Strap On

[A n o n]

So, my gf said my penis is pretty small. And she's not happy about it. She said I can wear a strap on to fuck her. I have to pretty much agree and obey her. It's just deep inside I feel humiliated, but yet it turns me on.

How would you feel, emotionally, if your partner told you that? And if you've ever done it before, does it feel good doing your partner wearing a strap on? Because I can imagine I won't feel anything and it would be boring.

She actually said before that she wants to cuckold me someday, she even said she wants me to clean her up every time she fucks another guy. Those were the good days, but now she got tired of discussing it and I don't know anymore if she will really cuckold me someday. Because it seems she found a way/idea to have a good "sex" without involving another guy, by making me wear a strap on.

 

[Woodie54]

I do not think you seems very happy to use a strap on on your wife,I think you will be happy to see a next man bend her over,and she is loosing interest,so just find a guy who is interested in fucking her ,just inviter me over and I will prednisone to be your co worker And I will show her some interest if she is good looking ,hope to hear from you soon bye,

 

[vladdy]

I have had an ex-gf tell me that my cock was small. Although I have an average cock her lover had a big 9 inch dick and big balls. She would tell me I was so much smaller than him and she wanted his big dick more. It certainly aroused me and made her excited to talk like that, she didn't see him very long unfortunatly, but we had some intense sex during thinking about her and her lover.

A lot of times she would have me use a large dildo on her we would usually have sex afterwards but once and a while she would want me to jerk off while I used the dildo on her. It wasn't a strap on though. It would have been interesting to have the type of dildo where a man can put his penis into. It doesn't give you pleasure but the lady feels good.

 

[firedrop2007]

don't feel bad

Don't feel bad, at least she still wants to have an intimate relationship on some level with you.

I would first look at a penis sleeve/slip-over rather then a conventional "strap-on" The sleeve will give it more size/length and will make you last longer because you feel less sensation.

 

[Custer Laststand]

My gf said my penis is pretty small, and she's not happy about it.

Bummer...

She said I can wear a strap on to fuck her. I have to pretty much agree and obey her.

Good... you understand your position in your relationship.

It's just that deep inside I feel humiliated, yet it turns me on.

That's the proper response...

How would you feel, emotionally, if your partner told you that?

Probably the same way you do. But, if that were what she wanted I would do it.

And if you've ever done it before, does it feel good doing your partner wearing a strap on? Because I can imagine I won't feel anything and it would be boring.

You might consider getting a "Doc Johnson" vibrating hollow strapon (or google "hollow vibrating strapons"). That will give your woman more sensation, and since you can put your weenie inside it you too may find it stimulating.

Also, your woman can wear it and use it to fuck you up the ass if she wishes.

She actually said before that she wants to cuckold me someday, she even said she wants me to clean her up every time she fucks another guy.

Sounds like she knows what she wants...

Those were the good days, but now she got tired of discussing it and I don't know anymore if she will really cuckold me someday.

The mere fact your woman is no longer talking about cuckolding you does not mean she won't do it when she meets the right "bull"...

Because it seems she found a way/idea to have a good "sex" without involving another guy, by making me wear a strap on.

If that's what works for your women and she wants that, then purchasing a strapon and wearing it is, of course, what you should do. My guess, though, is that after the newness of it wears off, she'll begin to crave fucking well-hung men.

 

[A n o n]

Thanks for the post guys. I didn't know there are penis sleeve and hollowed strapons. That would really help a lot.

Btw, I don't think I'd let her to me in my ass. I'm not really into those. And I'm sure she isn't too. Also, I'm not sure yet if I want her to fuck another guy. She told me again 2 days ago, that she might fuck someone if she wants to, but then I got depressed about it because it seemed she was really going to do it. So I told her not to. I'm worried it might ruin our relationship. So I'd like to be very careful with our decisions. I mean, sure, imagining those is really hot. But it might not be good in long term.

 

[Custer Laststand]

More possible alternatives...

Anon,

Thanks for the posts guys. I didn't know there are penis sleeves and hollow strapons. That would really help a lot.

Good (and, you're welcome)...

Btw, I don't think I'd let her in my ass. I'm not really into that. And, I'm sure she isn't either.

No, no... of course not. A man's gotta' be a man, and a woman's gotta' be a woman, right...? Um... right?

As an alternative, and given your woman has bluntly told you your weenie is too small to satisfy her, you might consider introducing her to oral sex alternatives... for instance, per:

Queening:
The Fine Art of Queening and variations on this theme, such as:

Chin Dildos:
The Accommodator Chin Dildos, Face Dildos, Head Dildos, Facial Dildos

To increase your woman's comfort while she queens you, you might introduce her to:

Queening Furniture (“Queens and Kings”):
queens and kings-queening

(or google "queening furniture" for other sources). For illustrations of possible positions, you might suggest your woman go to "It's Origins," here:

queens and kings-queening

and scroll down to the lower half of this sub-page.

Also, I'm not sure yet if I want her to fuck another guy. She told me again 2 days ago, that she might fuck someone if she wants to, but then I got depressed about it because it seemed she was really going to do it. So I told her not to. I'm worried it might ruin our relationship.

One can't be too careful, of course. But, it's good your woman gave you another glimpse into your probable future. If she keeps at it, she'll gradually decrease your resistance to this concept.

