Practical Advice

[Gsully]

Hi.
My wife and I have had many discussions on having an MMF. Every time we have sex we fantasise about her getting something bigger or more than one man. when we fantasise about it we both cum a lot sooner, sometime we take a break and watch an MMF video. my wife loves bi-sexual MMF and loves when I watch her masturbate, I enjoy bisexual MMF too and am open to try new experiences.

My cock is below average and she enjoys it but I cum quick so when she is getting into the swing of it, I need to pull out to save myself from cumming too quick, then I usually go down on her sweet pussy and she loves that and has great orgasms, and I finish off in a few seconds. I think she deserves a real good fuck though

We have discussed different options and our position right know is too wait and see if an opportunity presents its self, we have been at this stage for about 2 years.

When we were on holidays, when she had a few drinks (I don't drink) we sat outside our cabin and we fucked outside with her tits out for all to see, hoping a passer bye would get excited and approach us but it didn't happen, nobody passed us bye, she was a little embarrassed the next day but she was ok that night.

Question is How do we take the next step without using the whole online hookup thing? Is it possible to simply chat someone up and invite them to the bedroom? I'm not sure if the "wait and see what happens strategy is working"
Any thoughts would really be appreiciated.

G

 

[Gsully]

Just to note I'm 43 she is 37 married 12years and our youngest is10.

The thing is that I feel I am submissive type and get nervous bringing up the subject. I am a cuck for sure but the term Cuckold as a badge really doesn't sit well with me so its hard for me to say "Hey love lets look at cuckold porn because I think I'm a cuckold" I have so much respect for my wife and I have so much respect for me too. I think I would crumble if I was degraded in the same way that many cucks enjoy being degraded in.

Does that make sense?

 

[zippless]

Hi.
My wife and I have had many discussions on having an MMF. Every time we have sex we fantasise about her getting something bigger or more than one man. when we fantasise about it we both cum a lot sooner, sometime we take a break and watch an MMF video. my wife loves bi-sexual MMF and loves when I watch her masturbate, I enjoy bisexual MMF too and am open to try new experiences.

My cock is below average and she enjoys it but I cum quick so when she is getting into the swing of it, I need to pull out to save myself from cumming too quick, then I usually go down on her sweet pussy and she loves that and has great orgasms, and I finish off in a few seconds. I think she deserves a real good fuck though

We have discussed different options and our position right know is too wait and see if an opportunity presents its self, we have been at this stage for about 2 years.

When we were on holidays, when she had a few drinks (I don't drink) we sat outside our cabin and we fucked outside with her tits out for all to see, hoping a passer bye would get excited and approach us but it didn't happen, nobody passed us bye, she was a little embarrassed the next day but she was ok that night.

Question is How do we take the next step without using the whole online hookup thing? Is it possible to simply chat someone up and invite them to the bedroom? I'm not sure if the "wait and see what happens strategy is working"
Any thoughts would really be appreiciated.

G

We went to a local swing club. People there are respectful and friendly. They understand your nervousness because they were there once. We let them know what we were into. We toured and watched people dancing and having sex in the playroom. It was quite a turn on.
The second time at the club it happened. We were dancing on the dance floor and a guy came and joined us. He started to kiss her neck from behind. I undid her blouse and unhooked her bra so he could play with her tits. Next thing I know we were all naked with our cloths in a pile on the floor. He took her by the hand to the play room. His cock was smaller than mine but very hard. She laid down I started to lick her pussy and they were kissing and she licked his balls and sucked his cock. We switched positions. He played with her pussy with his cock for a good five minutes and the head of his cock slipped inside. He looked at me and said " I'm Gonna fuck your wife" and he fucked the shit out of her for about twenty minuets. She came he came and that was our first experience of many. We couldn't get enough. We went back the next weekend.

 

[zippless]

Just to note I'm 43 she is 37 married 12years and our youngest is10.

The thing is that I feel I am submissive type and get nervous bringing up the subject. I am a cuck for sure but the term Cuckold as a badge really doesn't sit well with me so its hard for me to say "Hey love lets look at cuckold porn because I think I'm a cuckold" I have so much respect for my wife and I have so much respect for me too. I think I would crumble if I was degraded in the same way that many cucks enjoy being degraded in.

Does that make sense?

It makes sense. There are so many levels to the lifestyle. How about thinking of it as Hotwifing. But don't get hung up on semantics.

 

[Gsully]

Thank you zipless, your story is very interesting.

G

 

[Gsully]

We are members of a swinging website, you can create a profile and explain where your at and what your looking for.
Though you will be shocked how your woman behaves once she knows she can do what she wants and realizes the amount of hung guys out there looking for hotwives

Thank you lovestruck, that's a good idea, Yes we are Irish

 

[Nazareth]

If you can get her to go to a swinger's club for the next step, by all means! It's very adult-orientated and there is no pretense about what folks are there to do.
In the meantime, is there anything you like to do together that can be used to 'help things along'? Going to concerts, sport events, dancing? The idea is to get her in an environment where there would be lots of men attending. You can people-watch, asking her what she thinks about this or that guy, perhaps pointing out a particularly fine specimen, and making comments about their endowment or virility.
If you can do this in a more intimate environment where you have more opportunities to engage guys for personal conversation, you can invite them to sit at your table for a drink while you try to discover common interests. That way, you or he (or both) can engage your wife in the conversation. This is often an ideal 'ice-breaker', making it more comfortable for her to talk to 'strange' men.

Best of luck to you!
It sounds like there is some definite interest/possibility.

 

[Gsully]

Hi , Thanks you so much, there are some interesting ideas. We are heading to Bruges soon and I think that we will stretch it a bit further then.
Thank you
Grhaam