My Wife Let Me Watch Last Night

[CuckoldMick]

For those of you that have read my previous posts you know that I had been experiencing anxiety over not being included in my wife’s outside sex play. The advice I received was that I needed to discuss this with Kristen, but I was reluctant to do so because I didn’t want her to stop playing altogether. This matter was brought to a head recently when I didn’t adequately cover my internet tracks to this site and Kris got curious. It didn’t take her too long to figure out that I was CuckoldMick and she read my posts. You can imagine my surprise when she called me and told me she had read everything.

This turn of events really scared me because I have been rather honest in my posts and there are things I have written that I would not ordinarily want her to know about. But the prevailing message Krissy got from my messages was that I enjoyed her ex par liaisons and just wanted to be included more often. Instead of being mad, she was open to discuss the matter, asking me to write down what I would like to do and my thoughts for being more involved. I gave her my written ideas and a listing of the kinds of activities I thought I might like and also some information on open marriage, cuckolding, femdom fetish activities and so on.

In response, last week Krissy made contact with several men from our swinger’s web site and described our situation and what we were looking for--- that is a “stud” to play with us as a “cuckolded” couple. From these guys she made her selection--- a good looking athletic man with a nice cock with girth. Kris shared his pics with me and let me see a photo of his erect cock. It was decided that we would get together on Saturday evening (last night), and that I would be allowed to watch them have sex on our marital bed from a chair in the room. This would be the first time in 3 years that we made arrangements to play with a stud willing to let me watch.

On Saturday Kris went over my interest list with me and asked if there was anything on it that I really didn’t want to do, since the list was general and had everything on it from watching and listening to eating creampies to feminization play. I decided to leave it up to her. We started to get ready for our guest about 4 in the afternoon and Kris came to me and said that she would be in charge, that I would sit in a chair in the corner of the room and say nothing and that I would not be allowed to join in the play. Then she officially began the evening’s activities by asking me to assist her prepare for her date.

She sat her vanity and began doing her hair and make-up and then asked to talk with me again--- instructing me to get the dirty panties she had placed in my bathroom drawer after her last date and to come back and put them on in front of her. A bit surprised I did as requested--- retrieved the black lacey panties (which had messy-white cum stains in the crotch), returned to her, removed my pants, slipped her dirty pants on and pulled up my pants. This was quite erotic and underneath it all I felt my cock grow and press against the silky material. She then instructed me to prepare the room and house for our guest which, entailed lighting candles, making up the bed, cleaning the bath, etc. I placed a bottle of red wine on the table in front of the couch in the living room and two wine glasses. She asked me to leave some personal lubricant on my nightstand for their use. The stage was set (continued below).

CuckoldMick

 

[CuckoldMick]

Kristen received a text message from her stud (Jim) around 6 pm saying that he would arrive about 8. Finished with her hair and make-up she had me help her select the bustier, stockings and panties for her date. We chose her black bustier with pink trim, black stockings with a line up the back, and black panties with pink decoration. I assisted her by latching the numerous little clasps on the back of her bustier and clipping the top of her stockings in the garter strap supports. She also asked me to put lotion all over her body. She had me help her select her high heels— black paten leather with a six inch heel.

At 7:30 she told me to get a medium sized butt plug from her “toy box” and some lubricant--- and instructed me to drop my pants and panties and kneel on the edge of the bed with my ass in the air. She applied the lub and with gentle pressure slipped the rubber plug in until it was seated properly. Wearing the butt plug and panties she said was to serve as physical reminders that tonight I was her cuckold. I asked her if I would be allowed to jack-off while she played and she gave me permission--- then told me to go sit in the chair next to the bed.

In the chair the presence of the butt plug was all too apparent as I sat for about 20 minutes alone, waiting for Jim to arrive. I got up for a minute to have a smoke and get some lubricant, but during the long wait I mainly sat quietly and contemplated the evening.

