I have started a question thread but with replies on that thread I think I need to simply ask what and how do I prepare for what might be my wife actually sleeping with another man. So here is a quick run down of our situation as this might help narrow the laundry list of things I need to cover.
1. We have a geat marriage. married around 20 years very active sex life, all levels sex, lovemaking and down right dirty fucking!
2. comminucation is strong
3. working on this fantasy for more then 6 years
4. recently realized from my part we need to have time that is just Kelly and I having sex with out the fantasy of a 3rd person. focusing on really connecting. I have enjoyed the intensity of this fantasy that I had forgotten the joy of just us. The other day Kelly said "I want sex but no visitors." It was amazing and I realized this has to be a part of what we do as we progress with this idea.
5. Kelly met someone a little while ago that is a first real possibilty.
so based on this quick run down of our situation what things am I not thinking of and need to cover?
1. We have a geat marriage. married around 20 years very active sex life, all levels sex, lovemaking and down right dirty fucking!
2. comminucation is strong
3. working on this fantasy for more then 6 years
4. recently realized from my part we need to have time that is just Kelly and I having sex with out the fantasy of a 3rd person. focusing on really connecting. I have enjoyed the intensity of this fantasy that I had forgotten the joy of just us. The other day Kelly said "I want sex but no visitors." It was amazing and I realized this has to be a part of what we do as we progress with this idea.
5. Kelly met someone a little while ago that is a first real possibilty.
so based on this quick run down of our situation what things am I not thinking of and need to cover?