Not sure if Ive become a cuckold...need clarification

[cuck4bulls]

Sorry for the title, wasnt quite sure how to address this.

My wife and I have been married for 21 yrs... I met her and started dating her at 18 and married when she was 20 and i was 25. She has always been the flirty type and since she is very attractive shes never had a shortage of compliments and guys/men hitting on her. Her parents divorce when she was very young and has always had father issues so attention from men has always been rewarding for her. For the first 8 years of our marriage she flirted a little but stayed faithful. She officially cheated around the 8th year with a high school aquaintance while back home for the holidays and during a night out with old hgh school friends. She had sex with him 2 times over a 2 day period.

she confesses and we patched up our marriage, although it was painful for me... not sure why but 5 years later I had started sexualizing her affair and got into masturbating to the idea of her with an older man.. old/young porn and cuckold porn started becoming more addictive and I sugested she go out with old rich men, as a sugarbaby... she did and little by little she started getting confortable with the idea. When I told her it turned me on sexually she felt happy because she said she had the freedom to be who she is.... meaning someone who wants to date and sleep with other men while she has me still. We have always had great sex, to this day and I am the love of her life and she is mine...we have kids together and love each other to death and dont ever want to be apart since we know we wouldnt last long and would be back together...weve realized were in it for life since we adore and love each other.

Fast forward 20 years into our marriage and my wife is a sexy 40 yr old woman, she has a tinder account, and has had now a total of 15-16 sexual partners since 2015. She likes the idea of the HOTWIFE and considers herself one, she is aware she is desired as a MILF and makes them most of it.

She says we are in an open relationship but even though she offered a while back for me to date women for sex I am not interested.. She is my sexual fantasy and I masturbate to her pics more than porn...she loves to pose. She recently told me she wants me all to herself and wouldnt be able to see me go on dates with other women and sometimes due to her insecurity she gets hurt and upset if i look at other women...she tries to be fair considereing the situation and the freedom that she has... but she is terrified of me leaving her or falling in love with another woman...even though I tell her shes the only one for me

I know I am not into humiliation so Im still not sure what I fall under..... am I a cuckold? Sometimes I feel I am just married to a compulsively unfaithful attention needing woman. Or maybe me calling her a hotwife is a way to cope with my situation and make it more rewarding for me... not sure but any opinions are welcome.

 

[BiOhioCuck]

Sorry for the title, wasnt quite sure how to address this.

My wife and I have been married for 21 yrs... I met her and started dating her at 18 and married when she was 20 and i was 25. She has always been the flirty type and since she is very attractive shes never had a shortage of compliments and guys/men hitting on her. Her parents divorce when she was very young and has always had father issues so attention from men has always been rewarding for her. For the first 8 years of our marriage she flirted a little but stayed faithful. She officially cheated around the 8th year with a high school aquaintance while back home for the holidays and during a night out with old hgh school friends. She had sex with him 2 times over a 2 day period.

she confesses and we patched up our marriage, although it was painful for me... not sure why but 5 years later I had started sexualizing her affair and got into masturbating to the idea of her with an older man.. old/young porn and cuckold porn started becoming more addictive and I sugested she go out with old rich men, as a sugarbaby... she did and little by little she started getting confortable with the idea. When I told her it turned me on sexually she felt happy because she said she had the freedom to be who she is.... meaning someone who wants to date and sleep with other men while she has me still. We have always had great sex, to this day and I am the love of her life and she is mine...we have kids together and love each other to death and dont ever want to be apart since we know we wouldnt last long and would be back together...weve realized were in it for life since we adore and love each other.

Fast forward 20 years into our marriage and my wife is a sexy 40 yr old woman, she has a tinder account, and has had now a total of 15-16 sexual partners since 2015. She likes the idea of the HOTWIFE and considers herself one, she is aware she is desired as a MILF and makes them most of it.

