Our first time

[jesusoldier1]

This is my first thread on here. This actually happened in April 2009 and i have mixed feelings about everything and I thought maybe I'd go somewhere where other people have probably been through this before. My wife's a very cute 32 year old tall lanky natural ginger blonde with 34C long cone shaped tits with puffy nipples. Her ancestry is Anglo-Irish, giving her plenty of freckles all over her body and an awesome blonde bush. I've always fantasized about my wife being with another guy which she always refused flat out. She does love showing off her tits. All her bras are a size too big for her, and she insists on wearing sun dresses or shirts open at the neck, so every time she bends even a bit forward, anyone sitting near her gets a full look at her dangling tits. It used to piss me off and I'd always tell her to button up her shirt, but I gave up trying. Now it turns me on. She's always been on the pill ever since i met her and it always turned me on thinking how her ex boyfriends must have cum inside her when they fucked. That idea obsessed me and everytime we had sex I'd imagine the thought of her past. She's told me about her past relationships but never in enough detail for my liking. She won't tell me out right whether she's let guys cum inside her, but she does say "I've been on the pill since i was 15. What do you think?"

Anyway she knows of my fantasies and is pretty accomodating most of the time when it comes to watching porn or talking dirty in bed. In April we were at a party given by her female boss. I didn't know anybody there, but obviously she knew nearly everyone., as most of the people there either work with her or came with someone who does. I kept to myself but kept my eyes on her as she socialized. After about 45 minutes I was ready to leave, but my wife was having a great time talking office gossip and was a bit happy from the booze, so she wanted to stay a bit longer. I agreed and kept watch on her to make sure she was okay. When we finally left (about 30 minutes after I told her I wanted to leave the first time) she told me in the elevator that a guy who was there, a friend of her boss, while sitting on the sofa with her had slipped his hand up her shirt and had felt up her tits. She said it went on for probably a minute or so, but it musnt't have been more than a couple of seconds cause I didn't even notice her sitting on the sofa! She said it felt weird but she let him as she wanted to tell me about it later and she knew it would turn me on. He asked her for a blow job but she refused and walked away. I was fucking speechless. I wanted to go back and punch this asshole for violating my wife. This is the weird part and I have no idea what got into me, but I got a butterfly feeling in my stomach and balls and I asked her to go back. She laughed and said no way but I told her again to please go back. "Are you sure about this?" "Yes, absolutely."

We went back in and I got myself a drink. She walked off away in the opporite direction. I saw the guy spot her right away returning to the party, and he walked over to her with a big smile on his face. After about 5 seconds of chatting, my wife walked into one of the bedrooms with him. I still have butterflies in my stomach and balls when I think about that exact moment when I watched my wife walking into the bedroom with this guy knowing she was about to give him a blowjob.

He came out first, about 10 minutes after they went in. About 10 minutes later my wife phoned me on my cellphone. She was already downstairs in the parking garage. I didn't even notice her leave the bedroom! When I got downstairs she told me it was good but gave me no details. What a fucking disappointment! It took me a good hour or so to get the details out of her. Apparantly once they got into the bedroom, his hands went right back to cup her bare tits. They made out then he asked if she had protection. When she told him she was on the pill, he got really excited, eased her onto the bed then made love to her. Before she knew what was going on, she had her legs wrapped around his waist and he was pumping his cum into her. That was it. Then he left.

In a way I'm happy it happened but it's actually got me pretty disappointed as I always thought that if i ever let another guy fuck my wife there would be a lot more to it for me to fantasize about. When we're having sex now I think back to it and I cum almost right away, but the moment I've finished cuming I get kind of angry with the thought of some guy fucking my wife and me having asked her to do it in the first place. I'm also really disappointed with the whole experience too. It was just so quick and uneventful. She's embarassed about the whole thing and I don't think she'll ever do it again. But that's our experience with this hopefully someone else will have better luck.

 

[jesusoldier1]

jesusoldier1, you say the guy cum inside her, but how do you really know that? Did you check her out, or inspect her panties when she took them off for the night? Part of the gratification you get, as a cuckold, is the actual proof she has been with another man. That can happen in several ways, but seeing and smelling his cum is one major way. Without real proof, you can get very frustrated with the tease. You need to know!
The mixed feelings you had is what they call the "rush". It really is confusing, I know, but for many guys, it is a strange stimulation that can become addictive.
You say it took them all of 10 minutes in the bedroom for him to cum inside her. That might be close to record time. I can see a cuck doing that, even me ... LOL ... but I'd think he would have taken more time with her. Afterall, if all he can last is 10 minutes, he's no better than a simpliest of cuck. What was her thoughts of that event ... did she enjoy it? I can see why you felt frustrated. That probably was a bit disappointing. Mac

No Mac to be honest I was just shell shocked that it really happened and hugely disappointed that I didn't get to prepare myself for it or anticipate it or enjoy it at all. I always imagined that the first time would be an enormous thrill with me anticipating it for weeks on end, searching someone out for my wife with her, the Big Meeting, watching my wife getting fucked in front of me, me mastrubating while watching, her giving me oral while getting fucked, etc., etc., etc. Yeah my understanding is he just put his cock into her, thrust maybe three times and it was over. She said the naughtiness of it all was cool but the sex itself nothing special.

Like I said it's not at all like I fantasized it would be like. It's a huge let down and I actually really feel ripped off.

