Posing an ethical dilemna question

[primalbst]

If your wife/gf, had a split personality, and that split was a wild, slutty, sex machine would you use that to your advantage?

First persona is calm, quiet, caring, all those good things, loves sex and experimenting as long as it's within the confines of the partnership. Second persona is a slut to the core, craves cocks of all sizes, cares less about partnership, still loves you but not enough that she wouldn't fuck you over for a better fuck.

Now lets say first can call out second anytime she wants(and has) but can't reign her in and second tries to come out often, succeeds once in a blue moon and really fucks things up but has her fun and that's all that matters. Second doesn't like going away and fights for domination but never gets it.

First has called second out to deal with sex situations that first just couldn't handle like cheating, threesomes, gangbangs, lesbian stuff, etc... First doesn't recall alot of it but second has a big slutty mouth that when it isn't being filled with cock, likes to tell whoever is near about how slutty she has been. Also first made the descision to let second handle a situation that first got into of her own willingness to play or whatever. Which shows a desire to do those things but unwillingness to take ownership of the choices made after initiating it.

First is willing to let you go through with your fantasies as long as you keep second in check. You already know that keeping second in check is difficult and to be honest, you like it when second gets out of control.

Q1 - Would you ask your wife/gf who to bring second out to fulfill you fantasies even though you know that first would have a hard time with anything like that. Same body, two different people, but they talk and share experiences.

Q2 - Would it feel like cheating as the person you love and interact with on a regular basis, is tucked away in the mind of second now. Basically second is now controlling the body of your beloved.

Q3 - Would it make it easier to handle with second in control and first barely aware of what is going on? Or would it make it less satisfying? Is it that you want to see your wife/gf with other men or your wife/gf body with other men?

 

[Doc in Cleveland]

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This is a very strange and difficult circumstance.

The instances of a true split personality are extremely rare. Most are treatable through anti-psychotic medication. However, I would be very hesitant to prescribe those until extensive analysis proved no other alternative than a chemical. Most times, alternating personalities are defense mechanisms. Treating the core, or root, personality almost always causes the additional personality to evaporate.

More likely, this is a problem with the perception of the individual that is judging the female. It is an ego saving technique of many cuckolds.

Please seek professional therapy if you truly believe there is a split personality. It is quite cruel to do otherwise.

Doc

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[Custer Laststand]

If your wife/gf, had a split personality, and [half of] that split was a wild, slutty, sex machine would you use that to your advantage? ....etc.

Q1 - Would you ask your wife/gf who to bring second out to fulfill you fantasies even though you know that first would have a hard time with anything like that. Same body, two different people, but they talk and share experiences.

Q2 - Would it feel like cheating as the person you love and interact with on a regular basis, is tucked away in the mind of second now. Basically second is now controlling the body of your beloved.

Q3 - Would it make it easier to handle with second in control and first barely aware of what is going on? Or would it make it less satisfying? Is it that you want to see your wife/gf with other men or your wife/gf body with other men?

Since the situation you pose is both hypothetical and implausible, it isn't reasonable to ask forum members to provide hypothetical replies that are somehow "reasonable and practical" (i.e., in some sense "realistic").

If you want serious replies and discussion, I suggest stating:

(1) whether the above does or does not, in fact, describe your wife; and

(2) whether you are asking strangers on an anonymous forum for advice regarding a complex and difficult psychiatric problem because — for reasons of your own (not having health insurance and not being able to afford it, for instance) — it is unfeasible for you to seek assistance from a well-qualified psychiatrist.

 

[Saraha]

If your wife/gf, had a split personality, and that split was a wild, slutty, sex machine would you use that to your advantage?

First persona is calm, quiet, caring, all those good things, loves sex and experimenting as long as it's within the confines of the partnership.

Second persona is a slut to the core, craves cocks of all sizes, cares less about partnership, still loves you but not enough that she wouldn't fuck you over for a better fuck.

Now lets say first can call out second anytime she wants(and has) but CAN'T REIN HER IN

and second tries to come out often, succeeds once in a blue moon and really fucks things up but has her fun and that's all that matters.

