Do I be honest with the girl before getting married about my fantasies? I'm quite a bit older than her and have opened her eyes to sex and have fun in the bedroom...We have a good chemistry and she seem pretty open to suggestions when it comes to things we do together.
But I was once married and I had convinced my ex to go out on dates with other men. First it had started with an ex bf of her's. She would go out with him during the weekends and fuck then come back home...Or just spend the night with him if I got them a room. Very hot to admit that.
Now...After having been divorced a while now...I've had a long distance relationship with a younger women. There is a 21 year difference and the girl wasn't a virgin when we had gotten together...But she didn't have much experience with her first and only bf.
So my current situation is questioning if I should tell her about my kink before we tie the knot or just leave it be fore now and just work it into our future discussions. I've convinced a few former women in my life to spend their legs for other men....So I'm pretty sure I could get her to too.
What do you think guys and how should I approach it? I would love for her to fuck other men...Possibly after the honeymoon stage....Not sure what to do. Open by telling her that being a cuckold is my fantasy and that I've shard my ex's before? Cause what if we do get married...I don't tell her about it...For a while. Once I do she asks me if I've ever done that with other women before...I tell her she gets pissed because she should have told me about that before.
Or I tell her and she continues with the relationship and plans for marriage not knowing what to do after she is finally married and leave me after a while without fulfilling my fantasy because she is pissed.
Not sure what to think...Thanks for your input.
But I was once married and I had convinced my ex to go out on dates with other men. First it had started with an ex bf of her's. She would go out with him during the weekends and fuck then come back home...Or just spend the night with him if I got them a room. Very hot to admit that.
Now...After having been divorced a while now...I've had a long distance relationship with a younger women. There is a 21 year difference and the girl wasn't a virgin when we had gotten together...But she didn't have much experience with her first and only bf.
So my current situation is questioning if I should tell her about my kink before we tie the knot or just leave it be fore now and just work it into our future discussions. I've convinced a few former women in my life to spend their legs for other men....So I'm pretty sure I could get her to too.
What do you think guys and how should I approach it? I would love for her to fuck other men...Possibly after the honeymoon stage....Not sure what to do. Open by telling her that being a cuckold is my fantasy and that I've shard my ex's before? Cause what if we do get married...I don't tell her about it...For a while. Once I do she asks me if I've ever done that with other women before...I tell her she gets pissed because she should have told me about that before.
Or I tell her and she continues with the relationship and plans for marriage not knowing what to do after she is finally married and leave me after a while without fulfilling my fantasy because she is pissed.
Not sure what to think...Thanks for your input.