Well, thanks to having alternate Fridays off, I decided to take a break from my domesticated duties of the day and do some work in our home office. And what might my eyes see? My husband apparently left his account open! So, here I am, posting on his account.
Some background... My husband and I have been together for 15 years. Used to lightly "swing" off and on for most of those years. However, in the last 6 or so months, he has brought to me the notion of being a cuckold. We've talked about it often and discussed what he likes, what I like, and any concerns either of us might have. In the past, I had taken on pseudo "boyfriends," but one thing was very different.... I never *shared* my experiences with my husband because I thought it would be a slap in the face to him. Hmmmm... little did I know! So, when hubby came to me to talk about being a "cuckold," our relationship completely evolved....... Wanting to truly understand, I decided to do my own research and began to truly understand what my husband likes, desires, needs. The amazing thing is that what I like, desire, and need compliments all his likes, desires, and needs! As we have an inside joke, "it is a complete win/win!"
So, I've learned about changes in control, in humiliation, and to show him that I understood, I had a necklace made for him for our anniversary. The outside has a sideways "X" on it representing horns, with the following inscription on the inside, "Horns Adorned for My Love." Together, we picked out a special holder for the necklace and when I put the necklace on the holder, it means he is to wear the necklace and must refrain from any arousal. Of course, we're on the honor system here, but I felt it was a small step in the right direction as I am generally a pretty submissive lover.
It has been an amazing experience for us both. We have always had a strong and close relationship, but this has really taken us to another level.
Now understanding the mindset behind the cuckold, I can't wait for him to read this post!
Oh, and by the way, he doesn't know this yet, but I have a date tonight!
Some background... My husband and I have been together for 15 years. Used to lightly "swing" off and on for most of those years. However, in the last 6 or so months, he has brought to me the notion of being a cuckold. We've talked about it often and discussed what he likes, what I like, and any concerns either of us might have. In the past, I had taken on pseudo "boyfriends," but one thing was very different.... I never *shared* my experiences with my husband because I thought it would be a slap in the face to him. Hmmmm... little did I know! So, when hubby came to me to talk about being a "cuckold," our relationship completely evolved....... Wanting to truly understand, I decided to do my own research and began to truly understand what my husband likes, desires, needs. The amazing thing is that what I like, desire, and need compliments all his likes, desires, and needs! As we have an inside joke, "it is a complete win/win!"
So, I've learned about changes in control, in humiliation, and to show him that I understood, I had a necklace made for him for our anniversary. The outside has a sideways "X" on it representing horns, with the following inscription on the inside, "Horns Adorned for My Love." Together, we picked out a special holder for the necklace and when I put the necklace on the holder, it means he is to wear the necklace and must refrain from any arousal. Of course, we're on the honor system here, but I felt it was a small step in the right direction as I am generally a pretty submissive lover.
It has been an amazing experience for us both. We have always had a strong and close relationship, but this has really taken us to another level.
Now understanding the mindset behind the cuckold, I can't wait for him to read this post!
Oh, and by the way, he doesn't know this yet, but I have a date tonight!