Finally the doorbell and I could hear the clicking of Kristen’s high heels as she walked to the door to let her new stud in--- some muffled chit chat and giggling… clinking of wine glasses… popping sound as the cork came out of the bottle…pouring noises…more muffled talking and laughing. It was hard to just sit there and wait, and I really wanted to sneak a peak at the two of them together. After about 10-15 minutes the noises stopped--- and I surmised that they were making out. Then they moved from the living room to the back yard (which is located outside our bedroom) where Kris had a smoke--- more muffled talking, giggles and laughter.

The moment of truth arrived about 8:30 when Krissy escorted Jim into our bedroom--- it was an uneasy moment for both of us guys, as we had not met and I detected a brief flash of concern on his face when he saw me sitting in the dark corner of the room (the room was candle lighted with low level lamps on so I would be able to see the play). I too suffered through this anxious moment--- experiencing a brief burning sensation of embarrassment and humiliation. They sat on the edge of our bed, backs turned toward me, sipping their wine and otherwise ignoring me.

Kris took the initiative to get things going--- kissing him and they made out for a few minutes. She asked him if he liked her bustier and her breasts and let him feel her up while they kissed. She felt his cock though his jeans and commented that it “felt nice” followed by “mmmmmmms”. I unzipped my pants and took out my cock, which was getting hard, dripped lubricant on it and my hand and began slowly stroking myself to the scene in front of me. (Continued below)

CuckoldMick

 

[CuckoldMick]

As I stroked my cock I could feel my asshole grip the rubber butt plug, reminding me of my “place” this evening. But soon both the discomfort I felt in my ass and the thought of another man’s cum all over Kristen’s panties rubbing against my cock and balls were forgotten--- as the play began.

Kris had Jim stand up and they kissed--- their faces pushed together, his hands running over her body coming to rest on her ass. Kris’s fingers stroking his short dusty blond hair. She asked him to undress her, and he removed her black top and skirt--- down to her sexy lingerie. He quickly lost his clothing and she had him lay on his back on the bed with his head toward me--- her hand grasping and stroking his cock.

My wife made sure that the play was always carried out in a way (position) that was advantageous to me. They kissed and then she moved down and took his cock in her mouth, sucking it in, moving her lips up and down the shaft making mmmmm sounds. Jim let out a series of gasps, exhaling his pleasure as my wife sucked him in and out of her mouth. After a few minutes Kris had him sit on the edge of the bed directly in front of me (about 3 feet away) and squatted down in front of him and continued to suck his cock--- making sure that I could see and hear everything.

I got rock hard watching her work on this man. The shape of her round ass and hips, her bustier and stockings, the way her panties rode up into her ass and pussy--- it was almost too much. Her head bobbed up and down off Jim’s cock… making sucking noises…his frequent grunts and gasps right there in front of me… nearly caused me to cum long before I wanted to. Oh my God this was so hot and sexy. I loved watching her do this--- her golden brown hair whisking around his cock and balls as she sucked him in--- all the way until her lips came into contact with his clean shaven public area. Jim whispered for her to stop as he too was near to cumming.

Kris asked Jim to pull off her panties and then she mounted him on top--- sitting on his erection…rubbing her pussy on him and then raising up and collecting his hard cock into her opening. She slowly pushed down and her stud’s cock slid in up to his balls. I returned to stroking myself mesmerized by what was happening a few feet in front of me.

I no longer had to wonder what “it” looked like after so many nights sitting home alone while Krissy was out. They were fucking--- right there on our bed…her ass moving up and down, on and off Jim’s cock… which disappeared and reemerged with increased frequency. I had momentary thoughts that I wished it was my cock in my wife…but I had asked Kristen to do this for me and I quickly stopped such thinking and concentrated on the two lovers having sex before me.

It was incredibly erotic, hot, sexy--- and feelings of arousal were mixed with an anxious sensation, a burning in my stomach, of humiliation and submissiveness. Here I was, sitting in the corner watching another man fuck my wife, wearing her used panties, impaled from behind by the thick butt plug she had me wear--- while this man, this unknown person, was enjoying the supreme pleasure of fucking my beautiful wife. I was consumed by the thought that Jim’s cock was in MY WIFE’s vagina--- and a little ashamed that I wanted him to fuck her and that I was so very turned on by it.