She says we are in an open relationship but even though she offered a while back for me to date women for sex I am not interested.. She is my sexual fantasy and I masturbate to her pics more than porn...she loves to pose. She recently told me she wants me all to herself and wouldnt be able to see me go on dates with other women and sometimes due to her insecurity she gets hurt and upset if i look at other women...she tries to be fair considereing the situation and the freedom that she has... but she is terrified of me leaving her or falling in love with another woman...even though I tell her shes the only one for me

I know I am not into humiliation so Im still not sure what I fall under..... am I a cuckold? Sometimes I feel I am just married to a compulsively unfaithful attention needing woman. Or maybe me calling her a hotwife is a way to cope with my situation and make it more rewarding for me... not sure but any opinions are welcome.

Definitely a cuck. My wife also has tinder and I don’t and it turns me on to hear about her experiences. If this sounds like you you’re probably a cuck. You don’t need to have a small dick or want to be a Beta to think it’s hot to see your wife filled by another man. Congratulations on your success. Has she ever come home full of cum?

 

[cuck4bulls]

no.... she wears condoms.... she is terrified of pregnancy in general. and she says thats a line she would not cross.... she just tells me details about her dates

 

[BiOhioCuck]

no.... she wears condoms.... she is terrified of pregnancy in general. and she says thats a line she would not cross.... she just tells me details about her dates

Hmm it’s so hot to me when she comes home and he mouth tastes like cock and her pussy is too sore for me to touch her. My wife takes ass shots all the time. What’s the hottest story she’s told you?

 

[cuck4bulls]

Hmm it’s so hot to me when she comes home and he mouth tastes like cock and her pussy is too sore for me to touch her. My wife takes ass shots all the time. What’s the hottest story she’s told you?

read my post... youre asking questions that have nothing to do with what I asked. thanks. sorry, i rather stay on topic please.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Sorry for the title, wasn't quite sure how to address this.

No need for apologies. Welcome to the forum!

My wife and I have been married for 21 yrs... I met her and started dating her at 18 and married when she was 20 and i was 25.

So far, so good. Congratulations for remaining married to your sexy wife for 21 years.

She has always been the flirty type and since she is very attractive shes never had a shortage of compliments and guys/men hitting on her. Her parents divorce when she was very young and has always had father issues so attention from men has always been rewarding for her. FoSr the first 8 years of our marriage she flirted a little but stayed faithful. She officially cheated around the 8th year with a high school aquaintance while back home for the holidays and during a night out with old hgh school friends. She had sex with him 2 times over a 2 day period.

Sounds like your wife began coming into her own after the 8th year of your marriage.

She confessed and we patched up our marriage, although it was painful for me... not sure why, but 5 years later I had started sexualizing her affair and got into masturbating to the idea of her with an older man. Old/young porn and cuckold porn started becoming more addictive and I suggested she go out with old rich men, as a sugarbaby... she did and, little by little, she started getting comfortable with the idea.

There' nothing unusual about a married man being turned on by the idea of his wife dating and fucking other men, when he realizes she's so attractive other men can't resist her.

When I told her it turned me on sexually she felt happy because she said she had the freedom to be who she is.... meaning someone who wants to date and sleep with other men while she has me still.

And, it's hard for a strongly-sexual married woman to get that idea out of her head, once her husband suggests it — even if she initially rejects the idea. In your wife's case, it sounds like she didn't need much encouragement.

We have always had great sex, to this day and I am the love of her life and she is mine...we have kids together and love each other to death and dont ever want to be apart since we know we wouldnt last long and would be back together...weve realized were in it for life since we adore and love each other.

Good. Among hotwife / cuckold husband couples, it seems not to be unusual for their love for each other to be increased — in the man's case, because (in part, at least) because he realizes he's continually in competition with other men for his wife's affections, and in the woman's case, because her husband extends to her and accepts the sexual freedom she desires, while continuing to provide her with love, emotional support, a home and (as in your case), a family.

Fast forward 20 years into our marriage and my wife is a sexy 40 yr old woman, she has a tinder account, and has had now a total of 15-16 sexual partners since 2015. She likes the idea of the HOTWIFE and considers herself one, she is aware she is desired as a MILF and makes the most of it.

All good. At 40, your hotwife is relatively young and has many years of heightened sexual satisfaction to look forward to by continuing to date and fuck other men. One member of this forum (I've forgotten his screen name) said his hotwife is over 50 and only takes lovers who are men no older than 29.

