My wife has told me that she would really love to cuckold me but I wouldn't be allowed to watch. She wants me to help her get ready for her dates and then leave me at home waiting. She would maybe call me from her Bull's place and make me talk to him, or send me the occasional photo such as her dress on the floor or his cock dripping of cum but no photos of them actually having sex so that I can only imagine what they are doing. So my question to you all is: What makes cucks more anxious watching or waiting? What do Bulls prefer?
Waiting or watching?
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I can only guess at what others may be thinking, but as the husband, I would definitely prefer watching. I have been in just about every possible situation where wife-sharing is concerned.
I have been right there in the room watching as he fucked her. I have also been in a situation where I could spy on them through the window when he didn't know I was there. And, I have been totally absent, but was able to talk with the other man afterward, and hear him tell me in detail just how he fucked my wife.
The important thing is that HE fucked her, and that you know about it!
I have been right there in the room watching as he fucked her. I have also been in a situation where I could spy on them through the window when he didn't know I was there. And, I have been totally absent, but was able to talk with the other man afterward, and hear him tell me in detail just how he fucked my wife.
The important thing is that HE fucked her, and that you know about it!
Another advantage/turn on,,, sometimes I have never even seen/met the guy. So after, I have no idea who he is, and they would never say (wife or him), so anytime after that, I have to wonder,,,,, has the guy standing behind me in the bank like fucked my wife? The guy that came to my business and bought stuff? Your mind goes everywhere. 
I must confess I'm probably a waiter too. I think I prefer the anxiety the comes with waiting. She definitely does not want me around though. She made that very clear to me. Although I didn't ask her why, it's probably the comfort factor. Out of sight = out of mind where she is able to lose her inhibitions. Some Bull's probably prefer that a cuck not be around for the same reasons. That way they can push her limits. I am assuming Bull's would be more respectful if I'm in the same room? I could be wrong though.
Pros and cons to both. Having experienced both - I'd say that both, for me, are almost equally arousing but in dramatically different ways. With the right guy and in the right scene, being there and watching is really amazing. But at the same time, the mystery of not knowing exactly what he's doing to her - and the agony of having to wait till she returns home to find out - can be incredibly arousing.
I would have to agree with the out-of-sight = out-of-mind thought in terms of her ability to let go, it seems to be much easier for my wife to let loose when I am not there. But I suppose there are situations and relationships (not mine per se) where the wife isn't as inhibited....
I do know that the one my wife's lovers who could be considered a bull did NOT like me being there or being a part of their sexual experience together. But at the same time, I cannot say that I think my being there influenced his respect of her - but then again, I wouldn't expect my wife to put up with anyone who didn't respect her regardless of dom/sub status.
I would have to agree with the out-of-sight = out-of-mind thought in terms of her ability to let go, it seems to be much easier for my wife to let loose when I am not there. But I suppose there are situations and relationships (not mine per se) where the wife isn't as inhibited....
I do know that the one my wife's lovers who could be considered a bull did NOT like me being there or being a part of their sexual experience together. But at the same time, I cannot say that I think my being there influenced his respect of her - but then again, I wouldn't expect my wife to put up with anyone who didn't respect her regardless of dom/sub status.
As a waiter, RIGHT THIS MINUTE, I'm going through the hardest part. My wife went to diner with a guy she has been talking to online, exchanged pics, ect. They have been there for 90 minutes, and diner rarely takes that long. She will text at the end of diner and let me know if shes going home to sex him, or heading home. I am not allowed to text her first and interrupt.
So, I have ZERO idea, are they hitting it off and teasing? Are they just regular talking before she heads home? I can deal with the actual sex part pretty well, but the anxiety of not knowing really screws with your emotions. Being caged, I cant even watch porn and "help myself" to calm down.
So, I have ZERO idea, are they hitting it off and teasing? Are they just regular talking before she heads home? I can deal with the actual sex part pretty well, but the anxiety of not knowing really screws with your emotions. Being caged, I cant even watch porn and "help myself" to calm down.
2 hours later. I got her text saying “Heading to his house. Havin fun. You can ask him how I taste.” I replied with “Have fun. Take pics. Love you.” She wrote back “you know I will”. I wrote back “I’m sure you will. He taste you in the truck or bar?” She wrote back “Bar, on bar stool. TTYL”. I just wrote back “Hot”. Her last message sure seems like shes busy and wants to not talk to me. I cant wait for details. Very hot and exciting.
I just got the text that they got to his house.
I just got the text that they got to his house.
Shes been at his house for 2 hours, and still going, as I havent got the "I'm coming home text" yet.
You are correct, now the torment of,,,,, what are they doing right now?,,,, were pics taken?,,, 1 pic or 100?,,,,, were condoms used?,,,, and many others.
Yes, we talk about EVERYTHING after. What they did, how she felt, doing it again?
All I know at this point is he went down on her at the bar, on the barstool. No idea if others watched or it was empty. I know as much as you do,lol.
