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??? Questions about impotency ???

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Do any cucks wish that they could become impotent?

It seems fitting and proper for a true cuckold to be impotent
since he (generally) is never allowed to have sexual intercourse,
anyway.
I find it much more exciting to masturbate when my penis is
completely soft and I only use my thumb and two fingers to
masturbate. That reinforces my feelings about myself as being
the sexually inadequate cuck that I truly am. I also feel so much
more like a feminine sissy that way, too.
I find that I can enjoy all the feelings when masturbating my softy
and I can still have an orgasm with a soft penis. So, why do I need
to get a hard-on for, anyway?

I'd like to hear your thoughts on this subject.

If any of you have some suggestions about becoming impotent
I'd surely like to know how to do it in a safe way.
I guess taking female hormones would do the trick, but I really
don't want to grow breasts nor have any side affects from drugs.


Thanks,
Sissy cuck
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I don't wish that I was impotent, but impotence is a part of life for unfulfilled would-be cuckolds. Guys who need to share their wives' pussies, but can't manage to make it happen, will usually suffer some form of impotence.

In my case, it is Ejaculatory Incompetence, which means I can't cum, whether I am fucking or jacking-off, UNLESS I am able to conjure up a very realistic fantasy of some other man fucking my wife. That is the only thing that will do it for me.

I have, over the years, had a few chances to actually watch another man fuck my wife, and I have talked with several of the men who fucked her before me and heard them tell what "great pussy" she was, and these help with my fantasies. But without my memories and fantasies, I would be completely impotent.
 
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Son of John said:
In my case, it is Ejaculatory Incompetence, which means I can't cum, whether I am fucking or jacking-off, UNLESS I am able to conjure up a very realistic fantasy of some other man fucking my wife. That is the only thing that will do it for me.
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That's interesting that you can't cum without those fantasies. I had that same experience years ago with a girlfriend whom I dated for about three and a half years. I absolutely adored her! We didn't have a real cuckold relationship, but she did go out with other guys and she would sometimes tell me about it. That was wonderfully exciting for me!

I got to a point where I couldn't have an orgasm while fucking her unless I was thinking about other men fucking her and cumming in her pussy. Like other cucks, it was always very important to me that the other men cum in her! The bigger their penis and the more they cum - the better!

As things are for me now, the idea of being impotent is exciting as I said in my first post.
I really don't think I could manage getting a hard-on or keeping a hard-on if I did try to have intercourse with a Woman. So, in a way, I guess that I am somewhat impotent in that regard now, huh?
 
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DWM_in_413 said:
Do any cucks wish that they could become impotent?
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I find it much more exciting to masturbate when my penis is completely soft and I only use my thumb and two fingers to masturbate. That reinforces my feelings about myself as being the sexually inadequate cuck that I truly am...
Yes, I very much enjoy the idea of being impotent and am pretty much there at this point. There are two things I've worked on: what gets/keeps me hard, and cumming while still staying mostly or completely soft.

Like most sissies I focus on sissy and BBC porn. Porn and stories like this are pretty much the only way I can get hard now. It's been 4-5 years since I could maintain an errection with my wife at all, even if I was hard to start with from a combination of manual stimulation and cialis.

So my sex life is all about masturbating in private now. I may get hard at first, but can only maintain it for a few minutes. But I keep foundling myself gently as I watch/read, and eventually see something I can really identify with that excites me. "Excitement" is just a slight extra tickle in my clit that I've learned to recognize...this is the sign that I'm ready to cum, and I start stroking much more frantically (with my thumb and forefinger) to catch it. My clit just flops around and stays quite soft, although it still swells a bit near the end. Speed is of the essence, since I know that if I don't get off within 30-60 seconds I will loose the sensation, and that will be it for the day. So I reach orgasm very quickly. It is a fairly weak, short sensation, and my clit barely pulses or cums at all anymore. But I always lick what there is off my hand and swallow, anyway.

But this is still very emotionally satisfying and an important part of my life. I am so happy being a sissy who is cumpletely inadequate as a male.
 
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I should mention that I've generally had ED problems my entire life with women due to performance anxiety. I did successfully penetrate my half-brother's wife in the threesome at age 19 when I lost my virginity. I also eventually performed pretty consistently with both my wives, but it took 3-5 sessions in each case for me to overcum my nervousness to the point I could get hard.