She says we are in an open relationship but even though she offered a while back for me to date women for sex I am not interested.. She is my sexual fantasy and I masturbate to her pics more than porn...she loves to pose. She recently told me she wants me all to herself and wouldnt be able to see me go on dates with other women and sometimes due to her insecurity she gets hurt and upset if i look at other women...she tries to be fair considereing the situation and the freedom that she has... but she is terrified of me leaving her or falling in love with another woman...even though I tell her shes the only one for me.

You are handling your relationship with your sexy hotwife in the right way. Among couples who start out as swingers (with both free to date and fuck others), those tend to evolve into hotwife / cuckold husband marriages, because it is easier by far for a married woman to attract other men as lovers than it is for married men to attract single or married women as lovers (for obvious reasons). Also, swinger marriages tend to be less stable, because (apparently) an unspoken competition tends to develop re. who can bed more men or women. The woman usually wins this unspoken competition easily, resulting in feelings of resentment on the part of the man.

I know I am not into humiliation so Im still not sure what [category] I fall under..... am I a cuckold? Sometimes I feel I am just married to a compulsively unfaithful attention-needing woman. Or maybe me calling her a hotwife is a way to cope with my situation and make it more rewarding for me... not sure, but any opinions are welcome.

Your question can be answered by recalling the definition: "Cuckold — a man with an unfaithful wife" (meaning, of course, a wife who fucks other men).

This simple and straightforward definition can be regarded as the cake. Other features that may or may not go along with a hotwife / cuckold husband marriage — your wife humiliating you (or not), for instance — can be regarded as frosting and decorations on the cake.

If your sexy hotwife does not humiliate you (or, for instance, require you to wear a cock cage with her your sole key holder), and you do not wish to be humiliated, you can consider that a plus. But, in no way does that affect the definition of a cuckold. If your sexy wife fucks other men, as she does, you are her cuckold. By definition.

 

[h5t6ca]

Sorry for the title, wasnt quite sure how to address this.

My wife and I have been married for 21 yrs... I met her and started dating her at 18 and married when she was 20 and i was 25. She has always been the flirty type and since she is very attractive shes never had a shortage of compliments and guys/men hitting on her. Her parents divorce when she was very young and has always had father issues so attention from men has always been rewarding for her. For the first 8 years of our marriage she flirted a little but stayed faithful. She officially cheated around the 8th year with a high school aquaintance while back home for the holidays and during a night out with old hgh school friends. She had sex with him 2 times over a 2 day period.

she confesses and we patched up our marriage, although it was painful for me... not sure why but 5 years later I had started sexualizing her affair and got into masturbating to the idea of her with an older man.. old/young porn and cuckold porn started becoming more addictive and I sugested she go out with old rich men, as a sugarbaby... she did and little by little she started getting confortable with the idea. When I told her it turned me on sexually she felt happy because she said she had the freedom to be who she is.... meaning someone who wants to date and sleep with other men while she has me still. We have always had great sex, to this day and I am the love of her life and she is mine...we have kids together and love each other to death and dont ever want to be apart since we know we wouldnt last long and would be back together...weve realized were in it for life since we adore and love each other.

Fast forward 20 years into our marriage and my wife is a sexy 40 yr old woman, she has a tinder account, and has had now a total of 15-16 sexual partners since 2015. She likes the idea of the HOTWIFE and considers herself one, she is aware she is desired as a MILF and makes them most of it.

She says we are in an open relationship but even though she offered a while back for me to date women for sex I am not interested.. She is my sexual fantasy and I masturbate to her pics more than porn...she loves to pose. She recently told me she wants me all to herself and wouldnt be able to see me go on dates with other women and sometimes due to her insecurity she gets hurt and upset if i look at other women...she tries to be fair considereing the situation and the freedom that she has... but she is terrified of me leaving her or falling in love with another woman...even though I tell her shes the only one for me

I know I am not into humiliation so Im still not sure what I fall under..... am I a cuckold? Sometimes I feel I am just married to a compulsively unfaithful attention needing woman. Or maybe me calling her a hotwife is a way to cope with my situation and make it more rewarding for me... not sure but any opinions are welcome.

