It's been awhile since I've posted, but during this time there has been a lot of progress from our "swinger" marriage to a "hot wife-(cuck?)" marriage.
When we left off, a friend of ours who was recently divorced was beginning to have a fuck buddy relationship with my wife. Things started out well, them fucking together in front of me, bare backing, internal cumming, etc.
However a few snags came up that have cooled off that relationship. Because of his work he isn't in town a lot and when he is, he is still a bit flaky. When things have worked out he has had some trouble getting/keeping it up. This doesn't really please my wife (who would?) and it ruins the mood and frustrates her. Lastly he's not all that large, even smaller than me, so beyond the rush of having another man the physical sexual pleasure isn't level with the mental sexual pleasure and over time that has disappointed her.
She is still open to fucking him, but as a rare thing when she knows he'll perform.
Thankfully this experience has had several good effects. We never liked condoms, and this has just cemented in her mind that she really only enjoys bare sex. Also being watched by me is liberating her to fully commit to her lover of the moment and be excited by the voyeur aspect of it. She still loves having me alone or as part of a threesome, but its no longer a requirement for her to enjoy herself. Lastly, this is somewhere she WANTS to go in our marriage.
So, the door was opened, she stepped through, and has now closed it behind her. She fully accepts herself being a hot wife and wants to move forward in that role now.
Whew, this is getting long, but a lot has happened. I'm going to take a break and then be back to finish what has gone on with us.
When we left off, a friend of ours who was recently divorced was beginning to have a fuck buddy relationship with my wife. Things started out well, them fucking together in front of me, bare backing, internal cumming, etc.
However a few snags came up that have cooled off that relationship. Because of his work he isn't in town a lot and when he is, he is still a bit flaky. When things have worked out he has had some trouble getting/keeping it up. This doesn't really please my wife (who would?) and it ruins the mood and frustrates her. Lastly he's not all that large, even smaller than me, so beyond the rush of having another man the physical sexual pleasure isn't level with the mental sexual pleasure and over time that has disappointed her.
She is still open to fucking him, but as a rare thing when she knows he'll perform.
Thankfully this experience has had several good effects. We never liked condoms, and this has just cemented in her mind that she really only enjoys bare sex. Also being watched by me is liberating her to fully commit to her lover of the moment and be excited by the voyeur aspect of it. She still loves having me alone or as part of a threesome, but its no longer a requirement for her to enjoy herself. Lastly, this is somewhere she WANTS to go in our marriage.
So, the door was opened, she stepped through, and has now closed it behind her. She fully accepts herself being a hot wife and wants to move forward in that role now.
Whew, this is getting long, but a lot has happened. I'm going to take a break and then be back to finish what has gone on with us.