Kris rode his cock for a long time, moaning and mmmming, and whispering to her lover…telling him how good his cock felt in her, what a good lover he was and that she was cumming. Her moans got louder as she neared her orgasm…her ass moving more rapidly on and off Jim’s slick cock. I had to stop masturbating as I again nearly came. (Continued below).

CuckoldMick

 

[DomBullxxx]

Please continue, this is good. You really need to include some pictures of Kris.

 

[NYJOE]

You evidenty had a great time and found your "groove"
Now, buckle up for a wild ride.

Helping your wife getting ready for a date with her lover is wonderfully erotic to say the least.

"......It was incredibly erotic, hot, sexy--- and feelings of arousal were mixed with an anxious sensation, a burning in my stomach, of humiliation and submissiveness......."

"..... I was consumed by the thought that Jim’s cock was in MY WIFE’s vagina--- and a little ashamed that I wanted him to fuck her and that I was so very turned on by it......."

Those staments just about epitomize what most feel (and love) about having their wives fuking other guys.

 

[CuckoldMick]

Kris had a trembling orgasm. Riding Jim’s cock to orgasm brings up an issue I have in my sex life with Kristen. When I was younger I enjoyed having sex with my partner on top. But over the years I began to enjoy this position less, principally because I have found it harder to cum when on my back. This is also true with oral sex. I enjoy getting a blow job in the sitting position, but when I’m on my back I can’t cum with any speed. In fact, I stand to orgasm when I masturbate by myself because it is much better and I am able to release more sperm.

My point is that as a rule Krissy likes to be on top with her BFs--- because as I understand it women can reach an orgasm, and a better orgasm, when they can control the movement of the penis in this position. So one of my feelings of inadequacy is that I have not been able to satisfy her in this way--- even though I have always felt that with some attention to the matter I could learn how to please her. At the present though, my anxiety over not being able to please her this way adversely affects my ability to keep it up when she’s on top.

Back to my report--- after her orgasm she dismounted and laid on her back inviting Jim to take her in the missionary position. He started slow and then began to fuck her hard, making loud slapping sounds as their bodies hit together. From my view I could not see his cock moving in and out of her but I enjoyed watching the expression on their faces as they stared into each other’s eyes, breathing out lustfully, and make the sounds two people make when fucking. Krissy kept telling him how good it felt, saying “Oh God that’s good”, “Oh God you feel so good”, with a cry in her voice. From time to time she looked over at me, directly into my eyes as he fucked her. Her legs were wide open and she still had her paten leather heels on. Suddenly she breathed out, “Oh ya, oh God, right there, oh ya” and then a series of dreamy mmmmms as she reach another orgasm.

There was some giggling and breathless whispering as they rested for a minute or two and then Kris asked her lover if he wanted her to get on her knees. They switched around with my wife on her knees facing me and Jim behind her. Kris stared right at me has he slipped his cock in her from behind and quickly worked up to the familiar slapping sounds they made before. He was holding on to her hips hitting her hard from behind as Krissy moaned and moaned and expressed her pleasure in a series of “oh my Gods” and “it feels so good”. All the while I kept time, feverishly jacking my cock until I could feel the cum building up in my balls--- and then slowing down to a slower rhythm to prevent an accidental orgasm. By now I was using pre cum as lubricant.

I could tell from the way Jim was fucking Kris and the expression on this face that he was nearing his first orgasm and I am embarrassed to write that I was secretly urging him on---- first because it gives me a special sexual charge to know that another man is ejaculating into my wife’s vagina, and second because Kris had promised me earlier that she would let me eat her fresh creampie tonight… something I have never done before, and really wanted to do. I didn’t have to wait very long. Kris began telling Jim to “cum inside me, baby” as he fucked her--- looking over at me as she did as if to signal to me that I was about to get what I had asked for. Seconds later her lover let out a load grunt and unloaded in her with several hard slaps and more grunting and the gasps of a man in sexual ecstasy. Surely there is nothing more pleasurable for the stud than to cum in a married woman’s pussy with her husband watching.

