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Trying to get her to be open to the idea of having other lovers

milehighclub

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Oct 28, 2013
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I have been trying for about a year to get my very faithful wife to go along with her picking up men to bring home or to just be with. She knows my fantasy of seeing her with a man or many men. She jokes and is playful about it in bed, but always says , "this can never really happen". How do I get her to take the next step.
 
Earliest steps for us were to name her favorite toy. She has a gel-type dildo that we named "Jim".
Our first steps where role-playing and having her/us want her to cum with Jim first before it was my turn.
Once she was into that, it was easier to suggest that we try the real thing.
I remember it being fun hearing her telling me that "Jim and I got together earlier" and to know what she'd been doing and fantasizing.
 
Great suggestion. At this point i will try anything.