About 30 years ago, I'm out, one night, with three of my buddies one. One of them, out of the blue, asked me if i knew what my wife was doing.
FYI, we were not living together at the time, although we still did things as a couple & as a family, occasionally.
Evidently, one of her lovers told one of his buddies who then told one of the guys we both knew & that is how it got back to me.
I very calmly said we are not living together, she has her friends & i have mine. She is free to do what ever she wants. I don't own her.
I was surprised that i had no emotional reaction to his question. i felt no different than if he had asked where i had lunch that day.
Of course, back then i had never heard of a HW or a cuck. Now that i do know i find myself not caring who knows what we do.
I know there is a great deal of angst, in this LS about others finding out about our secrets. Has anyone had the same reaction that i did & can you explain how you did feel?
I would also like to hear from the ladies how they feel about others becoming aware & if any of them share my lack of concern.
Before anyone mentions it, our kids we in mid to late teens & my buddies families & mine did not overlap. Ever though, these were strictly my friends, they occasionally were in my wife's company.
Thanx,
Pete
FYI, we were not living together at the time, although we still did things as a couple & as a family, occasionally.
Evidently, one of her lovers told one of his buddies who then told one of the guys we both knew & that is how it got back to me.
I very calmly said we are not living together, she has her friends & i have mine. She is free to do what ever she wants. I don't own her.
I was surprised that i had no emotional reaction to his question. i felt no different than if he had asked where i had lunch that day.
Of course, back then i had never heard of a HW or a cuck. Now that i do know i find myself not caring who knows what we do.
I know there is a great deal of angst, in this LS about others finding out about our secrets. Has anyone had the same reaction that i did & can you explain how you did feel?
I would also like to hear from the ladies how they feel about others becoming aware & if any of them share my lack of concern.
Before anyone mentions it, our kids we in mid to late teens & my buddies families & mine did not overlap. Ever though, these were strictly my friends, they occasionally were in my wife's company.
Thanx,
Pete
