Why didn't you find a Black Man before you got married? Seems to me that only being married for four months and already a looking for a sex partner is kind of odd. I would of thought you would of got these desires done with before marrying. How old are you Kimmy and is this your first marriage? Also does your new husband know you have these desires? Good luck girl. Welcome on board I'm sure you'll get some responses. MulemanNewBrideKimmy said:Just wanted to say Hi to everyone here! I'm new to this site, and obviously a newlywed by my name. I was married 4 months ago and just found this site. I love it so far! I have yet to be with a black man, but hopefully that will all change soon, right!?