MacNfries said:
JimmyHCO, I think you might be going about all this the wrong way. I went back to read your other posts, since you're new here, and possibly there's a more logical solution to finding that special guy for your wife. Something just tells me she's not really into porn, and that's understandable. Way more men, than women, are into porn.
Ever think about the 2 of you joining a gym? I'm talking about something like a Gold's Gym, with lots of exercise equipment A couple positive things would come out of that ...
She'd get back in shape, her libido and energy levels would pick way up, and she'd start thinking really positive about her looks ... it's amazing what losing 30-40 pounds will do for you. I think if you saw her back at her original weight the day you met her, you might not want to share her.
Additionally, however, the 2 of you would gain ******** to lots of men, as about 2/3 of the people going to gyms are males. It'd give her a chance to meet guys that would show her how to use some of the specialized exercise equipment, and if they're already in shape, I imagine their sexual energy level would be way up there as well. You would want to plan the visits in the late afternoons or Saturdays, as those days seem the busiest. Any sexual event would probably develop rather slowly, over a few visits.
I discourage her meeting guys by herself for the purpose of having sex. If you are with her at the gym, and she flirts with a few guys, those guys will know she's married and if something develops, things will progress smoothly as they'll know everything is cool. It also gives YOU the chance to make friends with these guys ... kind of evaluate them. Then invite 'em over for a cookout or something. If your wife pretends to be single and suddenly springs that she's married, this may discourage many guys. But, again, I don't think porn is the way to go with your wife ... just my opinion, Mac!
Mac, thank you for your replies. Allow me to respond and address some of your advice - and hopefully you and other will be able to provide more insight.
First of all let me say that my wife does enjoy good porn. Of course, she doesn't watch porn regularly - like a lot of men do, but we usually do watch porn before having sex. Now she doesn't like gross, rough sex, especially where the girl is somehow being "disrespected". But she seems to be very turned on by porn where the woman is in somewhat dominating position, especially being eaten.
Now in bed my wife loves being eaten. I'd say she is the dominant one out of two of us - she loves to shove my head between her legs, and have me eat her while she cums time after time. This is why I'm looking for porn with elements similar to those I described. I don't want straight up cuckold porn, I want to show her MFM porn where neither man is a cuck or a bull, but with fragments where one of the males is eating the woman either during or after she's been fucked by the other man, or one of the males kissing the woman on the mouth after she sucked the other guys cock.
I'm just trying to find out what her reaction to this would be like - whether she gets grossed out or turned on. For instance, when we're having sex, I would let her suck my cock, rub it on her face, then give her a passionate kiss, and she enjoys it. While fucking, I would sometimes pull out, eat her, and then continue fucking her, and she enjoys that too. There was one time a few years ago, where during foreplay I went inside her, and came without her realizing that I came. Obviously after I pulled out, she wanted me to eat her out, and I ate her long and nice, eating out all of my own creampie, still with her not realizing. After I made her cum several times, she wanted me to fuck her, so I informed her of what happened and said I wasn't ready yet - she didn't seem phased out at all, and just shoved my head back in there, and had me eat her until she came a few more times. So clearly she finds nothing wrong with scenarios like that, but I'd like to know here reaction if it was to be another mans cock, another mans creampie. Would she find it gross, or would she get turned on? Knowing her reaction would be a great piece of information for me to learn, and base my decisions going forward.
Now, with that being said, my wife is a lot more of a slut than she admits to be. First of all, when we first started dating, she was a lot more slutty. Our relationship when started wasn't anything serious - I was just a young guy banging a hot milf. Neither of us expected it to turn out serious and especially marriage. So at that point she was a lot more open with me. She admitted that she cheated on her ex partners. She's had a good number of former partners as well, more than ten. She also said to me back then that she would like to experiment with two guys at once, but never had a chance to. We even contemplated setting something like that up - but she didn't want to do it with any of our mutual friends, for obvious reasons, and she was hesitant on doing it with a stranger, in fear of STD's. I sort of let these plans die off, which I really really regret now. See, I was halfway there, and I let it slip away.
In any case, as our relationship went, she started becoming more and more "well behaved", and especially after we got married she's all about being a good wife. Years back I mentioned her about that treesome, and she seemed to be grossed out by the idea, so I wouldn't even mention it anymore. Then if she hears about someone cheating on their partners, she gets all grossed out, and says how she would never, and says she never cheated on any of her partners. I guess she completely forgot that she told me in the past that she has cheated on them. Maybe in a serious relationship she wants to be seen as a "good girl", as most husbands are jealous and don't fancy the idea of their wife being a slut.
But I know she isn't as good girl as she wants to be seen. If you read my previous posts, I've described the situation with a friend of ours from a few years ago. She was so close to fucking him, all the had to do is make the first move. In any case, this is now a lost opportunity, but there's still a good chance that she will fuck somebody else. However theres just very little opportunity for her to meet anybody whom she would be potentially interested in.
Your idea with the gym is actually very good. I am actually a member of a local gym, and I try to go at least 3-4 times a week. However I don't think going together would be a good idea. First of all she would be hesitant on making any moves with me present, and second, potential guys are probably not going to approach her with me there, especially that I'm one of the strongest guys in the gym.
I know you object her from meeting with guys alone, but thats actually what I would like to happen. I want her to open this door by start screwing on the side. After that happens, hopefully it will spill out, and I'll be excited (instead of being upset as she would probably expect). From there hopefully it can grow into some threesomes. I see this as a very good possibility, I just have to play it right. I doubt we'll ever have a full cuckold experience, as I don't think she would like to see me in a submissive position to another man, but at this point I'll be satisfied with a treesome and hopefully little by little introduce some elements of cuckolding.
In any case, theres a ton of work to be done before we can even get to the treesome. Like I was saying before, I'm pretty positive she wouldn't have a problem cheating on me without me knowing, if she can find a partner she is genuinely interested in. The problem is to meet such partner. Shes not the type to go for a complete stranger for a one night stand, but she can be very flirty with people she knows for a while. A gym, with a personal trainer can be a good idea.
