It's a pleasure to help sommeone out. I've said before I'm no expert on the subject but since we have been into chastity play (which we started last march) we have never had so much fun. We have always had a varied and slightly kinkier than the normal sex life but we would only play once in a while. We have been together for 22 years so it all became a bit dull. I was lucky and used to work from home and used to crossdress on the quiet and posted loads of pics of me dressed up which the wife eventually found. After a lot of begging and explaining she eventually forgave me but she caught me at it again a few years later. This time I opend my heart and told her that it was a compulsion that I couldn't shake. I told her about wanting to be taken by a strap on, everything. After a heart to heart I noticed that she was reacting different to the first time and we had the best sex ever. She said she would play along with my fantasies and admitted that it turned her on when I'm dressed and she especially enjoyed the power over me when she's ramming me from behind with a strap on. We bought a maids dress and she loves it when I'm dressed and making beds or doing a chore, her hand always finds its way up my skirt.
The only problem with this is we have 2 teenage daughters and this stops us from playing as often as we'd like.
This is where I discovered chastity play. I was reading some stories on literotica and they kept mentioning male chastity, I did a google and discovered it was very popular and told the wife about it. I can remember the day my first cb3000 turned up, I was buzzing. I phoned the missus and she got equally excited. I put it on that night and she locked me up, for a few days it was on and off as we adjusted it and I got used to the various pains that you get when your new to it. I think my first long period was a week and I was amazed at how it made me feel, submiasive, attentive and very horny. My wife loved the head I gave her and the daily orgasams age got, on weekends she can come 3 times before we even get out of bed. She was more amazed at how I would do more to please her like make the bed, wash up and iron. It just seemed natural for me to slip into that role. I even started holding her hand when we went out, I haven't done that since we first met.
We have increased my lock up periods and now the average is 6 weeks. I am currently 2 days over the 6 week period and she has said that I'm going to break my record in style this time. It's mad but I crave putting my head between her legs, I think about it all day. She has taken to her role of head of the house like a duck to water and drives me mad when after i have made her come ever by mouth fingers or strap on (much larger than me) she just thanks me, rolls over and sleeps as I lay there frustrated but knowing that I got her into it.
Some of the rules we have set are, my cock will not enter her unless she tells me it can ( she let me out on boxing day and got me to rub my cock against her pussy which drove me wildp then made me enter her and pump away, I had just finished fucking her with the strap on and she was loose and soaked, I just slipped in and she made me fuck her but asking if I wanted to cum, I would get to the brink and stop (its funny but you start.to become proud of the duration of your lock up and don't want to go back to start again) she said after that the power she had over me that night was.one of the.horniest things she.has seen, I was almost crying.about cumming or.not.cumming. she loved it.
I am never allowed to cum dressed.as a man again, I must wear at a minimum, panties and a camisole, she bought me heels for Christmas and I will be wearing these next time I cum
I am to drink my cum from her whenever she allows me to cum, this is one of the only things that makes me want to cum more often.
So there you have it, that's my story, its all true and I feel lucky I am living a dream life, chastity play isn't for everyone but if you get into it its heaven, I often feel like telling couples that we know, I know a few that would benefit from it themselves.
The next step for us would be her cuckolding me, we have spoken about it, she has her reservations but.under.the right circumstances I feel it might.happen. I'm sure that she cant go too long without a cock in her and as I'm not allowed, who knows she might go elsewhere, here's hoping