My wife is very much into the idea of fucking other men. Both with and without me present. I suggested that she could have men over if I'm encased in bondage and she jumped on the opportunity. Slowly she has opened up to me about some of her other desires. They include being gang banged and also watching as another man fucks me and makes me suck his dick. The taboo of it seems to arouse her.
I find it very humiliating and emasculating - and am aroused by it - and those feelings have morphed into the desire to have the emasculation of those scenarios expressed in being feminized as well. Trapped as a girl alongside my wife and both of us being used by the alpha man. Things like chastity cage, panties, heels, etc. Maybe not full blown makeup/wig/etc (but I'd try it given the opportunity). I feel like if my wife wants me to take a cock in my ass I should go all out and just be a girl. For some reason it also seems like it is easier to accept another man coming over to fuck us - if I just give up on being a man all together for that time - and accept a role as a girl alongside my wife where we are both only there to please a man and service his cock.
The problem is that any time I have hinted or suggested anything along the lines of crossdressing or sissification my wife has shot it down immediately. She said she isn't into girly guys at all and its a turn off. She wants me to be a man and sees me as a man. I'm not sure what to do - other than talk to the other man and see if he wants to insist on it and overrule my wife.
Yesterday I tried to articulate it to her. Something along the lines of if another man is coming over there is only room for one man, and I need to fill another role. Especially if he is going to be fucking me - it would only make sense I don't have a usable cock and am dressed the part to add to the humiliation + further emphasize his dominance. She didn't seem to get it.
I have some chastity cages we've played with and she doesn't mind those.... as well as some thongs that I wear from time to time and she plays along with that. But it seems like she is drawing a hard line at heels, shaved legs, bras, stockings.
Anyone else deal with this and have tips or suggestions?
I find it very humiliating and emasculating - and am aroused by it - and those feelings have morphed into the desire to have the emasculation of those scenarios expressed in being feminized as well. Trapped as a girl alongside my wife and both of us being used by the alpha man. Things like chastity cage, panties, heels, etc. Maybe not full blown makeup/wig/etc (but I'd try it given the opportunity). I feel like if my wife wants me to take a cock in my ass I should go all out and just be a girl. For some reason it also seems like it is easier to accept another man coming over to fuck us - if I just give up on being a man all together for that time - and accept a role as a girl alongside my wife where we are both only there to please a man and service his cock.
The problem is that any time I have hinted or suggested anything along the lines of crossdressing or sissification my wife has shot it down immediately. She said she isn't into girly guys at all and its a turn off. She wants me to be a man and sees me as a man. I'm not sure what to do - other than talk to the other man and see if he wants to insist on it and overrule my wife.
Yesterday I tried to articulate it to her. Something along the lines of if another man is coming over there is only room for one man, and I need to fill another role. Especially if he is going to be fucking me - it would only make sense I don't have a usable cock and am dressed the part to add to the humiliation + further emphasize his dominance. She didn't seem to get it.
I have some chastity cages we've played with and she doesn't mind those.... as well as some thongs that I wear from time to time and she plays along with that. But it seems like she is drawing a hard line at heels, shaved legs, bras, stockings.
Anyone else deal with this and have tips or suggestions?