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Slow and Steady

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cuckoldstanley

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Slow and steady...

Over the past ten years, I have gotten my lovely conservative wife to (just a list of various things that grows every couple of months...):

- measure my dick
- make me kiss/lick her ass
- tell me my dick doesn't make her cum (I have to use my mouth or fingers)
- tell my my balls feel like marbles
- sit on my face after doing her
- watch some porn
- watch a DVD I made with just pictures of big cocks while I just licked her (she came twice)
- let me put my fingers in her, with my little one, while we are doing it so she can feel me
- watch interracial porn with me, and when I am not there!!!

- Any ideas on what I can push for next? I am currently (and have been) pushing ideas for a penis extension and/or dildo (have since bought the Lexington Steel life-like).

- I did her, well she was on top and when she asked me to rub her, so she can cum (my dick won't make her cum) I pulled her up on to my face - it wasn't a creampie, but very very wet... Then she came on my face. Now she does it a lot!!!

- The other morning when she got out of the shower, I called her over and told her I wanted to kiss her ass. She came over and I kissed her ass, then she sat on my face (didn't touch my dick). After she came on my face, she jumps off and started getting dressed for work. I asked her to write something on my dick, and she did: "TINY." Then I told her I want to kiss her ass every morning. So far, so good; she is jumping up on the bed and making me kiss her ass - haven't been to orgasm again - yet, because she is usually running late for work. but that is more progress. ..

- Last night was great... My wife asked me to rub her ass, which I did. Then she rolled onto her side and reached around and felt my little soft dick, she yanked it (in and attempt to make it bigger) till it got hard, then she rubbed my dick on her pussy for a minute. Then she asked me to to fuck her with my fingers. I did. After she came she asked me if I wanted to see her ass (which is how I normally cum by my own hand). I said no, it is alright as long as you came. Then I asked her to write something on my dick, she wrote, "NOT big." Then I told her I really liked that she teased my dick on her pussy then asked for my fingers. I also told her I wanted her to control when I cum and that she should make me earn an orgasm, like I have to make her cum 5 times first or something . She said, if I am good she will let me cum tomorrow. About 5 minutes later she stroked my very hard dick a couple of times and I told her, see how hard what you did made my dick, she said yes and stopped stroking. -- It was a great night and I would say some serious progress was made...

Ok, the other night more progress was made. We started our normal pre-sex fondling, then I said if she would like a new job as a sports reporter. This was right after the Cavs/Celtics game by the way. She said why. Then I said so she could do locker room interview s after the game. She played along the whole night. At one point I said some of the big dicks would hit her shoulder as she sat on the bench; then I hit her shoulder with my finger and she immediate ly turned her head and began to suck my fingers (she has never done that). Through out the night she said she wanted to fuck a big dick. The word "black" never was expressed, but she asked if "they" would like her; and I said "yes, a pretty little white girl like you." I think I will explode when she finally admits she would like a BBC. Then towards the end, she said I would be waiting outside the locker room, and she would make me eat her pussy when she came out, because my dick is too small - that is when I came!! In the morning we went at it again - I mentioned she had a busy night getting fucked twice, she said yes. Then I said, what am I supposed to do after you get fucked. She said, eat my pussy, then she pushed me down!!! --- This is going to be a great couple weeks of NBA playoffs!!! --- This one worked!! Any other 'story lines' that work?

My latest 'accomplis hment' happened a couple weeks ago. I found a CFNM locker room reporter scene, to bring back out locker room reporter fantasy from the NBA play-offs, and I got her to watch it. I licked her while she watched - she liked it! Both athletes were much bigger than I (me hard them flaccid). After she watched the clips, she asked me if I wanted her to search the web for more porn, I said yes. She searched for group sex!!! Interesti ng, I know. She was disappoin ted when the movie sites kept redirecti ng, etc. So she shut the computer off (I made her a page with link to 'good' sites and movie clips, so she will not be disappoin ted again). At any rate, after she came about three times, I convinced her to not let me cum. She said, "ok, I've decided, you don't get to cum tonight." I was strokin, and she told me to stop. Then she made me give her a massage, for about 1 hour (my back hurt afterward s). The next morning, I prompted her, I asked her if I could play with my little dick. She said yes. About five minuted into it, she said, "remember, you don't get to cum." Five minutes after that, she said that's enough, stop. Later that day, I asked her if she wanted me to clean the shower - I did. The next day I had to clean the toilets and do laundry. It was a great couple of days. Then it went away... No more "games" since that couple of days, I am hoping to recreate the same couple days again soon. As always, I am looking for subtle approache s.?.?.? --- That is where I am now - I really need some new approache s. Any ideas???

