is there something wrong with me
- Thread startercurioushusband1979
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I always start my advice with "be careful what you wish for!" No, there is nothing wrong with your desire for a bit of perversion?/difference in your relationship is fairly common. You might want to check out a classic Marylin Monroe movies called the "7-Year Itch". Sound like you might be there.
As to relationships with black men, that is where you and she may have an agreement. I think all women have thoughts of infidelity but few act on them. Lets face it, masturbation with a nice vibrating dildo plus I don't have to put on make-up---perfect!
But let me assure you, your wife has already masturbated to the thoughts of having some black stud with an impossibly big dick and stamina pound her into orgasmic oblivion. Now the question is do you want to bring those sexual fantasies out in her and encourage her? This is where most men falter and for good reason. Marriage is a delicate balance of emotions, desires, and practicalities such as raising children. You may want an open relationship and she may too but can you afford to have one? I do not mean "afford" in the financial sense but rather the emotional one.
So why not wake up tomorrow and tell your wife that you dreamed of her getting pounded by a black stud with an impossibly big dick and that you want to have sex with her right now? If she responds positively, you have an opening for further discussion and the plus of morning sex! If she tells you to go jerk off in the shower--well, you have still that, but the idea is planted and she may respond later.
Sandy
As to relationships with black men, that is where you and she may have an agreement. I think all women have thoughts of infidelity but few act on them. Lets face it, masturbation with a nice vibrating dildo plus I don't have to put on make-up---perfect!
But let me assure you, your wife has already masturbated to the thoughts of having some black stud with an impossibly big dick and stamina pound her into orgasmic oblivion. Now the question is do you want to bring those sexual fantasies out in her and encourage her? This is where most men falter and for good reason. Marriage is a delicate balance of emotions, desires, and practicalities such as raising children. You may want an open relationship and she may too but can you afford to have one? I do not mean "afford" in the financial sense but rather the emotional one.
So why not wake up tomorrow and tell your wife that you dreamed of her getting pounded by a black stud with an impossibly big dick and that you want to have sex with her right now? If she responds positively, you have an opening for further discussion and the plus of morning sex! If she tells you to go jerk off in the shower--well, you have still that, but the idea is planted and she may respond later.
Sandy
