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[scarymovie250]

Hi, we are a young couple (she is 22 and i am 28). I am the only one with who she had sex. We are together for 5 years. Everything is great, but since 2 or 3 months, i started to have fantasies. I can't stop thinking or her having sex with another man or a girl. Thanks to this website and some others
I don't know yet if i see my self as a submissive cuckold or just as a voyeur.
The problem is that she is shy, and in love with me. She said many times that she never would cuckold me. And she's not that hot when it comes to sex (she doesn't like to suck me, she doesn't want anal...). But she loves when i cum in her, deep inside. I don't know how to bring her to this, honestly.
If you could give me some advice!
Here's a pic of her so that you can imagine how she looks like.

And last thing: i love dirty comments on her, and scenarios. Thanks and see you later!

 

[Seducemygirlplz]

I'm in the same situation, I have a gf, and she has responded the same way, we really need answers! lol

 

[Seducemygirlplz]

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[angk0rwat]

What a nice ass that is just begging to be slapped. She's only had your cock? And you want to get her fucked? Is she a sub at all? She likes to have you cum inside her, then I'm guessing that you've fantasized about another man doing that. You say that she's not that hot when it comes to sex, I don't see how you can make that claim. She has only fucked you, a man who wants to be a cuckold, perhaps she just needs some more breadth of experience to properly enjoy it.

As for what you want, you'll have to think about that yourself. You have to explore and decide what part of this lifestyle interests you more. Are you a sub? Have you ever wanted to be dominated, or does D/s not interest you? Do you want to just know that it's happened, or do you want to watch it or do something more?

PM me if you want to discuss her ass or other things.

 

[waynerobertson]

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[scarymovie250]

scarymovie250, you indicate she's said "many times" that she doesn't want to cuckold you, so obviously the topic of cuckolding has come up more than a few times.

Yes, for example when we watch tv, sometimes the topic is swingers couples. She said to me she cound't see me with another girl because she's too jaleous. And when she asks what i think, i can't say anything else than "me neither" because i believe it would hurt her..

Also, what I'm reading from your post is that sex, to you, has become a bit routine with her ... happens a lot with us guys after a few years with the same woman. The problem, here, is she's emotionally involved with you, and she's content with the security you're giving her. Usually, women who feel they have security & emotional involvement with a man, is a contented woman. Her desire to have you cum deep inside her just reinforces, to me, her desire to be close to you. Unfortunately, you desire some new excitement. If you love her as much as she loves you, you'll be very patient with her, please!

Yes u're right. She told me many times she feels secure with me. And she's very upset when we fuck with a condom, she says she prefers when i shoot my load in her pussy.

You're going to need to break her sexual routine ... encourage her to experience new sexual experiences. This does not mean encourage her to have sex with other men; that's not going to happen at this point. But, you can get her to broaden her sexual experiences and break out of her shyness a bit. She obviously wasn't too shy when she raised her skirt and allowed you to photograph her butt. So, there is hope for you.

Yes she likes that but because IT'S ME :/

Start with little stuff ... videos of MMF 3-somes, role playing with sex toys, erotic talk, sexual massages, snowballing, queening, and maybe even a visit to a nude beach/resort somewhere. The whole purpose, again, is to start replacing her shyness with confidence. Eventually, she may allow you to bring another man to the bed with you and if she's relaxed and confident, she'll love the experience.

It's funny because we already have a sextoy and she likes it. But she says it doesn't feel any good when i penetrate her with he (it's pretty thin).
But we talk about buying handcuffs so this is maybe the beginning of some role playing games. I'd like to blindfold her as well.
Her favourite position is when she's lying on the bed and i take her from behind, she say's it's deep and she's like my toy. So i guess she likes domination. Unfortunately i can't last very long in that position so i cum in a minute, whereas i don't have problems with others positions.
Sad!!

Thanks for the advice

 

[scarymovie250]

What a nice ass that is just begging to be slapped.

She indeed likes that !

She's only had your cock? And you want to get her fucked? Is she a sub at all? She likes to have you cum inside her, then I'm guessing that you've fantasized about another man doing that.