- For her birthday this year she got a black dildo... I love it - although she is just starting to warm up to it. For instance, while sitting on me she will say, "I know what you want to do - Fuck me with the dildo." She is right, everytime she asks me what I want, I say I want to use the dildo on her - I never say I want to have sex with her, I just want her to cum and used the dildo on her...

Ideas???

- We are to the point now, when we start sex, I just grab the dildo. She cums in like a minute on the dildo. For me to make her cum without the dildo, I have to rub her clit. I was rubbing her the other night and she said stop, I don't want to cum yet, she wanted to cum with the dildo in her... That my friends is great progress. ..

Still seeking subtle ideas of persuasion???

- Recently I have compiled a large number on porn movie clips in a folder on the computer - about 90% interracial. Whenever we watch some of the clips, I lick her ass and/or do her with the Lex dildo. I even created a folder called "dildo model" and that folder only has clips of Lexinton Steel in action - those are her favorite clips so far. I occassionally travel for work, and when I travel she watches the porn and masturbates to it - she tells me when I get and and shows me the clips she liked best - her favorite clips have always been interracial.

- My wife surprised me one day by completely shaving her bush - bald!!! I have always asked her to do that (for over ten years), and she has finally done it. I think the porn is starting to be effective.

We still use the dildo, but it is not an every time we have sex thing anymore. I am at a dry spell...

Do you have any subtle ideas to help persuade my wife to experience a BBC???
 
That's about as unsubtle a concept as you can find. It'll take some time grooming her for that sort of thing. Ultimately if she isn't into it, you really don't want to push the issue.
 
Hot! Sounds like you've got yourself a fantastic women, well done! Ultimately if she’s not interested in sex with another man then it’s not going to happen and that’s it, and it’s your duty as her sub hubby to respect her wishes. My wife and I met as swingers so there was never that issue of would she sleep with another man. I would recommend you consider a chastity device next and have your wife keep the key on her at all times as a symbol of her dominance, preferably around her neck, although my wife now wears my key around her ankle.

Chastity devices are difficult to get used to at first but IMHO there is no better way to show your wife that she is completely in charge as when she has the key to your balls. Definitely don’t start wearing it full time straight away, ease yourself into it and take it off for cleaning purposes at least every second day. Keep showing her BBC porn, particularly sites where the black man fucks the wife, I think ‘indecent proposal’ is one but there are others like that too.

Anyway, hot thread and good luck!
 
Custer Laststand said:
Cuckoldstanley,

You've made very good progress with your wife. Congratulations! Given the nature of your post, you might consider suggesting to her she read:

How to Cuckold Your Husband - How To - Literotica.com

and:

How to Cuckold Your Husband Ch. 02 - How To - Literotica.com

and proceed accordingly.

—Custer
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In my folder of porn clips, I have added select 'stories' (the ones you mention are already there - thanks), pictures, talkies/captions, and toons. She has yet to read any of the stories, but I can not wait, it will either be really good, or might be bad, but it will plant the seed even further.
 
jelous_of_wifes_bf said:
Hot! Sounds like you've got yourself a fantastic women, well done! Ultimately if she’s not interested in sex with another man then it’s not going to happen and that’s it, and it’s your duty as her sub hubby to respect her wishes. My wife and I met as swingers so there was never that issue of would she sleep with another man. I would recommend you consider a chastity device next and have your wife keep the key on her at all times as a symbol of her dominance, preferably around her neck, although my wife now wears my key around her ankle.

Chastity devices are difficult to get used to at first but IMHO there is no better way to show your wife that she is completely in charge as when she has the key to your balls. Definitely don’t start wearing it full time straight away, ease yourself into it and take it off for cleaning purposes at least every second day. Keep showing her BBC porn, particularly sites where the black man fucks the wife, I think ‘indecent proposal’ is one but there are others like that too.

Anyway, hot thread and good luck!
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Thanks... I am hoping she will read some of the stories I added and look at some of the pics and captions and get the idea of getting me a chastity device. It makes every present giving opportunity hot for me, hoping, hoping, hoping.

I have also added a lot of pics of women wearing the Queen of Spades tattoos, and the site to order them from. Also, a lot of pics of women wearing BBC clothing and other suggestive 'alternate meaning' clothing.
 
You may be best off to take the initiative yourself...

Cuckoldstanley,

Regarding:

cuckoldstanley said:
Thanks... I am hoping she will read some of the stories I added and look at some of the pics and captions and get the idea of getting me a chastity device. It makes every present giving opportunity hot for me, hoping, hoping, hoping.
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The idea of requiring you to wear a male chastity device may strike your wife as bizarre, so much out of tune with her religious nature which includes, I imagine, her man being "head of her household," that she may be highly unlikely to take that step on her own.