As if rehearsed, Jim threw himself back on the other side of the bed a few seconds after the last of his sperm oozed into my wife and Kristen turned around on her knees stopping on the edge of the bed (directly in my face). She hiked her ass in the air and told me to “clean her pussy”. This was it, there was no turning back.

I leaned forward and dropped out of the chair onto my knees and moved over behind her--- her pussy was open and white creamy sperm was present in the opening and on her vaginal lips. I didn’t hesitate--- putting my mouth directly on her pussy and licking and sucking it, tasting Jin’s cum in my mouth, smearing it on my chin, nose and cheeks and swallowing it down. In the middle of this otherwise “perverted” sex act, Kris pulled away from me, leaving me not quite satiated. I whispered to her that I wanted to keep going, but she let out an audible “no, go sit back down”. Which I did, back in my corner, on the rubbery object in my ass, with her lover’s cum in my mouth and all over my face. I felt the fluid grow cold on my face as I sat and waited for what would come next. (Continued below).

CuckoldMick

 

[CuckoldMick]

One of the things that amazes me about the men Kristen plays with is their ability to go on and on--- their stamina and staying power. And while I want this for my wife, I have to admit that it makes me envious--- I wish I had their abilities to fuck all night long. As I said before, it’s not my cock size that’s “less-than”, it’s my staying power.

Proof of the point--- after about a 20 minute break, Jim was back fucking Krissy again. They fucked dog style for a while and then missionary--- with all the obligatory moaning and oohhing and mmmming. After about 15 minutes Kris again encouraged her lover to cum in her pussy… which he was more than happy to do. More grunts and gasps and slapping and Jim deposited another load of sperm in my wife’s vagina. After his orgasm Jim leaned back and Kris told me to take a picture of her creampie--- I took several including the one I have attached that shows both my wife’s pussy and her lover’s cum coated cock… about 30 seconds after his second orgasm.

This surprised me for a number of reasons--- most of all because I assumed we were pretty much done for the night after I cleaned Krissy up less than an hour ago. Even more surprising--- Kris directed me onto the bed and had me lay on my back next to her. I kinda knew what was going to happen and it did--- she lifted her leg over me and straddled my face. Telling me to “lick it all out” she queened me--- again I had a mouth and face full of her lover’s cum.

This report sounds fantastic even to me, but I can tell you this is what happened. I’m out of time--- but have more to tell. (Continued below).

CuckoldMick

 

[CuckoldMick]

Forgot to attached this photo I mentioned above...here it is:

 

[Meat4MySweet]

WOW.. great stuff... awesome pic..

oh what a Lucky Cuck you are...

 

[CuckoldMick]

Responding charitably to our discussion about involving me more in her play, this evening Kristen apparently wanted to give me as many “activities” as I had written on my list as possible--- in one night.

After Jim’s second orgasm the two lovers took a lengthy break--- talking, laughing, smoking, sipping their wine. After a while Kris went to the closet and brought out her toy box and spent a few minutes showing all her toys to her BF including her favorite dildos, butt plugs, collars, handcuffs, etc.--- telling him that next time they could look at employing some of these in the play.

I was ignored. By now my balls were really starting to ache, the butt plug was getting uncomfortable, the panties were riding up in several places and I was ready for the evening to end. Moreover, after all the sexual stimulation if there was going to be anymore playing, I secretly wanted to join in--- a MFM threesome sounded very nice.

Disallowed from speaking to the lovers, I knocked on the nightstand and motioned to Kris that I’d like to have a smoke and bathroom break. She told me to go ahead. I started for the bathroom but before I reached the door she called to me saying “be sure to ‘sit’ to pee”.

Actually, neither wearing her dirty panties nor sitting to pee were on my list--- though I have to admit being made to wear her lacey undergarment did contribute to my sustained arousal and humiliation. In the bathroom I pulled my pants and panties down and sat on the toilet--- looking down at the black silky panties that were suspended between my ankles. As I relieved myself Kris peaked around the door frame to make sure I was doing as I was told, then went back to her lover on our bed.

