You have it right....
Hi Ms. Terryforsex,
terryforsex said:
Ever get a craving to mate with a guy who isn't your husband? It's natural to do that, like a need to make a baby that is from a guy who is great looking, having desires of sexual frenzy just being in bed with him. Husbands are OK, but sometimes at the heat of the moment...it's the best time to breed with the guy of our choice. It happens. Pregnancy [results] from a lover, and the husband is the "father" [i.e., the "daddy"]
but not the sperm donor.
No, since I'm not a woman.
But yes, you have it right. Baker (see ref. below) points out that a woman who has access to a lover (or lovers) is most likely to feel a strong urge to fuck a lover who appears genetically superior to her husband during the time of the month when she is most fertile. The result, as you point out, is a child her husband may think is his, if she also fucks him during the month of her conception, but in reality has been sired by her lover.
In his book, Baker describes how women accomplish this. The result, if a woman has a long-term partner (/husband) plus one or more lovers, is that her first child is most likely sired by a lover. Her second child, however, is most likely sired by her husband. (This is a practical consideration. If a woman's husband suspects or knows at least one of her children was sired by him, he is more likely to stick around and help support her and raise her children.) The children beyond two of such a woman, if any, are increasingly likely to be sired by her lovers.
All this, of course, is "on average" in a statistical sense. Thus, the above paragraph may or may not apply in the case of a particular woman.
"Daddy," as used in your second post, seems the most appropriate word for a man with a child fathered by one of his wife's lovers. "Cuckold" is even more appropriate, of course, but "daddy" is more genteel and shields the wife from having to label her husband as a cuckold.... something he might not appreciate if he thinks her child (/children) is (/are) "his."
Thanks for posting your photo, BTW. You have gorgeous big tits, a good-looking figure, a beautiful, sensuous-looking face and very attractive hair. Your husband is very fortunate that you agreed to become his wife. From your point of view, you clearly have the capacity to cuckold your husband many times over.... and your posts suggest that perhaps you have. If so, good for you. I encourage you to keep up your active extra-marital sex life.
—Custer
Ref.:
Baker, Robin, Ph.D. 1996. Sperm Wars: The Science of Sex. BasicBooks, 319 pp.
*Unfortunately, my laptop doesn't have good enough resolution to read the text in your photo. Would it be feasible for you to re-write it at larger size as a new post in this thread? If so, thanks.