And there were six other women along the way who were ready and willing to have me fuck them on a first or second date , but I just couldn't get it up with them. And this was at an age where I could still edge for hours watching porn, and frequently got spontaneously errect while dressing up or sucking cock. I wish that I had been more willing to hear what my penis was trying to tell me...
 
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DWM_in_413 said:
Do any cucks wish that they could become impotent?

It seems fitting and proper for a true cuckold to be impotent
since he (generally) is never allowed to have sexual intercourse,
anyway.
I find it much more exciting to masturbate when my penis is
completely soft and I only use my thumb and two fingers to
masturbate. That reinforces my feelings about myself as being
the sexually inadequate cuck that I truly am. I also feel so much
more like a feminine sissy that way, too.
I find that I can enjoy all the feelings when masturbating my softy
and I can still have an orgasm with a soft penis. So, why do I need
to get a hard-on for, anyway?

I'd like to hear your thoughts on this subject.

If any of you have some suggestions about becoming impotent
I'd surely like to know how to do it in a safe way.
I guess taking female hormones would do the trick, but I really
don't want to grow breasts nor have any side affects from drugs.


Thanks,
Sissy cuck
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With my husband it is product of overweigth, performance anxiety & constant masturbation. It doesnt happends always but he has his episodes
 
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cute_sandra said:
With my husband it is product of overweigth, performance anxiety & constant masturbation. It doesnt happen always but he has his episodes
If your husband masturbates constantly without your permission (and, if you wish, your supervision), you might consider requiring him to wear a male chastity device with you his sole key holder.

If you make it clear that you will unlock him (say) for one day at the end of each week only if his behavior during the week pleases you, that would (most likely) provide him with powerful motivation to lose weight by reducing his food intake and beginning a regular exercise program, and might motivate him, as well, to do whatever amount of the housework you consider reasonable.
 
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Custer Laststand said:
If your husband masturbates constantly without your permission (and, if you wish, your supervision), you might consider requiring him to wear a male chastity device with you his sole key holder.

If you make it clear that you will unlock him (say) for one day at the end of each week only if his behavior during the week pleases you, that would (most likely) provide him with powerful motivation to lose weight by reducing his food intake and beginning a regular exercise program, and might motivate him, as well, to do whatever amount of the housework you consider reasonable.
It is a serious adiction, I have considered chastity. Took me some years to really make him stop doing it everywhere. Now its only at home, inside of the bathroom & cleaning all. I hate to feel like a naggy or forceful wife, I understand its a need, yet some clear limits are always healthy
 
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Put an elastrator on there everyday about 20 minutes. You won't get hard all the way after that.
 
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cute_sandra said:
It is a serious adiction, I have considered chastity. Took me some years to really make him stop doing it everywhere. Now its only at home, inside of the bathroom & cleaning all. I hate to feel like a naggy or forceful wife, I understand its a need, yet some clear limits are always healthy
Have you tried milking him? He should be left drained after a ****** milking session and with no desire to masturbate for days. One proven way to control him
 
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natasnaikul said:
Have you tried milking him? He should be left drained after a ****** milking session and with no desire to masturbate for days. One proven way to control him
That includes my finger up his bum rigth? ( i feel is disgussting but kind if eant to own him that way). Could i find a nurse to do it?
 
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cute_sandra said:
That includes my finger up his bum rigth? ( i feel is disgussting but kind if eant to own him that way). Could i find a nurse to do it?
Not necessarily. There are many devices out there specially designed for this very purpose. And you would ask him to be squeaky clean and shaved smooth before you begin of course.
Once he's conditioned properly and hooked you can get him a device that allows him to mike himself as well
 
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natasnaikul said:
Not necessarily. There are many devices out there specially designed for this very purpose. And you would ask him to be squeaky clean and shaved smooth before you begin of course.
Once he's conditioned properly and hooked you can get him a device that allows him to mike himself as well
It it an enjoyable eyjaculation?
 
cute_sandra said:
It it an enjoyable ejaculation?
The point is that he should be drained slowly and completely by putting pressure on his prostate while not allowing him to ejaculate. That will keep him in a state of continuous excitement without the ability to achieve an orgasm
 
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natasnaikul said:
Have you tried milking him? He should be left drained after a ****** milking session and with no desire to masturbate for days. One proven way to control him
That is true milking is a very effective way from experience
 

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