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Is there anyone else is this situation?

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Hi all,
Husband here. I’ve been wanting to write a post for sometime now, about joining or knowing more about the lifestyle. My partner is 35 just recently had a baby and I believe she has a smoking hawt, but she doesn’t believe so.
A couple of months ago I expressed my feelings about seeing her play with someone else. At the time she didn’t say no, and the sex we had that night was amazing and she wanted to see what type of porn I like.
Since that hot night we haven’t had anything similar.
just recently I mentioned that I want to record her during sex. She said don’t get my face! I replied with, so I can send it to others? And again she really… didn’t say no….
I guess my question is has anyone been through or is going through this stage?
I would love to discuss and share pics with other like minded people.
 
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Just to say she allows you to make vids and pics so she enjoys your playing
 
onlylooking said:
Hi all,
Husband here. I’ve been wanting to write a post for sometime now, about joining or knowing more about the lifestyle. My partner is 35 just recently had a baby and I believe she has a smoking hawt, but she doesn’t believe so.
A couple of months ago I expressed my feelings about seeing her play with someone else. At the time she didn’t say no, and the sex we had that night was amazing and she wanted to see what type of porn I like.
Since that hot night we haven’t had anything similar.
just recently I mentioned that I want to record her during sex. She said don’t get my face! I replied with, so I can send it to others? And again she really… didn’t say no….
I guess my question is has anyone been through or is going through this stage?
I would love to discuss and share pics with other like minded people.
Yes you are the path to becoming a candualist ...... a guy who likes sharing pics and videos of their wife with strangers.
 
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onlylooking said:
Hi all,
Husband here. I’ve been wanting to write a post for sometime now, about joining or knowing more about the lifestyle. My partner is 35 just recently had a baby and I believe she has a smoking hawt, but she doesn’t believe so.
A couple of months ago I expressed my feelings about seeing her play with someone else. At the time she didn’t say no, and the sex we had that night was amazing and she wanted to see what type of porn I like.
Since that hot night we haven’t had anything similar.
just recently I mentioned that I want to record her during sex. She said don’t get my face! I replied with, so I can send it to others? And again she really… didn’t say no….
I guess my question is has anyone been through or is going through this stage?
I would love to discuss and share pics with other like minded people.
This is the way my friend. When she starts not being bothered about showing her face in these pictures and videos, then it will be time to again mention that you'd love to see her with someone else as well.

No matter where it goes, you're in for an enjoyable ride.
 
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Enjoy it. She is gonna love the attention she gets from strangers
 
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Thanks everyone for your replies. Much appreciated! Some have shared their info and have discussed things similar. It’s good to know there are others out there feeling the same.
 
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If anyone wants chat and share their experiences about the lifestyle please feel free to DM myself. I would love to know how you got started!
 
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Be cautious. I've learned through bitter experience that anything other than YES is NO!
 
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I was the first playdate for a married couple I met. Husband sent me some pics of her and I posted by cock all over them and sent them back. She was turned on by the pics and that's how we started playing.
 
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onlylooking said:
Hi all,
Husband here. I’ve been wanting to write a post for sometime now, about joining or knowing more about the lifestyle. My partner is 35 just recently had a baby and I believe she has a smoking hawt, but she doesn’t believe so.
A couple of months ago I expressed my feelings about seeing her play with someone else. At the time she didn’t say no, and the sex we had that night was amazing and she wanted to see what type of porn I like.
Since that hot night we haven’t had anything similar.
just recently I mentioned that I want to record her during sex. She said don’t get my face! I replied with, so I can send it to others? And again she really… didn’t say no….
I guess my question is has anyone been through or is going through this stage?
I would love to discuss and share pics with other like minded people.
Similar experience except my (ex)wife was okay with her face in the vid because we didn't discuss them being shared. But soon, after more talk & encouragement, she was sharing them as she chatted with strangers. This finally led to MFM & more.
 
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onlylooking said:
... and she wanted to see what type of porn I like.
What did you show her, and how did it go? Showing her the right photos of other wives could help get her in the mood to show off.
 
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What did you show her, and how did it go? Showing her the right photos of other wives could help get her in the mood to show off.
I showed her those playboy mansion swinger series. Where “real life couples” (some said they were actors, but the poem is still hot as and can you going!) would swap partners. The was a couple where the wife was shy and only sucked a cock while her husband was fucking her. The sex after that for the next three days was amazing! Plus she was pregnant!
To this current date I haven’t promoted to watch poem together again, lol as I’m to shy she might say no.
 
bklyn_40 said:
Similar experience except my (ex)wife was okay with her face in the vid because we didn't discuss them being shared. But soon, after more talk & encouragement, she was sharing them as she chatted with strangers. This finally led to MFM & more.
That’s where I want it to process to. Still to this point she considers herself not attractive. But trust me, she is!! I encourage her to the point of saying you would make other blokes hard. She doesn’t believe it. My hope is she’s open having someone watch us having sex so that she can see how hot she is by making another bloke cum!
 
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