SECOND doesn't like going away and FIGHTS FOR DOMINATION BUT NEVER GETS IT

First has called second out to deal with sex situations that first just couldn't handle like cheating, threesomes, gangbangs, lesbian stuff, etc...

First doesn't recall alot of it but second has a big slutty mouth that when it isn't being filled with cock,

LIKES TO TELL WHOEVER IS NEAR ABOUT HOW SLUTTY SHE HAS BEEN

Also first made the descision to let second handle a situation that first got into of her own willingness to play or whatever.

Which shows a desire to do those things but UNWILLINGNESS TO TAKE OWNERSHIP OF CHOICES MADE after initiating it.

First is willing to let you go through with your fantasies as long as you keep second in check.

You already know that keeping second in check is difficult and to be honest, you like it when second gets out of control.

Q1 - Would you ask your wife/gf who to bring second out to fulfill you fantasies even though you know that first would have a hard time with anything like that.

Same body, two different people, but they talk and share experiences.

Q2 - Would it feel like cheating as the person you love and interact with on a regular basis, is tucked away in the mind of second now.

Basically second is now controlling the body of your beloved.

Q3 - Would it make it easier to handle with second in control and first barely aware of what is going on?

Or would it make it less satisfying?

Is it that you want to see your wife/gf with other men

or your wife/gf body

with other men?

Your wife LOVES having a full sexual expression without any rules, but her BIG SISTER CONSCIENCE steps in and says, "Mum would not like us behaving like sluts. She has bought us up better than that".

This is a tug of war, between two personalities, and I am not sure a professional could sort it out even if he was given the chance to try.

If you intend to keep your wedding vows of "for better or for worse", then just go with the flow in the moment, and help her buy a sufficient choice of clothes so she can decide what to wear each day.

If she puts on her slut clothes to show her body off to men, then you know what behavor is required of you that day.

If she dresses conservative, then support her in that role.

The stronger personality may win out in the longer term - so try not to be judgemental of her, even though her hormonal moods will be swinging around at a speed that scares her as much as you.

The worst thing you can do is to take sides and try to force her to adopt new beliefs that push one personality out of her life.

Enjoy each personality as it is presented to you, and let her see the evidence that you love and need her in your life.

Some married men would love to swop wives with you, because they have a conservative wife who thinks a vanilla lifestyle is all that God permits.

You have the chance to enjoy the best of BOTH WORLDS. You have a slut wife as well as a Vicar's wife.

Make sure each "wife" has her own wardrobe of clothes to pick from, so she can look and feel her best.

Tell each "wife" you love her no matter what mischief she gets up to.

 

[TheSecretLive]

I think that the main question that needs to be answered before any of the other ones. Is how would the main submissive part of the gf/wife act if the Dominant part did something that it cannot cope with? Would it push her over the edge and course harm to herself or her close ones?

Mental Illness is a big bag of worms, and you never know how the person would react in different situations. What might be a small stone to one person, could be a start of a landslide for somebody else.

 

[mimi27406]

Why do you care who she fucks?

 

[Saraha]

If each personality knows it is loved unconditionally, and you will always be waiting for her to come home to you no matter how far over the top it goes, then the personality that has "sinned" won't feel like walking under a bus if things get out of hand. It knows you are a forgiving type and truly want her to be happy. The personality will feel valued and will tend to not need to do crazy things to get attention or grab the limelight.

Bad behavor usually has a reward, even if it is attention-seeking under the influence of alcohol or drugs.

 

[Saraha]

When the film E.T. came out, the psychiatrists reckoned it should be banned because it showed kids disobeying their parents and the Army. The kids were only trying to get E.T. back to his spaceship on their bikes before it died or was dissected by the Army to satisfy their curiosity of why humans are different to aliens.

Sometimes it is the kids who know best. LOVE is the greatest power in the universe, and every man should convince his wife she is special to him - if she feels she is being taken for granted, then she may seek love elsewhere. so that she feels needed and valued.

A split personality is complex, but a hubby could easily make things worse if he invited his mates to screw his drunken wife without her having a chance to make an informed consent - when she is sober and not pressured to agree to hubby's persuasion.