Yes, you are a cuck. You don't have to be humiliated t be a cuck. Just just have to know your wife fucks around and accept it, as you do

 

[Countryroadrage]

Sorry for the title, wasnt quite sure how to address this.

My wife and I have been married for 21 yrs... I met her and started dating her at 18 and married when she was 20 and i was 25. She has always been the flirty type and since she is very attractive shes never had a shortage of compliments and guys/men hitting on her. Her parents divorce when she was very young and has always had father issues so attention from men has always been rewarding for her. For the first 8 years of our marriage she flirted a little but stayed faithful. She officially cheated around the 8th year with a high school aquaintance while back home for the holidays and during a night out with old hgh school friends. She had sex with him 2 times over a 2 day period.

she confesses and we patched up our marriage, although it was painful for me... not sure why but 5 years later I had started sexualizing her affair and got into masturbating to the idea of her with an older man.. old/young porn and cuckold porn started becoming more addictive and I sugested she go out with old rich men, as a sugarbaby... she did and little by little she started getting confortable with the idea. When I told her it turned me on sexually she felt happy because she said she had the freedom to be who she is.... meaning someone who wants to date and sleep with other men while she has me still. We have always had great sex, to this day and I am the love of her life and she is mine...we have kids together and love each other to death and dont ever want to be apart since we know we wouldnt last long and would be back together...weve realized were in it for life since we adore and love each other.

Fast forward 20 years into our marriage and my wife is a sexy 40 yr old woman, she has a tinder account, and has had now a total of 15-16 sexual partners since 2015. She likes the idea of the HOTWIFE and considers herself one, she is aware she is desired as a MILF and makes them most of it.

She says we are in an open relationship but even though she offered a while back for me to date women for sex I am not interested.. She is my sexual fantasy and I masturbate to her pics more than porn...she loves to pose. She recently told me she wants me all to herself and wouldnt be able to see me go on dates with other women and sometimes due to her insecurity she gets hurt and upset if i look at other women...she tries to be fair considereing the situation and the freedom that she has... but she is terrified of me leaving her or falling in love with another woman...even though I tell her shes the only one for me

I know I am not into humiliation so Im still not sure what I fall under..... am I a cuckold? Sometimes I feel I am just married to a compulsively unfaithful attention needing woman. Or maybe me calling her a hotwife is a way to cope with my situation and make it more rewarding for me... not sure but any opinions are welcome.

You are indeed sir, a cuckold is a man whose wife is sleeping around on him. How you internalize it is a whole other part of the journey

 

[Keesnl]

I know I am not into humiliation so Im still not sure what I fall under..... am I a cuckold? Sometimes I feel I am just married to a compulsively unfaithful attention needing woman. Or maybe me calling her a hotwife is a way to cope with my situation and make it more rewarding for me... not sure but any opinions are welcome.

There are so many ways of being a cuck husband, as a bull for many years i've seen so many types. Not being into humiliation is still a way of being a cuck husband. Some do like it, even to the extremes, but to be honest the only thing important is the way you both make it work and like it!

The husband of a couple i see frequently is the same as you, he loves it when his wife gets dirty with a bull but is not interested in joining or having a sexual thing with another woman. They tried swinging once but it made her insecure and even their marriage got under stress.
Years back he asked to treat her like and call her a pornprinces. She needs a lot of attention, needs to be spoiled just like a little princes and also really enjoys making films and pictures to send home. It's kind of his petname for her and i'm allowed to use it as well. Even before dating me she at work, or in public transport on her way home, made pictures to send him as a warmup for when getting home. When i pick her up she as soon as possible sends him a picture or short movie sucking, riding or been eaten by me.
At the end of our dates, sometimes when away for a weekend she phones him, she in details tell him what we did. Takes her tablet to show him all the photo's and small video's we made, specially tells him how she felt while making them and while fucking me. Then it's their time and both get excited by this very much.
He so far never asked to join and just a few times watched us. He's a great guy and says his wife needs so much more attention then he can give her, for him 3 or 4 times a week is more then enough but she needs it almost daily ( and then not just a quick fuck ). He even said their lovelife got way more intense because of the extra sexual tention this brings.