I want it.

I will be patient and keep trying.

 

[Jimz]

Thank you for that advice.

There are a couple of problems that have hindered progress.

1 - The ir porn seems too heavily focussed on very agressive rough play that my wife would not like.
2 - She comes across too many sissyfied male cucks. She doesn't like the idea of me being like that (neither do I come to think of it). I would like to be more sub and teased and humiliated but I am not into cross dressing etc...

Maybe you haven't seen the right clips. There are many amateur clips featuring REAL wives with black lovers. Some are agressive... some are passionate... some are both! Message me for details, I can help you.

 

[polk]

Try to look for ir porn movies featuring Janet Mason, Lady Sonia or Raven Black.
They make hardcore ir porn without the very aggressive rough play.

 

[curious_uk]

update

Thank you for your suggestions so far.

She is no longer routinely dismissing it at all. During sexy play (where we talk while she strokes my cock) she asks more practical questions about it like where would it happen, how would we find the right guy, bareback?, would I clean her, would I clean him, would I watch or listen in or just wait at home. She commented how hard I was during the discussion. She knows Im a bit small but she doesnt question my ability to get it hard.

She still treatrs it like a fantasy rather than a reality but she doesnt talk of it in true fantasy terms. I hope you know what I mean. It just feels like she is really thinking about it. Really considering it and thinking through the implications..

I was at on the sofa and she was knelt in front of me gently almost absent mindedly wanking me. When I came i shot it on to her boobs (she was wearing bra and pants) and it fell in little blobs on her gorgeous white flesh. Normally she rushes off to wipe it with tissue paper but this time she allowed me to lick it off. Then she sat on my face and me lick her to orgasm. This is a big change. That is quite a departure for her to be so forward and initiating things and is relatyively 'kinky' for her.

I get this uneasy feeling I might have started something I now cant control, even if I wanted to.

 

[Josetta]

Yes, you have started something beautiful. Ask her which of your friends she would like to hug and cuddle if there was no chance of anyone finding out. Then say that you would like to clean up her pussy when she gets home. Don't push her, just let her desire grow as you suck her pussy every opportunity you get.

 

[black24]

The ans is yes !! the problem is doing it !! she wants what you want but does not want but is afarid that once she has done it it will change your relationship, and her and your feelings for each other, you must reassure her that this will not happen !! once she feels assured about that then she will let go !!

When that happens let me know !!!

 

[curious_uk]

worse or better?

She has changed a lot in the last few weeks never mind the last few years. Sexy clothes in - frumpy clothes out. Heels, shorter skirts, stockings, wonerbras, skimpy nighties, lacy pants, tight dresses, loose tops that fall open. She has also lost a few pounds. She wasn't overweight by any stretch but it seems to have really boosted her confidecne and self esteem. Still no sex for me but she is ok for me to wank but only to cuckold / ir porn. She uses her hand on me and makes me cum very quickly if she wants to - she dresses sexy, talks about ir sex and cuckolding me. We come on here or another cuck website and I get very hard and either she chats while I wank or we look together and then she wanks me afterwards. She teases me constantly about size and speed. Little wanker is her latest name for me. She wnaks me on her boobs and then I lick it off, she regularly sits on my face (last time she 'accidently' peed on me when she came) and spanks my bottom.

It is all very sexy and has led me to being permanently hard. But still she hasn't actually done or said that she will do it.

I know that more patience is required and that saying /doing the wrong thing now could ruin it all. What i'd like to know is this. Isf she did do it would she tell me about it or would she keep it a secret, at least for a short while. Will she tell me at all or just cheat. Or will she call me up and ask if its ok just as she is about to go past the point of no return. Or will she just say one evening while wanking me - "lets do it sort it out cuckboy."

 

[Josetta]

She will start when she feels she has the right opportunity. She might try it out a few times before she tells you - it depends on how and where it happens.

It is best not to know all the details until she has embraced her new lifestyle and everything is going to her liking.