Thus... given this is what you want... a way to handle it may be for you to take the initiative, in a way something like the following.

1) Order or purchase locally the chastity device of your choice. Explain to your wife you've decided to wear it, because you find resisting the urge to masturbate too difficult and don't want to do so anymore behind her back. Shave your pubic area, adjust it so it fits properly (with or without your wife being present), and retain the key yourself, thus making your wife a passive observer in this exercise.

2) Unlock and remove your chastity device as often as you need to in order to wash and re-shave your pubic area and masturbate (after asking your wife's permission), or have sex with her (if she tells you she wants that), and also in order to "break yourself in" gradually to the intense horniness caused by not being able to masturbate whenever you feel like it. Gradually increase your times between removing the device to (say) something like once per week.

3) Continue doing all this on your own, with you being your own keyholder, while also increasing your responsiveness to your wife... gradually play a larger and larger role in doing the housework, and do whatever she asks you to do without debate or "setting it aside" until later.

4) At a time (possibly after something like one, or even two or three months of your "voluntary chastity") when you sense your wife has come to like the idea of you wearing a chastity device for her, and taking it off only when she gives you permission, tell her you would like her to become your keyholder... would she be willing to do that? If she says "yes," turn it over to her and ask her to please hide it somewhere only she knows where it is, or alternatively, wear it on a chain around her neck. If she says "no," continue your "voluntary chastity" until your wife is ready to become your keyholder.

5) Finally, negotiate with your wife the conditions under which she will temporarily release you from your device (say, for suitably good housework performance and other good behavior), so you can satisfy yourself or, if it is her pleasure to do so, have sex with her.

—Custer
 
Stanley, Find a way you can get into a situation were thier are Black men around you and your wife. A club or bar some social funtion, keep it light, friendly, dont stay overly long. Take her home, if you find a wet pussy, and a slighty nervous but quite amourous wifey your well on your way.
 
I just noticed Custer mentioned your wife has a religous nature, There are many friendly functions to attend at black churches. Skip the the rubber bit, the real thing will be much more inviting to her.
 
Custer Laststand said:
Cuckoldstanley,

Regarding:



The idea of requiring you to wear a male chastity device may strike your wife as bizarre, so much out of tune with her religious nature which includes, I imagine, her man being "head of her household," that she may be highly unlikely to take that step on her own.

Thus... given this is what you want... a way to handle it may be for you to take the initiative, in a way something like the following.

1) Order or purchase locally the chastity device of your choice. Explain to your wife you've decided to wear it, because you find resisting the urge to masturbate too difficult and don't want to do so anymore behind her back. Shave your pubic area, adjust it so it fits properly (with or without your wife being present), and retain the key yourself, thus making your wife a passive observer in this exercise.

2) Unlock and remove your chastity device as often as you need to in order to wash and re-shave your pubic area and masturbate (after asking your wife's permission), or have sex with her (if she tells you she wants that), and also in order to "break yourself in" gradually to the intense horniness caused by not being able to masturbate whenever you feel like it. Gradually increase your times between removing the device to (say) something like once per week.

3) Continue doing all this on your own, with you being your own keyholder, while also increasing your responsiveness to your wife... gradually play a larger and larger role in doing the housework, and do whatever she asks you to do without debate or "setting it aside" until later.

4) At a time (possibly after something like one, or even two or three months of your "voluntary chastity") when you sense your wife has come to like the idea of you wearing a chastity device for her, and taking it off only when she gives you permission, tell her you would like her to become your keyholder... would she be willing to do that? If she says "yes," turn it over to her and ask her to please hide it somewhere only she knows where it is, or alternatively, wear it on a chain around her neck. If she says "no," continue your "voluntary chastity" until your wife is ready to become your keyholder.

5) Finally, negotiate with your wife the conditions under which she will temporarily release you from your device (say, for suitably good housework performance and other good behavior), so you can satisfy yourself or, if it is her pleasure to do so, have sex with her.

—Custer
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Wow, I have thought of 'just getting one,' but your take is very interesting, as I do jerk a little too much! I will give this idea a lot of thought and consideration. Thank you.
 
joey7890 said:
Stanley, Find a way you can get into a situation were thier are Black men around you and your wife. A club or bar some social funtion, keep it light, friendly, dont stay overly long. Take her home, if you find a wet pussy, and a slighty nervous but quite amourous wifey your well on your way.
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This is a great idea. The only problem is we do not go out much, if at all... I have been thinking about a night out to a dance club or something. Thanks for the suggestion...
 
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