You are correct, now the torment of,,,,, what are they doing right now?,,,, were pics taken?,,, 1 pic or 100?,,,,, were condoms used?,,,, and many others.
Yes, we talk about EVERYTHING after. What they did, how she felt, doing it again?
All I know at this point is he went down on her at the bar, on the barstool. No idea if others watched or it was empty. I know as much as you do,lol.
It isn't for the faint-hearted. But it is an awesome moment when you realize he's cumming in her and you are there. My wife has held my hand at that moment at time and it is a very moving moment for us - I can almost feel her passion through her hand.
The anxiety of the moment is very much the worst part, afterwards, it is beautiful to see that she's enjoyed that passion and it even can give you a sense of pride that he's cum in her, or more aptly, that she's drawn it out of him through her desire.
The anxiety of the moment is very much the worst part, afterwards, it is beautiful to see that she's enjoyed that passion and it even can give you a sense of pride that he's cum in her, or more aptly, that she's drawn it out of him through her desire.
I have not yet been able to talk my wife into fucking other guys but if (and when) it happens I would much prefer being a watcher. I'm not sure I have the patience to wait at home wondering what she is doing, if she is with more than one guy,(would love to see her being gang banged) or maybe an ffm. I will say that I would much prefer her going out on her on than the situation now of her not fucking other guys.
VERY interesting night and change of events. Yes, they did play some at the bar. Yes they did go back to his place. Yes they did have sex for another 2 1/2 hours. I got about 40 pics out of it.
When she came home, we talked, as we always do afterwards (and before). As swingers, we had always had the rule of "no kissing" as many swingers do. About 10 years ago, we dropped that rule for her. Even though we dropped it, she still never kissed guys, just girls, as she felt kissing was still much more emotional. She told me, that they made out very passionately the whole time.
As she was telling me about the night, one word that that fell both from her lips and his texts was "how comfortable it was and how much they clicked". Although My wife had never met him before Wed, I had a few times (job/hobby related) and him and I got along like we had been best friends for years.
Well, as we talked, she mentioned how fun he would have been back in our swinger days, because all 3 of us mesh very well. She said she wanted to pretty much start seeing him exclusively BUT, only as swingers. So we all talked, and hes game. She will go over there alone sometimes to play, others we will all play together (both straight), plus hang out as friends and do non bedroom activities.
We hung out with him a few hours today and it was GREAT. She would bounce back and forth between us, teasing, flashing, kissing, ect, and me and him just talked normal conversation. It was soooooo comfortable, soooooo natural. We didnt have sex today, but we also planned on going out tonight, anyway.
So, we pick him up in a few hours, to head to a nightclub, where she is proud to be my wife and his girlfriend. Her and I talked a bit ago, and she feels so relaxed about it (other than being giddy). Looks like we are entering a poly type relationship, at least with him, as long as it works.
Funny how life throws curve balls at you sometimes.
When she came home, we talked, as we always do afterwards (and before). As swingers, we had always had the rule of "no kissing" as many swingers do. About 10 years ago, we dropped that rule for her. Even though we dropped it, she still never kissed guys, just girls, as she felt kissing was still much more emotional. She told me, that they made out very passionately the whole time.
As she was telling me about the night, one word that that fell both from her lips and his texts was "how comfortable it was and how much they clicked". Although My wife had never met him before Wed, I had a few times (job/hobby related) and him and I got along like we had been best friends for years.
Well, as we talked, she mentioned how fun he would have been back in our swinger days, because all 3 of us mesh very well. She said she wanted to pretty much start seeing him exclusively BUT, only as swingers. So we all talked, and hes game. She will go over there alone sometimes to play, others we will all play together (both straight), plus hang out as friends and do non bedroom activities.
We hung out with him a few hours today and it was GREAT. She would bounce back and forth between us, teasing, flashing, kissing, ect, and me and him just talked normal conversation. It was soooooo comfortable, soooooo natural. We didnt have sex today, but we also planned on going out tonight, anyway.
So, we pick him up in a few hours, to head to a nightclub, where she is proud to be my wife and his girlfriend. Her and I talked a bit ago, and she feels so relaxed about it (other than being giddy). Looks like we are entering a poly type relationship, at least with him, as long as it works.
Funny how life throws curve balls at you sometimes.
Some of these posters have said it exactly right! The husband should be involved if his wife is to be fucked by another guy. That's what marriage is! Right?
Sharing your wife's pussy with another man is just an extended form of giving her sexual pleasure, yourself. It is your job as a good husband to see to it that she has all the orgasmic pleasure she wants, and if some other guy's cock can give her pleasure that you can't, then by all means bring him in.
And I believe the husband has the RIGHT to be there and to watch and to be as involved as he can be without interferring with their fucking.
Sharing your wife's pussy with another man is just an extended form of giving her sexual pleasure, yourself. It is your job as a good husband to see to it that she has all the orgasmic pleasure she wants, and if some other guy's cock can give her pleasure that you can't, then by all means bring him in.
And I believe the husband has the RIGHT to be there and to watch and to be as involved as he can be without interferring with their fucking.