While I was gone Kris had Jim insert a butt plug in her ass and as I settled back in my chair she started sucking his cock again. Jim was lying on his back on “my side” of the bed, head propped on “my” pillow--- Kris was on her knees with her ass toward me, clearly displaying the toy in her bottom. Amazingly, her stud got another hard-on and was ready to go a third time. I was thunderstruck by this guy’s stamina and ability to fuck all night long. I quickly pulled out my cock and began jacking off. This was unexpected.

What happened next really sent me into subspace. Kris initiated the play by getting on top and riding Jim’s cock again. After a few minutes her butt plug slipped out and dropped onto the bed spread. She motioned for me to come over and told me to reinsert the toy, which I did--- and then directed me to hold it in with my fingers while she rode her stud.

I have never participated like this before and it was both highly erotic and completely humiliating--- it was hard to believe I was doing this. Though I quickly add that the birds eye view I had of the two of them coupling was bringing me close to cumming.

So while she fucked her BF on my side of the bed, I stood bedside, my cock dangling out through the fly in my pants, holding her butt plug in with two fingers, and trying to keep pace with the up and down movement of my wife’s ass. After a minute or so, Kris said, “thank you sweetie”, for helping out. This went on for a little while and then Kris asked Jim if he’d like to do anal--- something that actual was on my list.

Kris asked me to pull the toy out and I stood watching as her lover scooted down a bit to achieve the necessary alignment and then futilely push up several times missing his mark. Struggling to make the connection, Kris had me hold her ass cheeks apart manually and then at the right moment push her hips downward. This did the trick and as I held her open and gently applied downward pressure, her lover’s cock head disappeared in my wife’s ass. She began riding him, moaning, mmmming, crying out loudly about how “good it felt”--- I retreated back to the corner and started masturbating furiously.

Kris got tired of being on top and they stopped for a minute while she got on her knees, facing toward me. While Jim prepared his cock Kris had me join them--- scooting on my back under her until my face was aligned underneath her pussy. Above me Jim moved forward and continued fucking my wife in the ass. Kris directed me to “lick my pussy”--- and I went to work with my tongue and lips just below the action. This only lasted a minute or so because Jim was uncomfortable with me being there and I was relegated back to my chair.

Watching my wife get fucked in the ass was the apex of this experience. They went at it hot and heavy and there was lots of gasps, grunts, moans--- and slapping as her lover hit her hard from behind. Few things could be more sexually exciting for a cuckold than to sit and watch another man fuck his wife in the ass--- and few things could be this humiliating. I was really on the “edge” and I could feel an enormous orgasm building. This was not what I wanted, because secretly I was still hoping for a threesome--- maybe even “DP”. So I backed off and slowed my stroking to a snail’s pace.

This ploy did not work very well--- as the play was simply more than I could handle. Kris was moaning and mmmming, saying things like, “push it in harder”, “make me cum”, “ya, fuck me right there”, “you have such a beautiful cock”, and finally “cum in my ass baby”. Meantime her happy stud was taunting her lustfully saying stuff like, “you want me to cum in your ass--- don’t you…. tell me”.

It was all too much and suddenly I began to lose control. I quickly stopped all friction and just let my cock rest in my hand--- it was as hard as it gets and throbbing. Too late, I saw white cum form on its tip and felt the first wave of orgasm begin to pump out three hours worth of build up.

Unfortunately, stopping at this critical moment and trying hard not to cum more or less ruined my actual orgasm--- to put it in cuckoldry terms, it was more like a “milking” than an orgasm. I instinctively placed my left hand in front of my cock, palm up, and the warm creamy-white cum oozed on to it forming a translucent-milky pool of semen there. “Fuck”, was all I could muster--- this was not what I wanted.

However, because I had ejaculated absent a “real” orgasm I retained much of the sexual arousal built up over the course of the evening--- and being in this state of mind, I spontaneously licked the gooey load off my palm and swallowed it down. I still don’t know exactly why I did this--- but it seemed like a good idea at the time.

On the bed in front of me, Kris and Jim were still going at it. (Continued below).

