porn chat addiction

[fanara]

I know it's perfectly healthy and normal to be interested in porn but I have to admit to myself i've become addicted to porn chat and it worries me. I feel I should be doing something more useful with my time.

Not only that but i've become drawn into the most extreme porn chat. I chat about things that, away from the keyboard, make me feel sick.

Another worry is, is this extreme chat illegal and could I end up in jail?

Anyone with some helpful advice?

 

[CyndiE]

I know it's perfectly healthy and normal to be interested in porn but I have to admit to myself i've become addicted to porn chat and it worries me. I feel I should be doing something more useful with my time.

Not only that but i've become drawn into the most extreme porn chat. I chat about things that, away from the keyboard, make me feel sick.

Another worry is, is this extreme chat illegal and could I end up in jail?

Anyone with some helpful advice?

Do you like to watch certain TV shows? Or go out to lunch sometimes? Or just go to a park for awhile? And when you do, do you always feel like you should be doing something "more useful"? If you enjoy it and it's not infringing on anyone else's time, do it. You're only here (alive) for a limited time, if you're not enjoying yourself when you can, you only have yourself to blame. It's only chat and you're a consenting adult (I hope), do it. And do it as often as you like. Invite me along sometime <wink>.

 

[dfhviking]

Great answer!!!

Good answer Cyndie, by the way, I am single and looking. So you are definitely invited to be with me. I would love to have you along for some of lifes fun times.

 

[pantyboyhubby]

Fanara, if you feel it's a problem in your life, then it is. If you think its taking away from you living what you consider to be a happy life, and you want to stop, then by all means do so. If you don't believe you can stop on your own, there are a variety of programs and support groups you might want to look into. What to some people is innocent fun, can become to another, a life waster. We all have opinions about this matter, and all may be valid, but the only one that matter when it comes to your liffe is your own opinion.
Suzi

 

[Byron6555]

Do you like to watch certain TV shows? Or go out to lunch sometimes? Or just go to a park for awhile? And when you do, do you always feel like you should be doing something "more useful"? If you enjoy it and it's not infringing on anyone else's time, do it. You're only here (alive) for a limited time, if you're not enjoying yourself when you can, you only have yourself to blame. It's only chat and you're a consenting adult (I hope), do it. And do it as often as you like. Invite me along sometime <wink>.

Very good point. I think often society wants to make us so-called sex addicts feel like we're abnormal, but yet there are many things that people really like doing that they don't get labeled addicted. I mean, there are people who hate miss going to church, overspending during Christmas, or not missing a sports game. They're seen as abnormal because their addiction.

Of course, I do think sometimes you gotta get off the net from time to time and actually have sex rather than just talk about. And it doesn't hurt to visit the park and have non-sexual conversations.