She agree, now what?

[primalbst]

My wife cheated on me roughly a year ago. She even coerced me to let her try cybering another man(we like experimenting alot), during the cheat. What I mean by that is, she started cheating online and then almost a month later as we were having a sex talk she let it out that she wanted to cyber someone else. I was confused but started getting real hard at the notion. I got to be the proverbial fly on the wall as the sexting began and she asked me to do everything he was typing and I did so with a hard pre-cumming like crazy cock until he was cyber-penetrating her and then she ****** me to keep eating her out till she came. It was at this time I became a cuckold by definition and dammit, I liked it.

The affair went on for another month till I actually found her telling him that she loved him and wished she could wake him up by sucking him off, which both enraged me(for the fact that she had been lying and getting emotionally involved) and made me super-horny. I did get super-angry as well but after calming down I was confused by the feeling that I wasn't angry about her being with another man, I was angry that she had to deceive me so deeply and got emotionally involved. She broke a 14 year trust bond because she was embarrased about her kinky desire and stuff.

We discussed it on and off for the last year and finally she said ok. But then she asked if she had to enjoy it. I ofcourse said "well yeah, it would help. i don't want to see you crying or dead fish look.". We've had sex in public several times. I routinely pull out her tits while she is driveing at night(it is very soothing to both of us and naughty aspect gets us both wet)So this is where we are at.

I haven't started looking for a bull yet and I refuse to acknowledge them as such. As far as I am concerned there just another cock in a long line of cocks(she was a slut before I met her and I love it) and I'm the king cock. And yeah some of you "other cocks" out there will probably say she was already dissatisfied with my cock already and had to seek a cock elsewhere but look above, It was a cyber-affair with some old friend that lived a province away.But it doesnt really matter if she was or not, I still fuck her nightly and she still cums like the ***** she is and she still gets her tits/ass/mouth/pussy/face/hands/etc... drenched in my cum.

I think it's more of a hotwife situation now where I desire my wife to be fucked by another cock. I wanna be there jerking off, videoing it, and maybe getting sucked by her while she gets ploughed from behind. And I would like the other cock to be thicker and longer than mine. We have a 10" long, 7" circumference dildo that I routinely like thrusting in to her mouth and pussy. I even fuck her while she has it in. Takes a bit of shoe-horning and lots of lube but she fucking writhes in exctasy when we do it.

She is a BBW with massive 40H tits(and not the sagging to the knees type with huge oval nipples, the impressive type with the loonie sized nips, fuck, getting hard just thinking about them) and cute as a button face. In my mind she could walk into a bar with her cleavage out and be in some cocks car a couple minutes later, getting her tits fucked as she sucks his cock(it's amazing btw, cock between two soft melons with some suction on the end).

Anyways, I should have written this when I wasn't horny but I am horny alot. She's agreed, now what? Parse the local bars with her sitting at a different table? Look in the local singles section? I'm gonna be present or this won't be happening so that probably limits me right? She has even expressed an interest in seeing me sucking anothing mans cock, which I wouldn't mind trying as long as she was present and getting off from it. Should we look in a gay bar? I'm lost at this stage.

PS I am a lucky, lucky man to have a wife like this(not just because of the awesome sex-life) and will not jeopardize our relationship for this. I also need guidance if she is really ready or it's still months away. And where can a women who's husband wants her to be a hotwife go for advice and research?

 

[lolassissyboobs]

I am in a similar position as u, my wife has agreed she likes the idea of sex with other men (especially well hung black men) she has had several online affairs including cybersex on cam with them, but she has yet to take that to the next level and find a real lover, i have offered to help but she says whenshes ready it will happen so i wait

 

[primalbst]

Similar and though she agreed she seems loathe to enjoy it. Almost like she would do it begrudgingly.

She doesn't want BBC, she isn't rasist but I guess the one BBC she did have was a total ass and uncomfortable and ever since has been wary of black guys of any size. Ya know, I kinda feel sorry for black guys because of that stereo type. The ones that have the BBC usually seem be jerkoffs and have nothing to offer except a big cock, which is fine for our purposes. And the ones who don't measure up to the stereotype(and there are a few from what she says) seem to be a let down to the women expecting a BBC. Atleast no one expects a big cock from a caucasian and it's a big bonus when there is one. I am no slouch in that dept but not large for sure.

Anyways, we tried to get the cam working one night. She didn't mind watching other couples haveing sex but when a cock approached her to cam-cyber she kept dodgeing it till he got tired and went elsewhere. It was a huge let-down for me after anticipating it for the 3 hours it took us to warm up to it.

I'm not a sissy or teenie weenie or lacking self-respect. But for some reason, I still have an overwhelming urge to have my wife fuck another man. We roleplay it in bed atleast once a week and we both get right in to it. But sometimes, even now, when I think about another man enjoying my wifes pussy or mouth or whatever. I want to find that man and shove my size 15 so far up his ass the laces will be dangling out his mouth. And other times I'd like to direct the action even going so far as holding his cock, guiding it into her pussy or mouth or between her tits.