So I'd like to be very careful with our decisions. I mean, sure, imagining this is really hot. But, it might not be good in the long term.

On the other hand, having a conventional monogamous LTR or marriage might not be satisfying in the long run either, given your woman has told you your weenie isn't large enough to satisfy her.

Meanwhile, while you're gradually adapting yourself to your woman's desire for a "cuckold husband / hotwife" or "cuckold BF / hot GF" style relationship, if she finds herself growing bored with you she might consider this additional alternative to conventional sex which would have the benefit, from your point of view, of still being monogamous:

Strapon primer:
Take It Like A Man - Pegging and Strap-On Sex

And as a gift for your woman, for the two of you to start thinking about (if not actually carry out, until the time is right), you might consider purchasing a copy of the DVD "Bend Over Boyfriend" which is available from online sources (such as Amazon) or, possibly, a local sex shop. Apparently it's quite popular.

—Custer

 

[Saraha]

Thanks for the post guys. I didn't know there are penis sleeve and hollowed strapons. That would really help a lot.

Btw, I don't think I'd let her to me in my ass. I'm not really into those. And I'm sure she isn't too. Also, I'm not sure yet if I want her to fuck another guy. She told me again 2 days ago, that she might fuck someone if she wants to, but then I got depressed about it because it seemed she was really going to do it. So I told her not to. I'm worried it might ruin our relationship. So I'd like to be very careful with our decisions. I mean, sure, imagining those is really hot. But it might not be good in long term.

Dithering around is not very manly. You have already seeded her mind with the fantasy of cuckolding you, and like a pumpkin in the garden it is slowly growing in her mind. It is probably too late to back out now.

She has discussed strapons and you should have gone "all out" to get one, but you haven't, so the idea of taking lovers is in her daily thoughts.

She will have read enough porn on the internet to know other women enjoy using strapons to peg their boyfriends, so she is going to be in charge from now on, and the possibility is real that you could lose her, eventually, if she continues to feel you are not taking enough prompt notice of her needs.

If a strapon is purchased, then you need to let her use it on you as well as you using it on her. This is the only way you will be able to feel what it is like for a girl to get fucked hard and boldly.

You are so lucky that your girlfriend is open-minded enough to try different types of sex at a young age. This augers well for a good married sex life.

If you remain a member of this website, you will hypnotise yourself to become a full-blown cuckold, because you feel intrigued in the lifestyle and may find yourself logging on often out of curiosity. Your mind is being seeded and if you read a lot of my posts, you will notice why a vanilla lifestyle won't suit you anymore.

I would recommend that you discuss with your girlfriend whether you can wear some of her underwear for a few weeks to get a feel of what being a submissive cuckold is like. When you are in her panties, you will find you are quicker to agree with her about what she needs and wants.

Wearing female panties helps you to get in touch with the female side of your personality for a change, and helps you see your girlfriend's point-of-view about your relationship with her. You have to be on her wave length to have a meaningful discussion - otherwise you and her will be poles a part (excuse the pun).

Unless you are truly willing to see life from her point of view, you will remain anxious about your relationship, because you won't know what is happening in her mind - and why she is eyeing up suitable guys to sleep with.

When she imagines having sex with other guys, her mind movies are vivid with details and when the occasion is right, her subconscious mind will lead her to a stranger who will pound her slopes like being on automatic pilot.

 

[cagedcock]

Seriously man, once you start down this road you will realise that your whole reason for existing is to give your woman whatever she wants and deserves. We have been using a strap on for around 3 years now (it started by her pegging me) but as we progressed into male chastity we started using one on her as I wasn't allowed to put my cock near her or in her. You will come to realise that she gets what she wants and you should be happy knowing that as you thrust that large cock into her she is imagining that it is a anyone but you that's doing it. Embrace it, and try the sissy way because you might realise that this is what life was ment to be for you. I did and have never been happier

 

[vladdy]

I hate to say it Anon but if your girl friend wants to fuck other guys, she wants to fuck other guys and will probably just go behind your back. I know it is a lot more fun just to know what is happening then to have things going on behind your back. A benefit to her being with a more “well endowed” gentleman with your knowledge and consent will be that she may be less inclined to have you use the strap on when you two have sex.

The major issues you would face are jealousy on your part and her lying for some reason or another. If neither of you two have those problems I don't believe your relationship will be in jeopardy. There are plenty of places in the world where monogamy isn’t the norm necessarily so just remember is a western attribute as to why you don’t want her to sleep with another man, not a human attribute.

 

[tyrone25]

Do you have a picture of the penis sleeve?

 

[TerryCrow]

Do you have a picture of the penis sleeve?

And then you two talk. To each other. Out loud, using words in whatever common language you have.

I’m wondering why you would want to use one of these? Odds are it will notincrease her enjoyment of sex or make her more likely to have an orgasm. Will it increase your enjoyment of sex? Really?

If you want her to have a great time having sexual intercourse, you could try asking her what she likes about it and what she would like more of. If she is like the majority of women, she is not likely to have an orgasm from sexual intercourse, and it doesn’t matter how large or how small the penis is, or how long you thrust, or how hard you thrust Penis enlargement kit Uvipe MAX+. System of 3 types of extenders at $349