Slinky,
Regarding your answer to Bradley's question, "Can you make your woman cum in other ways?" (i.e., other than conventional intercourse).... your reply:
sounds quite promising. If she likes you kissing her asshole and giving her analingus while she masturbates herself to orgasm, I suggest doing that often as a way of satisfying her prior to entering her and cumming yourself after "a couple of" quick strokes.
You might also consider purchasing a vibrating dildo that is turned up at the end, so it stimulates her G-spot (if she doesn't own one already), then — after suitable foreplay to turn her on — positioning her on her knees on her couch, leaning forward with her elbows and forearms resting on the back of the couch so she's comfortable (facing the back of the couch) — then, with the dildo well-lubed, gently working it into her pussy and dildo-fucking her at whatever pace she prefers (get her to tell you), while at the same time you kiss her asshole and give her analingus. In this way, you could dildo-fuck her for as long as it takes to bring her to orgasm while providing her with additional stimulation kissing her asshole. This might appeal to (what you described as) her dominant nature.
Also, since your woman has a relatively loose pussy, you could work up to larger-sized dildos as she becomes accustomed to this, thereby providing her with the feeling of being filled with a larger cock.
As a variation on this theme, you might consider, instead of using a vibrating dildo to fuck your woman while kissing her ass, bringing her to orgasm by "fisting" her — starting, of course, *very* gently with your fingers and hand *very* well-lubricated (and your fingernails well-trimmed). This too would enable you to take as much time as she needs to bring her to a satisfying orgasm before you enter her and cum yourself.... and no special equipment (other than lube) would be required.
Regarding the description of your woman's background you posted in Danyg's thread:
This sounds very promising, from the point of view of her becoming your cuckoldress. First, though, I suggest using some creative imagination to develop ways to fully satisfy her *despite* your problem with premature ejaculation, so that by cuckolding you she attains satisfaction above and beyond being satisfied, both physically and emotionally, by you. That is, I don't think it would be positive for her to begin cuckolding you because she finds you unsatisfactory in bed, since that could result in her leaving you if she finds a more satisfying partner.
BTW, speaking of alternative methods, a good DVD on cunnilingus is:
"Nina Hartley's Guide to Better Cunnilingus." (You can probably get it via Amazon.com, as well as from other sources.)
—Custer
Regarding your answer to Bradley's question, "Can you make your woman cum in other ways?" (i.e., other than conventional intercourse).... your reply:
slinky67 said:
sounds quite promising. If she likes you kissing her asshole and giving her analingus while she masturbates herself to orgasm, I suggest doing that often as a way of satisfying her prior to entering her and cumming yourself after "a couple of" quick strokes.
You might also consider purchasing a vibrating dildo that is turned up at the end, so it stimulates her G-spot (if she doesn't own one already), then — after suitable foreplay to turn her on — positioning her on her knees on her couch, leaning forward with her elbows and forearms resting on the back of the couch so she's comfortable (facing the back of the couch) — then, with the dildo well-lubed, gently working it into her pussy and dildo-fucking her at whatever pace she prefers (get her to tell you), while at the same time you kiss her asshole and give her analingus. In this way, you could dildo-fuck her for as long as it takes to bring her to orgasm while providing her with additional stimulation kissing her asshole. This might appeal to (what you described as) her dominant nature.
Also, since your woman has a relatively loose pussy, you could work up to larger-sized dildos as she becomes accustomed to this, thereby providing her with the feeling of being filled with a larger cock.
As a variation on this theme, you might consider, instead of using a vibrating dildo to fuck your woman while kissing her ass, bringing her to orgasm by "fisting" her — starting, of course, *very* gently with your fingers and hand *very* well-lubricated (and your fingernails well-trimmed). This too would enable you to take as much time as she needs to bring her to a satisfying orgasm before you enter her and cum yourself.... and no special equipment (other than lube) would be required.
Regarding the description of your woman's background you posted in Danyg's thread:
slinky67 said:
This sounds very promising, from the point of view of her becoming your cuckoldress. First, though, I suggest using some creative imagination to develop ways to fully satisfy her *despite* your problem with premature ejaculation, so that by cuckolding you she attains satisfaction above and beyond being satisfied, both physically and emotionally, by you. That is, I don't think it would be positive for her to begin cuckolding you because she finds you unsatisfactory in bed, since that could result in her leaving you if she finds a more satisfying partner.
BTW, speaking of alternative methods, a good DVD on cunnilingus is:
"Nina Hartley's Guide to Better Cunnilingus." (You can probably get it via Amazon.com, as well as from other sources.)
—Custer
So will see where too from here. One thing i probably forgot to mention is...she adores anal with me, where she never has before with any one else...and cums very hard from it...so its not a complete pity party...but there is something to be said for having yours gf's back arch up, as you take your breath away momentarily and bite down hard onto your neck as you enter her pussy...which is still the holy grail to me...which i miss dearly...my ego used to love it when i did that to a woman.