CuckoldMick

 

[Harry2614]

Hey, CuckoldMick,
Glad to see you have joined the "writers club"!! Your description of your wife and her lover is great. It gives me the same inspiration as SoonToBe does in his posts.
Well done and my vicarious brain is sopping it up.

Chreers, Harry

 

[CuckoldMick]

Happy everyone enjoys my descriptions of the play--- after reading my posts again, its hard to believe that all this happened--- and I would never remember such detail next month. All the more reason to put it down on paper. Best wishes!!

PS I am working on my final "segement"...lol

 

[CuckoldMick]

Okay, let’s finish this marathon report off this morning.

You may have guessed that after a few more minutes, with Kris urging him on, Jim let out a window shaking grunt of lust and emptied himself into my wife’s ass. I think Kris had cum a little bit earlier and this is one reason she was encouraging her lover to finish up. Of course this was partially wasted on me as I sat there recovering from my own untimely orgasm--- and I have never wanted an “anal creampie”.

After the two of them recovered the evening wound down very quickly. Jim got up to take a shower, Kris went over to the computer to check out her favorite websites and I dropped my pants, took off Kris’ panties and removed the butt plug. When Jim returned from the bath we sat on the bed and talked about “man things”, the Super Bowl, the upcoming baseball season, etc. We also discussed the possibility of having a full participation threesome next time--- though I could tell his real interest was to get my wife alone.

About half an hour later I escorted my wife’s playmate to the front door, I thanked him for making my wife happy and we shook hands goodbye. The play was not quite over though. In bed a while later Kris had me use toys on her to give her one last orgasm. Per our original agreement however, I was denied any sex--- but truthfully, I was too tired to enjoy it anyway.

Now some concluding thoughts. I very much appreciated what Kristen did for me, even if it was a “little over the top”. She really made an effort to make some of my fantasies come to life and it was very exciting and erotic. Though I got buyers remorse about not being able to participate at all--- perhaps being teased and denied for three hours had more punch and erotic staying power than the MFM would have had anyway.

In the end I came away with one prevailing lesson--- the reason why women like to play outside the marriage is because the sex is far more enjoyable, far more hot and erotic, and they can have far more orgasms than with “normal” marital sex. It doesn’t really matter whether the husband is a stud or not or conversely if the husband is a dead fuck or has a small cock--- marital sex is a poor substitute for the kind of sex play I witnessed this evening. And why wouldn’t a woman be a hot wife if she could? I’m sure that many guys would love to fuck a 23 year old cheerleader two or three times a month if their wives would give permission.

But the uniqueness of the hot wife-cuckolded husband phenomenon is that it only goes one way--- that is men are willing to give their wives permission to fuck other men (for a number of good reasons), but women are not typically willing to repay the favor. One blatant reason why this is true--- women know women, and they believe that with sex comes the chance that they will lose their husbands. Moreover, women are always in charge of a man’s sex life, in a traditional marriage and in a cuckold relationship…makes little difference. Fact is, marital sex dies off after a few years no matter what. At least in a cuckold relationship when the wife says “no” it is viewed as part of the “play” and men find it sexually simulating. I copied the following testimony from a blog to illustrate my point:

“Before marriage, sex happened almost every day; she initiated sometimes but usually it was me. I had a much higher need for sex than my wife. I considered our sex life good. In the first 2 years after getting married, sex immediately dropped off but was still several times a week. Three years into the marriage and after our first child, sex dropped off to maybe once a week and our kisses only lasted for a second or two at most. At five years, sex had dropped to a few times a month and my wife decided she didn't like kissing anymore. At 10 yrs, sex happened maybe twenty times a year and no kissing ever. At 20 years, we had sex a few times a year, but with months between getting together. Now at almost 22 yrs, we have sex maybe about once every other month”.

