This is me

[Sowrong]

Sometimes the first step is to admit who you are right?

Im not sure what this is the first step to but this is me:
Im married, early 30's. We have two children.

Im average penis size I think - Ill try add a pic later if people are interested.

After our second child my wifes bits got bigger. Ive since found it harder to stay hard in her and often end up going inside her soft much to both our disappointment.

Shes also become more self conscious about her body since our second child and my lazy cock doesn't help.

Ive since become quite interested in cuck ways.

I feel it could solve many issues, her self esteem and give her penetration plus spicing up our sex life.

There, said it.

No idea what my little confession means on a site where others guys wives get screwed every night but hey-ho.

 

[monitaur]

Welcome

First off, our experiences are like snapshots. What may be the norm today can be totally different next week. In addition to that, there are a wide spectrum of users on the forum. I was overly harsh to a new poster regarding chastity (which I have no use for, for obvious reasons) But some people get off on that. Don Rumsfeld, apparently gets off on I.C.B.M.'s The point is that there are cuck/hotwife/bull wannabees as well as those who are actually in the lifestyle. We live moment to moment. We are dynamic, not static. If this sort of kink turns you on, you must ask yourself whether it might be in the realm of possibility that your wife would like it too. Is she open to discussing her turn ons or offs? Do you engage in pillow talk? It is crucial to exercise non attachment with most sexual fantasies and especially this one. Purely fantasy for your benefit is plenty enough to start with and never any need to take it farther unless the Universe tells you otherwise.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Sowrong,

Welcome!

Sometimes the first step is to admit who you are, right?

Well, in some sense, I suppose... keeping in mind that this is an anonymous forum.

I'm not sure what this is the first step to, but this is me:
I'm married, early 30's. We have two children.

That's OK... lots of men are married. Congratulations, re. having two children.

I'm average penis size, I think...

Nothing unusual about that. Most men have about average-size penis's, by the definition of "average."

After our second child, my wife's bits (vagina?) became larger. I've since found it harder to stay hard inside of her, and often end up going inside her while soft, much to the disappointment of both of us.

If you haven't tried the now-widely-used erectile aides (Viagra, Cialis, and one or two equivalent brands) that increase blood flow to the penis during arousal, thereby countering ED, you might consider doing so...

[My wife has] also become more self-conscious about her body since our second child, and my lazy cock doesn't help.

Would it help if you were to assist her with a weight-loss program...? Perhaps encourage her to join a gym, if that's affordable, and go there for regular workouts while you look after your children...?

I've since become quite interested in cuck ways. I feel it could solve many issues, including her self-esteem problem, and give her [the] penetration [she needs,] and spice up our sex life [as well].

A way to test your wife's level of interest in this possibility may be to start play-acting when you have sex with her. Begin suggesting fantasies in which she imagines herself dating an attractive "other" man, and flirting with him, while you compensate for your ED problem by going down on her and sucking her pussy, occasionally pausing to verbalize the fantasy, thereby bypassing anxiety on the part of both of you over your difficulty getting it up and staying hard. Try to continue gently and erotically sucking and licking her pussy until she orgasms.

Then, if your wife responds favorably, gradually... not all the first night... expand the fantasy until it includes dating, flirting, and going to bed with an attractive "other" man, and him bringing her to an intense orgasm with his large cock, all while you give her oral sex, sucking and licking her pussy.

There, I said it. No idea what my little confession means, on a site where other guys wives get screwed every night. But, hey-ho.

It's common to assume other people have much more sex, and certainly much more satisfying sex, than one has with one's wife, LTR partner or woman friend. But, that... most often... is just a fantasy instilled by the super-high levels of sexuality conveyed in movies and advertising.

You can consider sex with your wife to have been successful, so far... in the sense that it's yielded two children who are healthy (I gather). So far, so good!

—Custer