Hi Ms. Maria,
Welcome to the forum! It sounds like you're a self-confident woman. That's good.
Excellent! You have the right idea.
There seem to be a fair number of women who follow this forum, but they often don't respond readily to requests for responses from women. (You might try Ms. Jinxiepie who is uninhibited on this subject and quite verbal.)
Meanwhile, you might read and consider:
Real Women Don't Do Housework
as a strategy that might get your boyfriend started down the road toward becoming your self-acknowledged cuckold, in combination with (for instance):
How to Cuckold Your Husband - How To - Literotica.com
How to Cuckold Your Husband Ch. 02 - How To - Literotica.com
Good luck!
—Custer