Tired of keeping it all inside!

[irishwit@hotmail.com]

Hello,

I'm brand new to all of this, so please, do be patient. I can't really tell you what I expect to find in Cuckolds, but from what I understand so far it's an ideal place for me. What can I say? I've been married for almost 25-years and the relationship between me and my spouse has become, well, "comfortable". Over time it's become more like a business partnership than anything else and oddly enough, we seem o.k. with that, but I have to say I'd make a damned lousy priest. So let me make this brief, at least for now.

I've been horny all my life, probably now, more than ever! For many years I had no problem satisfying myself and others, an I'm more than certain I still could. Problem is that sex without a partner can make for a great deal of frustration. Yes, I look at internet porn and yes, masturbation happens. Truth is, it's just not enough and I would so much like to make a female friend (or friends) that I could at least talk to, if nothing else. Someone I could tell my fantasies to, and more recently, fetishes. If there are females who think they help, please make contact. There's so much I want to express and so much I want to hear. Thank you.

Sincerely,

Irish

 

[Custer Laststand]

Irish,

It sounds like what you're looking for is a way to persuade your wife to accept you fucking other women. On the other hand, since this is a cuckolds forum, I'll assume you may also have an interest in persuading your wife to fuck other men.

If so, you might begin by reading this article:

Susan Gower on natural cuckolding of husbands by married women:
The Science of Cuckoldry Cuckold Couple

Then this article:

Dr. Cherry Lee on the cuckold husband / hotwife phenomenon:
Bold :: Brazen :: Beautiful :: Scandalous – A site for women : Scandalouswomen

Then, if you decide this is what you want, you might consider proceeding along the lines of the 8-part article that begins here:

Persuading one’s wife to become a hotwife:
A Wife Into A Hotwife Hot Wife Blog - hotwife and cuckold husband fetish discussion

I suggest keeping in mind, however, that the probability of success will be a function of your wife's personality. If she's of "the old school" in her ways of thinking about marriage, and/or if it has always seemed to you she's never been strongly interested in sex (i.e., she has a low sex drive), and/or she's "set in her ways" of thinking about herself vis-a-vis her relationship with you (i.e., it's important to her to maintain her self-image as a "GoodWife" by being faithful to you), then:

—> your wife may be a poor candidate to become a hotwife. <—

If so, making a sustained effort to move her in that direction could result in destruction of your marriage.

—Custer

 

[Custer Laststand]

.... this is a 2006 posting you're replying to ...

Hm... you're right. For some unknown reason or other I don't seem to have gotten into the habit of always looking at the thread-origination dates.

BTW, "Maury" is on my ignore list but his posts show up anyway, with "this post is blanked out because the poster is on your ignore list" substituted for whatever he said. Thus, his posts still junk up my forums — and everyone else's forums, presumably — because whatever thread he replies to, be it years-old or otherwise, is bumped to the top of the current threads list.

—> This seems like a defect in the "ignore" mechanism. It works, but only partially. <—