I'm 11 years older than my wife. When we married, she was 25 and I was 36. It is my second marriage (I'm a widower). My wife has always been very open-minded and our sex life has always been quite varied and exciting.
The first time she had a lover - not swinging or wife swapping, which we've done, but a solo lover - was 3 years ago, when she was 32. He was a neighborhood boy, just turned 18 and she only did so after we'd talked it out and I'd given my permission. Because this boy was still living with his parents, he told them he was going to spend the night at a friend's house and they spent the night in the guest room. I didn't watch, but couldn't help but hear them as they fucked six times in five hours and she woke him, the following morning, with a blow job.
Since then, I've been somewhere in between a complete cuckold and a man with a shared wife. My wife doesn't restrict sex between us, nor does she sleep with a lot of men. She's very selective and prefers longer term relationships. Twice, in these three years, I've slept with another woman. But she does have rules for when a lover visits. They always sleep in our bed - she refuses to send her lover home after sex and it is understood he'll spend the night. I am only allowed in the bedroom if invited. And we do not make love for two days before and one day after her lover spends the night.
It's a little frustrating, at times, but they are rules we are both comfortable with and aren't so harsh as to make me feel neglected. Plus she selects lovers who are my opposite in personality. As she says, "I need you for making love, but my lovers are for getting fucked."
She began sleeping with her latest lover four months ago. She admits he's more than she she expected. Not only does he prefer long bouts of fucking, but, according to her, he's about 11 inches long and twice as thick as me. Up until him, I never felt inadequate or short-changed, having about 7 1.2 inches with decent girth. But last Sunday, after he'd gone home after spending the night, she asked to talk to me.
As she often does, after a lover has spent the night, she was relaxing in bed, nude. I noted that she was leaving her legs open and that her pussy was gaping and leaking profusely. I've never worried about her doing guys bareback, since she's on the pill. Anyway, without beating around the bush, she told me that her lover wanted to get her pregnant and she wanted to know what I thought of the idea.
I can't say that I was shocked. You see, my first wife had a condition which would make being pregnant somewhat hazardous, so I'd gotten a vasectomy. Once in awhile. when my wife would see other women with children and get that "I want one, too" look in her eyes, we'd talked about the idea of her finding a lover who resembles me and having him get her pregnant. So, the idea wasn't foreign to me.
However, her current lover doesn't resemble me in any way. I asked her what she thought about it and she said that she would like to have one baby before she gets to the age when doing so might be risky. On the other hand, she doesn't want to do anything which would hurt our marriage. We talked some more and she explained that, if I agreed, she would go off the pill, begin keeping track of her cycle and on the days when she was most fertile she would fuck her lover as often as possible to increase her odds of catching.
Honestly, I don't know what to tell her. It would be easier if her lover were black. That way, I could just tell her, no, because getting pregnant by a black man would be proof that she's unfaithful. But he's white and we could pass off any lack of similarity between me and a baby as genetics. I want her to be happy, but I'm not sure I like the idea of this guy being the one to bring up the idea of getting my wife pregnant after so short a time.
Thoughts?
The first time she had a lover - not swinging or wife swapping, which we've done, but a solo lover - was 3 years ago, when she was 32. He was a neighborhood boy, just turned 18 and she only did so after we'd talked it out and I'd given my permission. Because this boy was still living with his parents, he told them he was going to spend the night at a friend's house and they spent the night in the guest room. I didn't watch, but couldn't help but hear them as they fucked six times in five hours and she woke him, the following morning, with a blow job.
Since then, I've been somewhere in between a complete cuckold and a man with a shared wife. My wife doesn't restrict sex between us, nor does she sleep with a lot of men. She's very selective and prefers longer term relationships. Twice, in these three years, I've slept with another woman. But she does have rules for when a lover visits. They always sleep in our bed - she refuses to send her lover home after sex and it is understood he'll spend the night. I am only allowed in the bedroom if invited. And we do not make love for two days before and one day after her lover spends the night.
It's a little frustrating, at times, but they are rules we are both comfortable with and aren't so harsh as to make me feel neglected. Plus she selects lovers who are my opposite in personality. As she says, "I need you for making love, but my lovers are for getting fucked."
She began sleeping with her latest lover four months ago. She admits he's more than she she expected. Not only does he prefer long bouts of fucking, but, according to her, he's about 11 inches long and twice as thick as me. Up until him, I never felt inadequate or short-changed, having about 7 1.2 inches with decent girth. But last Sunday, after he'd gone home after spending the night, she asked to talk to me.
As she often does, after a lover has spent the night, she was relaxing in bed, nude. I noted that she was leaving her legs open and that her pussy was gaping and leaking profusely. I've never worried about her doing guys bareback, since she's on the pill. Anyway, without beating around the bush, she told me that her lover wanted to get her pregnant and she wanted to know what I thought of the idea.
I can't say that I was shocked. You see, my first wife had a condition which would make being pregnant somewhat hazardous, so I'd gotten a vasectomy. Once in awhile. when my wife would see other women with children and get that "I want one, too" look in her eyes, we'd talked about the idea of her finding a lover who resembles me and having him get her pregnant. So, the idea wasn't foreign to me.
However, her current lover doesn't resemble me in any way. I asked her what she thought about it and she said that she would like to have one baby before she gets to the age when doing so might be risky. On the other hand, she doesn't want to do anything which would hurt our marriage. We talked some more and she explained that, if I agreed, she would go off the pill, begin keeping track of her cycle and on the days when she was most fertile she would fuck her lover as often as possible to increase her odds of catching.
Honestly, I don't know what to tell her. It would be easier if her lover were black. That way, I could just tell her, no, because getting pregnant by a black man would be proof that she's unfaithful. But he's white and we could pass off any lack of similarity between me and a baby as genetics. I want her to be happy, but I'm not sure I like the idea of this guy being the one to bring up the idea of getting my wife pregnant after so short a time.
Thoughts?
