Cuckme ... lots of times married guys misscommunicate to their wives exactly what it is they really want, thus, because of the misscommunication, the wives resist considering their husband's request. Cuckolding involves actual "cheating" ... a wife pursuing other men for sex. It doesn't involve their husbands in any way. Husbands become cuckolds by the fact that their wives are out fucking other men. Married women have a REAL problem trying to understand WHY their husbands want them to cheat, as they relate cheating to DIVORCE ... which, if the wife is comfortable/happy with her marriage, she's not going to even consider, particularly when kids are impacted.
However, most "happily" married men really don't desire that their wives go OUT and secretly fuck other men. What the married men usually desire is to WATCH or WITNESS their wives having sex with other men, and this is not necessarily related to cuckolding, or cheating. I've watched my wife several times having sex with other men, but never have I considered it cheating, and she doesn't go out and find men, on her own, to have sex with when I'm not going to be present.
So it's very likely, if you approached your desire from a "couple swapping" or "MMF threesom" approach, she might be more receptive in discussing it. My wife prefers MMF to other forms of sex when the opportunity arises. And the rememberance of the experience usually lasts us weeks and even months, as we have our normal sex together ... it definitely adds & revitalizes our sexual desire for each other. Mac