vij said:
I want to be a cuckold, and of late my wife has started showing interest. I met a guy online. We are thinking of taking the next step, and meeting him in person.
Good for your wife! From her belly up and her collar bones down, she looks good. There's no reason she should not enjoy the pleasures of cuckolding you by dating, seducing and fucking other men.
Before doing anything else, she needs to get on a reliable form of birth control (if she isn't on good b.c. already). If there's a Planned Parenthood Clinic in your area, making an appointment with them is probably the best way to proceed. If not, she can see her M.D. for that.
I suggest first arranging to meet your wife's prospective lover in a neutral public place — say, in a restaurant for a lunch that does not involve alcohol (during your first meeting) so no one's judgment is impaired.
In advance of your first meeting, agree with your wife on a signal — say, your wife touching your leg with her foot under the table, or you doing the same with her — to indicate one of you has concluded her prospective lover is not OK. In her case, this might be based on her intuition telling her (for instance) they do not "have chemistry." In your case, it might be based on your male intuition telling you he is, in some sense, bad news. If either of you gives the signal, end the lunch in a polite way and do not contact him further. Resume your search.
If, after your initial lunch meeting, your wife is attracted to her prospective lover and you agree he seems OK, arrange a second meeting — but, do not give him personal information about yourselves like your address and/or phone number. Make it in the evening this time.... at a neutral public place, say, a restaurant / bar that serves alcohol and preferably has a dance floor. In advance, reserve a room at a hotel on the assumption that's where you'll end up. (I.e., don't plan to go to your house.) Find a table that will allow your wife to sit next to her prospective lover, with you on the other side of the table, and spend the evening enjoying dinner, drinks and dancing. If the hotel where you've reserved a room is in the same building as the restaurant / bar, that will eliminate the need to drive after drinking.
Be present in the hotel room while your wife fucks her lover for the first time. (One of your duties as her cuckold will be to protect her, if need be.) Insist that your wife's lover use a condom — but, be aware of the possibility of "stealthing," which means him slipping off his condom while your wife is in the throes of passion. (This is one of the reasons for making sure your wife is on a reliable form of birth control.)
Make it clear to your wife's lover that both of you expect him to use condoms until he gets lab-tested at a public health clinic, or by his M.D., so he can verify he's free of sexually-transmitted diseases (STD's) by showing your wife his lab-test results. In other words, do not just take his word for it that he is free of STD's. Require him to verify that with lab results before he and your wife go bareback.
If your wife's first experience fucking her new lover goes well, continue meeting him at hotels (or possibly at his place, not yours) until such time as you feel you can trust him sufficiently to invite him to your home.
Good luck! I hope this works out well for both of you.