 

[FrankCuck]

That was back in April and the guy is a friend of her boss. Soldier, that guy got guts. He went for it and he go it. The only reason, your wife refused the first time is because you were there. She knew of your cuckold thoughts and didn't even wait to get back home to tell you about his advances. I don't know man, but I would advise to talk things over with your wife. You guys seem like you used to fantasize about it, but didn't talk things over before it actually happened. It was rather impulsive. Suddendly, it was done. FRANK

 

[rokrob]

Thanks for sharing the story. Although you might be a bit disappointed it happened so fast and without much excitement for you at the time, it has now happened and usually that means your wife is much more likely to cuckold you more in the future. Once this step has passed most wives seem keen to get more experiences.

My wife also doesn't like to talk to me much about being fucked just after it's happened. Instead I have to let her dribble out the details over time, which can be a bit frustrating. She says that it was her sexual moment so she feels awkward sharing it straight away. Have you talked to your wife much after this to see if she's keen to have more action with this guy - or with anyone else?

 

[okdeacon]

The Thrill Of It All

Hey Jesusoldier1! Man you have no reason to be disappointed, just think about it. The guy had the balls to feel your wifes cone shapped titties in public. He had the guts to ask her to suck his cock. She obiviously was impressed enough to want him,(yes want him) or she would not have told you while still at the party. You also got a rush out of it and told her to proceed. Instead of a blow job the dude got some of your fine wifes pussy, man that is want its all about!!!! So he fell on his ass int the fucking deptment. Hell man he might have been so hot for your sexy wife that his cannon just went off as soon as he got to feel her prize. He could have rushed because of the place they where and not wanting to be caught. This reminds me of some of the pussy stealing i have done under equally risky conditions. I never shot after two strokes but some times i sure was not up to my usually pussy pleasing desires. But even some of those times lead to some very exotic fucking and pussy eating down the line. Sir you how have a hot wife which is the greatest treasure in the world. I predict this COULD be the beginning of some total blissful adventures for you two. But of coarse this is your decision to make. By the way your hot wife sounds like a very beautiful and sexy woman. So please let wish you two the very best and to say enjoy your new found treasure. okdeacon

 

[jesusoldier1]

That was back in April and the guy is a friend of her boss. Soldier, that guy got guts. He went for it and he go it. The only reason, your wife refused the first time is because you were there. She knew of your cuckold thoughts and didn't even wait to get back home to tell you about his advances. I don't know man, but I would advise to talk things over with your wife. You guys seem like you used to fantasize about it, but didn't talk things over before it actually happened. It was rather impulsive. Suddendly, it was done. FRANK

Frank she says we should have kept fantasy and reality separate, and that she did it totally on the spur of the moment because she was turned on by being groped and egged on by me. She doesn't say she regrets it only that it was a one-off thing and pretty stupid of her to have done in the first place.

 

[jesusoldier1]

Thanks for sharing the story. Although you might be a bit disappointed it happened so fast and without much excitement for you at the time, it has now happened and usually that means your wife is much more likely to cuckold you more in the future. Once this step has passed most wives seem keen to get more experiences.

My wife also doesn't like to talk to me much about being fucked just after it's happened. Instead I have to let her dribble out the details over time, which can be a bit frustrating. She says that it was her sexual moment so she feels awkward sharing it straight away. Have you talked to your wife much after this to see if she's keen to have more action with this guy - or with anyone else?

Hi Rob, thanks for the insight, and I think my wife's just like yours when it comes to not giving up all the details at once. I haven't really asked her for details after she told me the basics, as I'm not too sure I really want to know. I'm just really confused about my feelings is all. As for being a cuckold, definitely not. I don't want to be humiliated by anyone or anything like that. It was just a weird fantasy of seeing her with another man that had me all hot before. This whole situation as it happened is kind of crap, and I totally feel screwed out of the whole experience, anticipation, etc. If this is supposed to feel good, I'm not feeling it.

 

[jesusoldier1]

Hey Jesusoldier1! Man you have no reason to be disappointed, just think about it. The guy had the balls to feel your wifes cone shapped titties in public. He had the guts to ask her to suck his cock. She obiviously was impressed enough to want him,(yes want him) or she would not have told you while still at the party. You also got a rush out of it and told her to proceed. Instead of a blow job the dude got some of your fine wifes pussy, man that is want its all about!!!! So he fell on his ass int the fucking deptment. Hell man he might have been so hot for your sexy wife that his cannon just went off as soon as he got to feel her prize. He could have rushed because of the place they where and not wanting to be caught. This reminds me of some of the pussy stealing i have done under equally risky conditions. I never shot after two strokes but some times i sure was not up to my usually pussy pleasing desires. But even some of those times lead to some very exotic fucking and pussy eating down the line. Sir you how have a hot wife which is the greatest treasure in the world. I predict this COULD be the beginning of some total blissful adventures for you two. But of coarse this is your decision to make. By the way your hot wife sounds like a very beautiful and sexy woman. So please let wish you two the very best and to say enjoy your new found treasure. okdeacon

Hi deacon. I disagree with you man. I'm sure this guy knew she was married and should have had the courtesy to consider that this was my fantasy too. Isn't that the courteous way of doing this sort of thing... seducing the couple, and not just the woman????? Plus she offered him head, not to have sex with him. Again, I thought the courteous way is to respect boundaries of your partners??? No she didn't tell me about what he said to her because she wanted him, but because it shocked her. She didn't really know what was happening until he was already fondling her. Proof is that when he asked her for a blow job she left. I don't think this guy was any kind of a hero just an asshole and I really regret my decision of not punching him in the face instead of telling my wife to go back in there and give him head. What the hell was i thinking I feel like a fucking idiot.