And just to hammer home my thoughts on the subject, read the following excerpt from a recent survey about marital sex:

“Statistically, married couples have sex 68.5 times a year, or slightly more than once a week. Approximately 48% of women surveyed admitted to faking their orgasms, at least part of the time. It is estimated that 15 to 20 percent of couples have sex no more than 10 times a year, which is the definition of a “sexless marriage” in some marriage manuals. Despite the stereotype that women are more likely to dodge sex, it’s often the men who decline, especially as they age. The true is, marital sex becomes routine and boring, and after about five years of marriage issues crop up that detract from “getting in the mood” (i.e., kids, mortgage, credit card payments, frustrations at work and house maintenance). Husband and wife settle into a home routine that almost always does not include sex. When they were dating and during the first few years of marriage, sex was more frequent. But when more pressing problems arrived, sex had a low priority”.

Salt and pepper this situation with a declining sex drive in men, a growing sex drive in women and you have most all the necessary components for a hot wife-cuckold relationship. Now sprinkle on a hubby with a little dick or without any staying power, a pinch of a woman’s need for constant reaffirmation that she is sexually attractive, and mix in some evolutionary psychology and, bingo--- the next thing you know you’re sitting beside your marital bed watching some young stud fuck your wife in multiple positions, over and over again, bringing her to 3,4,5,6 orgasms all night long.

Why do I give my wife permission to play? Read above, read above.

CuckoldMick

 

[CuckoldMick]

Marriage--- a Perfect Way to Ruin Your Sex Life

Playing off my thoughts above about the perils of marital sex, I wanted to mention that both Kristen and I have (at times) expressed concern about what effects the lifestyle (LS) may be having on our one on one sex life. I think we both feel that it is important to preserve and practice “normal” marital sex as an expression of our love for one another. Since being in the LS we have noticed a decline in marital sex and have had a tenancy to “blame” LS activities for this decline. Not to disregard this sentiment entirely, but I believe LS activities have far less to do with this situation than the time-honored observable fact that marriage itself causes a decline in sex between husband and wife.

Kristen and I had both been married before when we met and it was four+ years before we were married, three as live-in lovers. We entered the LS 6 months after we were married--- this means we had been having monogamous de facto “marital sex” together for nearly 6 years when we started playing… about the time married couples begin to really see their sex life decline. In fact, if I had kept a record, I’d bet that we were down to 2 or 3 times a week by then and sex was getting pretty routine. Additionally, by my own admission I was a pretty lousy lover, having come from a marriage where occasional missionary style sex was about as good as it ever was.

Today, Kris and I have been having sex together for over 8 years. So to be fair, I believe the decline in marital sex we have experienced over the past few years can be principally attributed to the natural inclination for marital sex to wane in long term relationships. In fact, LS activities have no doubt helped us maintain a happier sex life than if we just depended on one another for sexual satisfaction. This being said, I do believe that the LS deserves some of the blame because once a couple experiences the kind of sexual excitement it offers “there’s no going back”.

Periodically Kristen expresses some remorse over how she feels the LS has affected our love life. Sometimes she will even take a break from the play and concentrate on “us”, and during these periods we typically have some nice lovemaking sessions. But I think she’s too hard on herself and puts too much of the “blame” on the LS for the sometimes infrequent times we get together to make love. I believe that it is marriage itself that ruins good sex--- if nothing else, “familiarity breeds contempt”.

Don’t get me wrong--- I miss the way Krissy was all over me when we first met. She’d sit on my lap and we’d make out, spend all weekend in bed making love off and on, French kiss a whole lot, etc. I miss it--- the kissing, the desire, the fucking on the hood of our car, the blowjob she gave me in her sister’s bathroom and in our car, etc. But if we stopped our involvement in the LS today, it would not in all likelihood markedly improve our marital sex routine. If nothing else, after a hot wife has been with numerous outside lovers, I have to believe that sex with her husband would simply be less desirable.

To briefly illustrate, as you may have extrapolated from my description of the play last Saturday most all of Kristen’s lovers receive oral sex from her--- lucky stud Jim for example got 3 or 4 blowjobs in one night. Another recent example--- just last week when Kris was out on a date with her favorite BF, she reported back that she sat him in his favorite chair and went down on him and let him cum in her mouth.