Is this how you feel? Or is it 24/7 someone fuck my wife please?

Also has anyone gone so far as to arrange a meeting say at a hotel, and once the cock arrives, call it off? And if so, why? Was it the woman that simply refused when it became reality or the husband that seeing the other man, snapped and became possesive and oppresive again?

I'm trying to do as much research as possible to make this as sexually gratifying as we picture it during roleplay.

I figure part of her would be into it due to her past and the recent cyber-cheating. It's just taken a long time to even get to this stage.

 

[lolassissyboobs]

Hi primalbst to answer some of your questions, i am a sissy but only when i dress up, most of the time i dont dress up and am a regular guy, dont get me wrong though i love dressing up and do it for my wife anytime she wants but id do it in secret anyway if she didnt know about it, she is dom by nature twords me as im laid back and submissive with her but she also knows when were out that im still a man and she likes it that way she is also a bbw so i know exactly what u mean there shes gut curves in all the right places allthough your wife sounds like shes a bit more blessed in the breast area than mine, as for her being into bbc, when she was in her teens she dated and fooled around with several black men , she has told me she never had full on penetration sex with any of them just that she used to do "things" for them to make them cum, i suspect she regrets not sleeping with them and wonders how it would have felt, she has told me that they had quite large dicks but admits that not all black men are big
as for how i feel about it i have to admit i have had times where it drove me mad thinking about it, there was once where we had set up a meeting between me her and a bbc guy she had chatted with and at the last minute i lost my nerve and backed us out of it ( i believe this is why my wife is extra nervous to do it again now) but the idea turns me on greatly and we have talked alot about it before and since then we both agreed if its something she wants to try we will both be open about it and i told her if she ever wants it that im open to it , she still loves talking and showing off on cam with several men online and she has hinted about a couple of them visiting her but it just hasnt happened yet, maybe for now just cam sex with them is enough for her i guess time will tell

 

[bigblackbeast]

Your girl is just acting like she dont want to or like she is just doing it for you. In reality she want to fuck a big black dick with or with out you. I have fucked plenty of white girls who are married to white guys or have white boyfriends. They are all sluts and want more cock especially big black dick. They may act like they need to be persuaded but they just dont want to hurt your lil feelings.

 

[primalbst]

Don't get me wrong, she loves long, thick cock. I didn't mean to hurt your feeling or pride in your cock size. It's just your attitude about it. Like it is the only thing that defines you as a person and without it you would be lost and insignificant in your own mind. She found that he relied more on the size of his cock to please her then on technique or sensuality. And she would like me to mention that the italian she dated and fucked was larger still and atleast had some sensuality.

You sound like the stereotypical bbc you see in porn, that expects every woman to grovel at your feet for sex or gasp and drool because of your cock size. That may do it and my wife might even be into that. But like she said, you would just be a tool, to be used at our leisure and pleasure.

Don't let it define you dude, it may be great to thrust it around in some size-queen wifey like mine, but don't let it be who you are as a person. Otherwise you are just a big dick with a big dick. My wife has stayed with boyfriends, white, italian and black, because of their cock size, but eventually they weren't enough and their reliance on their size either stagnated the sex and/or it became unformfortable.

She loves giving oral but only if it isn't a monster cock attached to a jerkoff that tries to ram it down her throat. I actually enjoy haveing a just slightly bigger than average cock, getting deepthroated and feeling my balls on her chin and her nose in my pad. She gags occasionally but I cum and she loves it.

My cock is just above average in length and thickness(I practice jelqing once in a while and even though I have never stuck with a routine, it has increased my girth and length noticeably over the years. If I could just stick to a routine for several months I would be one of those 8" long 6" girth monsters you see on porn) and she loves it. I have technique and sensuality to spare. And I have it partly because I know I don't fill her completely but also partly because I beleive she deserves it.

I might be lacking in the cock department compared to you, but I more than make up for it in sensuality, technique and intelligence.

Also she already knows I am onboard with this. I have been trying to get her to think of the biggest, thickest cock she could take. We have toys we use that would propably make you question your manhood. Tues nite she got really slutty and we had a rabbit vibe and a thicker normal vibe in her pussy(yeah, two thick cocks in her pussy, fucking hot right) and a vibe bullet at her asshole. She was fucking them so hard that if it were a cock or cocks she would have broken them in half and sent them yelping for the hills. It was fucking glorious to watch but a little hard to keep the bullet on target(it would have been better with a plug vibe but she doesn't like em).

Anyways we got off topic. We figured out whats next though. We are going to get a male blowup doll with one of those vac-u-loc attachments and either use the vac-u-loc dildo(no vibe =( ) we have or search for a big thick vibe with that attachment. I'll try to persuade her to go black just for you bigblackbeast. If we do we'll name the attachment in your honor.