I was wondering if there's any interest in a thread for those of us who are working on a reluctant wife/girlfriend to share our little bits of progress, frustrations, and hopefully our eventual success? It will be pretty underwhelming to those who are living the lifestyle but I think there are lots of us out there who haven't made it yet but are trying...
My wife and I started discussing having another person join us several years ago and have had a couple of threesome type experiences, but a few years ago I started getting really turned on by the idea of her having sex with other men without me. I sort of worked the idea into our conversations, dropping hints, etc, and she does get aroused when I talk to her about it during sex. I have finally managed (I think) to convince her that I would really, truly be ok with it.
In the past year or so, she has identified a couple of guys that she might do it with, and she has engaged in some flirting, pic swapping, etc with one of them.
I encourage it as much as I can, realizing that it may or may not happen. But each little milestone in the right direction is exciting, and I thought it might be fun to share them with those who are in a similar situation...
My wife and I started discussing having another person join us several years ago and have had a couple of threesome type experiences, but a few years ago I started getting really turned on by the idea of her having sex with other men without me. I sort of worked the idea into our conversations, dropping hints, etc, and she does get aroused when I talk to her about it during sex. I have finally managed (I think) to convince her that I would really, truly be ok with it.
In the past year or so, she has identified a couple of guys that she might do it with, and she has engaged in some flirting, pic swapping, etc with one of them.
I encourage it as much as I can, realizing that it may or may not happen. But each little milestone in the right direction is exciting, and I thought it might be fun to share them with those who are in a similar situation...