Hubby had sent me his wife's e-mail address. Said I should e-mail her and see if I could interest her in doing something. This is what I e-mailed her.
Here are some thoughts of mine. Getting back to basics so to speak.
1. You aren't interested in sex with your husband because he is so bad at it.
2. You are willing to be in a sexless with him marriage because you
still love him. And couples can enjoy doing many other things
together.
3. You aren't willing to be celibate, go without sex, because you miss
the intimacy and fun of being with a good lover. Unlike some women who
don't mind going without sex because their husband/partner isn't able
to.
So you have 3 broad choices:
1. Have discreet affairs.
Fun on the side that he doesn't know about.
2. Be a hot wife.
Have affairs that he knows about. Many husbands their pleasure from
being told by their wife about what she and her lover did. Maybe some
photos (certainly not face photos!). Maybe he listens in on the
telephone - she calls him and leaves the phone on speaker phone.
3. Cuckold him.
Have him around while you and your lover have fun. Maybe he is just
in the house. Maybe the bedroom door is left open. Maybe you use a
baby monitor so he can listen in but you and your lover have privacy.
Most husbands are looking for 2 or 3, a hot wife or a cuckold relationship.
Many husbands want 3 but the wife's lover isn't comfortable being watched.
Many husbands want to feel and taste the lover in their wife. Proof
that their wife slept with a lover, and that the husband isn't
adequate for her.
The wet spot in or wetness of her underwear. The special slickness
from cum when they stroke and feel her pussy. They want to go down on
their wife and clean her up - the taste of another man in her, a cream
pie.
You have to decide how much you want him to know and how much you want
him involved.
I suspect that if you let him know that you have a lover then he will
probably want to know the details of what you and your lover did
together.
While you don't want sex with him, are you willing to have him touch
you, feel the wetness and slickness. Maybe go down on you to clean you
up.
And if he wants to be around how much do you want him involved. From
just being in the house to actually being in the room.
And how much of a mind fuck or mental domination do you want? Just his
knowing about or watching you and your lover. To telling him that he
isn't adequate and that you need a real man.
As I said before, many couples are afraid of cuckolding because the
guy really just wants to watch his wife with another man - a personal
sex show. They don't want verbal or physical humiliation. A mental
mind fuck is ok - seeing and hearing one's lady being intimate with
another guy does stretch some mental limits. But physically dominating
the husband they aren't comfortable with.
Here are some thoughts of mine. Getting back to basics so to speak.
1. You aren't interested in sex with your husband because he is so bad at it.
2. You are willing to be in a sexless with him marriage because you
still love him. And couples can enjoy doing many other things
together.
3. You aren't willing to be celibate, go without sex, because you miss
the intimacy and fun of being with a good lover. Unlike some women who
don't mind going without sex because their husband/partner isn't able
to.
So you have 3 broad choices:
1. Have discreet affairs.
Fun on the side that he doesn't know about.
2. Be a hot wife.
Have affairs that he knows about. Many husbands their pleasure from
being told by their wife about what she and her lover did. Maybe some
photos (certainly not face photos!). Maybe he listens in on the
telephone - she calls him and leaves the phone on speaker phone.
3. Cuckold him.
Have him around while you and your lover have fun. Maybe he is just
in the house. Maybe the bedroom door is left open. Maybe you use a
baby monitor so he can listen in but you and your lover have privacy.
Most husbands are looking for 2 or 3, a hot wife or a cuckold relationship.
Many husbands want 3 but the wife's lover isn't comfortable being watched.
Many husbands want to feel and taste the lover in their wife. Proof
that their wife slept with a lover, and that the husband isn't
adequate for her.
The wet spot in or wetness of her underwear. The special slickness
from cum when they stroke and feel her pussy. They want to go down on
their wife and clean her up - the taste of another man in her, a cream
pie.
You have to decide how much you want him to know and how much you want
him involved.
I suspect that if you let him know that you have a lover then he will
probably want to know the details of what you and your lover did
together.
While you don't want sex with him, are you willing to have him touch
you, feel the wetness and slickness. Maybe go down on you to clean you
up.
And if he wants to be around how much do you want him involved. From
just being in the house to actually being in the room.
And how much of a mind fuck or mental domination do you want? Just his
knowing about or watching you and your lover. To telling him that he
isn't adequate and that you need a real man.
As I said before, many couples are afraid of cuckolding because the
guy really just wants to watch his wife with another man - a personal
sex show. They don't want verbal or physical humiliation. A mental
mind fuck is ok - seeing and hearing one's lady being intimate with
another guy does stretch some mental limits. But physically dominating
the husband they aren't comfortable with.
