The time has come

[Mrjohn]

I was made aware I hadn't updated much.

In short I haven't directly asked her yet but interestingly our sex life has upped a gear.

On Friday night when we were away after I came quite quickly in her she had me lick her out including my own cum which was an odd sensation. She then begged me to fuck her more but I was spent and because we were away we didn't have her dildos. I ended up using my hand really hard but she still kept begging for a cock.

This feels like a positive step?

 

[RockHER]

Very positive step. This was the perfect time to have teased her about needing another man! She was ready and you lacked the balls to pull the trigger.

 

[Mrjohn]

You're right, I did bottle it and that is frustrating. On the plus side, I feel like she is naturally moving along as well which is encouraging.

 

[RockHER]

You're right, I did bottle it and that is frustrating. On the plus side, I feel like she is naturally moving along as well which is encouraging.

The majority of people, both men & women fantasize about fucking others - and that plus the fact she wanted more fuck play confirms that.

 

[bcinu2]

Why should any be denied to have their fun? If it turns you on and she has desire to have more then who bottle it up. Instead open it up and get on with the most you both can desire.

 

[Mrjohn]

Why should any be denied to have their fun? If it turns you on and she has desire to have more then who bottle it up. Instead open it up and get on with the most you both can desire.

I do agree but this is not a small step, though I feel we are making small steps forward.

 

[bcinu2]

I do agree but this is not a small step, though I feel we are making small steps forward.

Mr.john I would like to enjoy some of your gorgeous wife if you both agree. I am in Ohio. Spo perhaps we can get together. Thanks, Bill

 

[Mrjohn]

Mr.john I would like to enjoy some of your gorgeous wife if you both agree. I am in Ohio. Spo perhaps we can get together. Thanks, Bill

Bcinu2 it's genuinely thrilling for me that you would like that but sadly we are not anywhere close to you.

 

[asian/wife2bowned]

The most important thing to keep in mind no matter how you bridge the topic to her is NOT TO MAKE IT ABOUT YOU !!!!
It must be all about her; her pleasure and for enhancing your sexual play. At the same time let her know clearly that you are not seeking or planning to use this as a green card for you to fuck other women.

If you get what I said to her and been smart how to navigate her mind it will work beautifully and she will unfold the hidden slut part of her and embrace your needs far more than what you bargained for.

 

[Bishot]

You need to start the conversation in the context of a fantasy or a turn on that she has already. If you already know her most secret fantasies/turns ons, then it should be easy. If not, then you need to lay some ground work and find out.
If there are male celebrities that she thinks are super hot, or an old acquaintance, that can be a place to start.
If she's ever shown interest in a MMF threesome you can start fantasizing together about that.
If you guys ever watch porn together, that makes it easy, just steer her towards the right type and see if she responds.
Taking her out in public dressed sexy can also work, see how she responds to the attention of other men and start working from that angle.
You have to get her imagination working on the possibilities, then encourage it and be patient. Be open and receptive to whatever form the idea takes in her mind, it won't be the same as what you're picturing.

 

[Bishot]

Maybe make teasing comments/suggestions about the UPS driver or the plumber or the hot guy who lives down the street. Those are always fun teasing material for me and my wife.
She jiggled her boobs at the UPS driver yesterday and had this cute, self-satisfied smile when she came back in and told me about it

 

[Eppie]

Agree with the teasing comments/suggestions and always compliment her when you are out. Either genuinely tell her after the event or make one up that she was getting looked at by another man/men.
When you went to the toilet in x did you notice those guys in the corner watching you? They couldn’t take their eyes off your xx. Who can blame them. Then let her reply. Don’t escalate to quickly Doing it after the event is “safe“ for her, nothings going to happen but her imagination can run wild.
During sex that night, laugh to yourself and when she asks you about it, just say, I was just thinking how jealous those guys at x would be knowing I am fucking you/ making love to you, they would be so jealous. Again gauge her reaction.
If you have any friends over, make sure you mess up a draw where she keeps her lingerie/underwear/dildos etc so it’s obvious someone‘s been in there. Casually mention to your wife a reason why x was alone in that room. If it’s the bedroom, looking for your mobile, you searched downstairs he searched upstairs, took ages to find, for example. She will immediately think he has been in the draw when she goes into that night and again her imagination will run wild.
During sex with her using her dildos comment on the size, I wish I had a cock this size so I could get really deep in you, or I wish I had two cocks so I could fill you up at the same time. Imagine that, would you like two cocks in you? You have taken out the other person and it’s just about you having two cocks. Again the situation is unreal and “safe” so judge her reaction. If she seems like she likes the idea start building on it. Turn it onto you so she’s not embarrassed by it. I think you would look great with two cocks in you, the idea kind of turns me on, only as a fantasy of course. What do you think would it be fun?
If she makes you go down on her again, don’t ignore what she’s making you do, comment on it. Wow, that looks like you have been having sex, you taste amazing, this really turns me on. Have you been dirty?
Continue to go slowly....