Yeah i think she's rather a sub because when we fuck, she likes when i dominate, she likes hair pulling, ass slapping, cum deep inside. But she doesn't like blowjobs (she never does that to me, i had it maybe 4 times!!! And she swallowed once)

You say that she's not that hot when it comes to sex, I don't see how you can make that claim. She has only fucked you, a man who wants to be a cuckold, perhaps she just needs some more breadth of experience to properly enjoy it.

Because we fuck like 1 or 2 times a week, and i'm the one who usually initiate things.

As for what you want, you'll have to think about that yourself. You have to explore and decide what part of this lifestyle interests you more. Are you a sub? Have you ever wanted to be dominated, or does D/s not interest you? Do you want to just know that it's happened, or do you want to watch it or do something more?

PM me if you want to discuss her ass or other things.

I like to dominate her, but i must confess i have some fantasies too like being fucked doggystyle by a man, suck a cock etc. I think i would love to watch !

Here's when i pulled her skirt a little bit more!

 

[angk0rwat]

She indeed likes that !



Yeah i think she's rather a sub because when we fuck, she likes when i dominate, she likes hair pulling, ass slapping, cum deep inside. But she doesn't like blowjobs (she never does that to me, i had it maybe 4 times!!! And she swallowed once)

Being a dom myself I must say that I also enjoy submissive women. Name calling as well? Being made to kneel in front of you? Begging to be used? Does she just like pain or does she also like the humiliation that comes with service?

Because we fuck like 1 or 2 times a week, and i'm the one who usually initiate things.

I meant it as an insult, or at least to humiliate a man who wants to be a cuckold--she would enjoy sex more if it weren't with you.

I like to dominate her, but i must confess i have some fantasies too like being fucked doggystyle by a man, suck a cock etc. I think i would love to watch !

I'm confused. Do you want to be fucked, do you want to become some guys cuckold bitch? What do you want to watch? Her getting fucked?

Here's when i pulled her skirt a little bit more!

You know what would make that better? If that were my hand getting ready to pull that thong down and teach her a lesson in serving a man, while cucky can watch and learn.

 

[scarymovie250]

Being a dom myself I must say that I also enjoy submissive women. Name calling as well? Being made to kneel in front of you? Begging to be used? Does she just like pain or does she also like the humiliation that comes with service?

Nothing like that unfortunately :/
I think she likes both pain and humiliation, possession.

I meant it as an insult, or at least to humiliate a man who wants to be a cuckold--she would enjoy sex more if it weren't with you.

maybe u're right, time to get her a real man...

I'm confused. Do you want to be fucked, do you want to become some guys cuckold bitch? What do you want to watch? Her getting fucked?

Depends the mood tbh...
Yeah i want to see her fucked.

You know what would make that better? If that were my hand getting ready to pull that thong down and teach her a lesson in serving a man, while cucky can watch and learn.

Hmmmm

Here's another one for you:

 

[scarymovie250]

Here's another one. I like this one !

 

[RazzoDruuna]

Here's another one. I like this one !

I like it too. There has been some good advice here on how to slowly get her started. Some girls are turned off by porn so I'm not sure if that's a good idea at this point, you will know her best.

I agree about not trying to push too much and not trying to jump too far. Savor each step you take that brings you closer to your ultimate fantasy, and most important help it to become her fantasy too.

I would start by making comments how you like it when men look at her and think she is sexy when you go out together. Make it sound like she is making you proud of her. If this works you can move up to telling her how you like it when she flirts and basks in the attention of other men.

Go out dancing is a good idea. Most girls love dancing. I hate dancing but one of my ex's loved to dance. So we could go out dancing, I would dance with her a bit, then encourage her to dance with other men. Later I would tell her that she looked so sexy and it made you hot to see her dancing like that with another guy.

If you can get it that far, then I used to like playing scenarios. Like truth or dare, tell your wildest fantasy. The important thing is not to be disappointed if her fantasy does not match yours. Encourage and enjoy her fantasies, and gently tell her yours, and how watching her bought to ecstasy buy another guy would just turn you on and make you so much more attracted to her, etc etc.

Hey good luck and keep us posted with how you get on...