Well, it has been a while since I posted (you can run a search under my name for past posts). Since my last post, no progress has been made in the area. I have not, however, pushed the issue to any degree. Anyway, for my birthday next year, I am going to propose we go to the Seamountain Resort in California and see what happens. It sounds like a really cool place where "fun and good things" happen with no pressure. I like the idea it is stateside since I was not really keen on travelling overseas to hit Hedonism. Until then, I do not see any further progress. Would love to read about anyone's experiences at the Seamountain resort.