This being noted, Kristen rarely sucks my cock and it is even rarer for her to give me a blowjob to completion. Yet, one of my fondest fantasies is to sit in a comfortable easy chair, have Kristen kneel down between my legs, pull out my cock, and give me a slow and sensuous blowjob to completion. Although I have told her this a number of times, I can truthfully report that Kris has never done this for me.

When I’ve asked her why she doesn’t do this for me she really doesn’t have an adequate answer, though she has acknowledged (with some obvious guilt) that it seems wrong for her to suck her BF’s cocks, sometimes letting them cum in her mouth, and not to do the same for me.

Though I am annoyed by this situation I understand it. I am her husband, what excitement or reward is there in giving me a blowjob? In fact, she may even withhold this pleasure because we have had some petty argument or something. With her BFs it is entirely different. There are no marital entanglements, no husband/wife issues, no bills to pay and no kids to disrupt an intimate situation. When she is with her BFs she is free to enjoy no strings sex for the pure joy of sexual pleasure. Furthermore, it’s exciting to have sex with a new partner--- the mystery of the play still being in place. And I dare say that with her lovers, Kris still has the desire to “please”--- something that is typically diminished in long term marital sex. Thus--- her BFs get blowjobs and I do not.

This being written, I quickly add that hot wives have a responsibility to be mindful that their cuckold husband’s are receiving what they need to be sexually fulfilled (in some way or another) and that they are happy with their position in the relationship. This can sometimes be a tight rope walk for the wife, especially since she is in all likelihood “disinterested” in hubby as a sexual being.

Call me pathetic, but after hearing about the blowjob she gave her regular lover last week, I got weak and sent Kris a text message a few days after her date asking her for the same privilege and telling her how much I would enjoy this too. Here is her rely to me: “Was that a joke…because it is so not funny”.

Over the years I have done my best to view my wife’s refusal to give me oral sex as being one way she teases and denies me. And, I have to admit that when she told me she gave another of her BFs a blowjob to completion last summer while I was at work I experienced sweet and sour feelings of envy mixed with sexual arousal and erotic humiliation. Somehow being denied a blowjob by Kristen, every man’s most cherished sex act, while other men she has sex with regularly receive this ultimate pleasure from her, excites me sexually and makes me want her all the more. You can imagine how crazy it made me with desire and humiliation to watch her repeatedly suck Jim’s cock last Saturday.

Could it be that Kristen knows exactly what she’s doing--- you think??

CuckoldMick

 

[SoonToBe]

Mick we are so alike in our view of women's seeming almost limitless sexual capacity but we are so different in how we are with our wives.

In reading your note I sense some familiar themes between us including some aspect of arousal at being denied by our wives. For me there is something so primal about Sue's desires with other men that it turns me on to see that side of her. But my denial is only temporary as our time together is still quite intensely pleasurable.

To answer your question - I think Kris does know what she's doing. I think she gets a thrill out of titillating you with her short messages knowing how you will respond to them. Sad that you are not on the receiving end, but in some ways even more turned on and aroused at the same time. I think she may not do it intentionally as in being cruel, but that it does most likely give her - perhaps an extension of the experience with her lover. She is still on that physical and emotional high afterwards and it is her way of sharing that moment with you and at the same time, gives her that tweak of pleasure at knowing your response will not be one to shun or push her away but to perhaps yourself desire her more.

If Kris is like Sue, she very much enjoys sucking her lover. Sue has said she feels very different sucking her lover than me. She says she suck him for her own pleasure - that she enjoys arousing him and feeling her mouth bringing him off. She says when she sucks me that it is more for my pleasure than hers. But of course, she would always rather fuck than suck so for either her lover of I to actually get to cum in her mouth is a rarity as she will invariably climb on before the end.

Regarding your earlier post about the effect of the LS on the 2 of us alone - it has only served to enhance our time alone. Our frequency is the same or perhaps even more - but without a doubt, our satisfaction and enjoyment has skyrocketed.

 

[carina_halerose]

i am lucky my wife wants me to be thre to see how a real man fucks and how much she enjoys it. beleive me she does enjoy real cocks. since i am not allowed to fuck her she really gets off on cock.