She will feel nervous the first few times as it is like getting married a second time, and she has to be confident that you won't change your mind or get jealous of her lovers. She might try several Bulls or just stick to one for awhile depending on where she finds them.

She might keep her dates private, or she might eventually allow you to watch her being ridden, Hopefully, you will get a lot of "still hot" creampies or be allowed to suck on her panties to taste her Bull's sperm drips from her slit.

 

[5inchwhite]

sits on my face (last time she 'accidently' peed on me when she came) and spanks my bottom.

lol Actually ..congratulations u made ur wife squirt. u may have both thought it was pee. but it would have been a phenomenon (im sure we have all heard of it) known as squirting. excelllent oral skills mate it means she must have had quite a wonderful orgasm indeed.

 

[curious_uk]

a response

I think shed prefer to have a few goes before telling me (and I wouldn't mind if thats what she was comfortable with as long as she told me not long after) but she is worried about safety. Is that justified or is she worrying unduly.

As for squirting I dont know what to think. Should I tell her? But it seems a shame as I think she got a thrill out peeing on me. On the otherhand it would be a big plus if she knew she was so turned on by all this that she did something knew during sex play like squirt.

She has got even more flirty. Showing her cleavage off. She has started to disparage my sexual prowess in public and has clearly told her sister and a few friends something as they tease me, flirt with me and show themselves off to me. There is a party we have been invited to this weekend where we wont know that many people. Maybe!?

 

[Josetta]

Hope you thanked her when you felt warm liquid on your face. make sure you lick her box really well, because she needs to save up her sex vibrations for her new Bulls she is manifesting into her life. Be patient and she will one day let you meet them.

 

[curious_uk]

The Party

Apologies for the delay in updating. Been busy etc.

She wore a very sexy short thigh length black dress and bra that did wonders for her cleavage. She had stockings and heels on. Inn short she looked gorgeous.

We new a few people there but it was a big party and thst didn't really bother either of us. She was looking forward to relative anonymity and had been teasing me for days beforehand. From the moment we left the house I had a little tent showing in my pants; the fact that she kept referring to it made sure it stayed that way. Im only small so it just shows as a small but noticeable bulge in my trousers.

We ahd a few drinks, circulated and socialised etc. She got increasingly flirty and touchy as the evening wore on. She danced a bit, hands on arses, I spotted a couple of guys resting their hand on her boobs. When one guy left she gave him what she referred to as a goodbye kiss! It lasted about 10 mins and he felt her up good and proper. After hed left she cmae over to me with a very sexy naughty smile and said - why dont the two of us go and play.

She took us to another romm in the house. On the door it had a notice - same room fun - it said. I didn't really know what that was. I do now.

There were a few couples in there, all snogging and making out. No on was doing it really seriously. My wife suggested something that would be fun. She suggested the guys (4 of us) sit on the big sofa and hget their dicks out and the girls can wank them off. Simutaneously my heart sank and my dick twitched in excitement. The humilation; I would both love it and hate it.

They all agreed and we all sat next to each other. The girls, all pretty good looking, knelt down in front and began getting cocks out. Of course, the other guys all had pretty reasonable sized dicks, 7" +. After a bit of wnakin they were evn bigger. Mine is barely 5" and its small size was obvious and led to sniggers from the girls. God I was hard though and I was going to cum very quickly. Of course, my wife knew it and she leant forward and whispered in my ear if I'd like her to sit on one of those big ones. I blew my load on the spot and was ridiculed for being small and quick. She made me swap palces with her and eat her out. She came long and hard while the other guys were wanked off. The guy next to her got her boobs out and a good feel. Acidently, when he came most of shot over my wifes boobs and face. Funny that!?

We went home after that. My wife didn't want it to go any further because she wanted to get my reaction in the cold light of day the next morning. Had I enjoyed it? Did I want a repeat? Would I want her to actually go the whole way and cuckold me?